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RE: is it possible - 4/24/2006 9:25:27 AM

darq

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Speaking of the working Dominant/live in slave situation ...

I cannot stand Dominants who will start everything off telling the prospective slave how she doesn't need to work outside his home. He is her purpose in life, pleasing him is everything ... She feels like, wow ... Its finally happening. I will be able to focus myself completely on him.

He moves her into his home ... Everything is great at first. Then it slowly starts to occur to him ... Hey, keeping a human pet is kinda expensive. Human pets need medical care, food, clothing (She can be kept nekid at home but you gotta take her out sometimes ...), sometimes they need corrective lenses so they can see or dental care or any number of things. Suddenly he becomes resentful. He's spending HIS HARD EARNED CASH on this ... What? She's a slave? Pfft.

She does his laundry, cleans his house, cooks his food, gives him head every night and every morning. She's his constant companion, eagerly awaiting his arrival. She's reponded tolerably to his training ... She tries not to complain too much or ask for too much. When she does ask, at least she begs now ... But wait ... SHE'S NOT WORKING. SHE'S NOT EARNING ANY MONEY!

It must be because ...

She's LAZY!

Sorry ... I had to rant ... I've been put in that position more than once. Partially why I no longer want a Dom in real life.

But yes, its absolutely possible for a dominant or master to fail the submissive or slave. What counts is how he handles that failure ... Does he pick himself up and try to mend it or does he point the finger at her and tell her its all HER fault? Thats the telling point for me.

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RE: is it possible - 4/24/2006 3:57:17 PM

MrrPete

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Being in the lifestyle doesn't mean you'll be any better at relationships than in the vanilla world.

Mr. Pete

available & looking

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RE: is it possible - 4/24/2006 6:26:13 PM

fyreredsub

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generally she is punished isnt she.

for some reason this one thinks of a Dom/Master that may be all about the capture of the sub/slave and not the keep

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RE: is it possible - 4/24/2006 6:29:14 PM

fyreredsub

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best verb this one could think of, c'mon now we often hear of slave failure as well
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this one does realize that Doms/Masters are not Gods and they make mistakes but isnt it what is done with those mistakes that counts.

this thread was to be about conflict resolution for a sub/slave not insulting doms/masters.

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RE: is it possible - 4/24/2006 6:31:23 PM

fyreredsub

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wow thanks.
what a great post.
but it doesnt seem she needs it right now.
perhaps this one will send the link to the thread anyway as an fyi

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