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Being on Camera - 9/5/2010 9:22:16 PM

rob21

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I would like to know your opinions on the following:

1. What's your feelings on being filmed by your partner while tied up or in a BDSM situation or scenario?

AND

2. Would you rather do a payed adult modeling shoot with a partner, on your own or not at all? Would it be okay if your partner was involved in a adult shoot without you? Would you watch?

I did some modeling when I was younger and really enjoyed it. Now that I'm older I would like to try some modeling of a different type. I'd like to get a few views on this, anything you have to say is appreciated.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/5/2010 9:45:19 PM

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Welcome to the forums!

To each their own on being filmed, but as for me and/or my partner, not no way, not no how!!

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/5/2010 9:45:43 PM

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no I don't mind him taking photos of me in any situations. It's his choice.

I however have zero interest in adult modeling or any other kind of modeling and would not be with my Master if he was in such a business.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/5/2010 10:31:58 PM

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Just be aware that any photos or video can come back to bite you in the ass later in life. Depending on your field, employers take a dim view of such things, and some actively look.

Now, to your questions:

quote:

1. What's your feelings on being filmed by your partner while tied up or in a BDSM situation or scenario?

It would depend on the relationship. I'm pretty much 'out' and do not have children (nor do I intend to have any), so I have a bit more freedom than many.

quote:

2. Would you rather do a payed adult modeling shoot with a partner, on your own or not at all? Would it be okay if your partner was involved in a adult shoot without you? Would you watch?

For me, not at all. As I am monogamous, it is unlikely that I would be with someone who wanted to do this without me.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/5/2010 10:48:31 PM

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Is this because you think it's immoral? Or is it because you wouldn't trust others getting involved?

I think I'd have a hard time sharing my partner, she would be mine and only mine and I would never want to change that. On the other hand, this would be quite an adventure. If we both enjoyed it privately, why not show the world how much we trust and love each other and make some money doing it?

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/5/2010 10:52:36 PM

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I don't care either way. I did solo modeling on cam for a while. Auditioned/interviewed for a company but never went through with it because they wanted someone to do male/female and my Master said female only or by myself. So I didn't end up doing it. He would never be on cam though.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/5/2010 11:39:31 PM

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For me it has to do with morals, integrity and it's not the type of lifestyle I want to lead with someone. I don't need to constantly have adventure in my life. I like my privacy and peace and quiet these days and have no desire to show the world anything at all about my life. I'm not an exhibitionist or voyeur.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/5/2010 11:56:25 PM

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if master wanted to take pics then i would be happy for him to . neither of us would want to be filmed by others or have me filmed by others

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 2:50:21 AM

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I'm even cautious of being filmed by people I'm with, because you have no idea where that's going to go after you have a nasty breakup or the other person changes into someone who doesn't care about what you want. Once you've been filmed doing sexual things, and it's on the internet, you've just prevented yourself from ever being a public figure (unless you don't mind a two-year scandal over your sex tape) or respectable performer. If you're in a business where the clients need to trust your "morality," (meaning, what the general public views as moral) you've also potentially flushed your career down the toilet.

This is especially a problem for women, since in almost all straight porn the man isn't even in the damn video (except for his lower half), and amateur stuff tends to emulate the professional videos. If the video hurt someone's career, it would be the woman's, since the guy could always pretend it wasn't him. I'm also not turned on by exhibitionism, and have a really hard time understanding this need to "show off" what one is doing in bed. If someone consistently wanted to put videos of me on the internet, I would tend to think they were just looking for approval from other men. Sort of a "look what I'm fucking, and what I can make her do."

So no, I can't see a single good reason to be taped having sex and putting it on the internet, but I can see plenty of reasons not to do it.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 5:06:36 AM

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Paid modeling? No way. I want to make sure the pictures are not out in the public realm.

He enjoys taking pictures of me when I'm all tied up. Invariably my first response is "oh no, I look terrible".

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 6:53:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

Just be aware that any photos or video can come back to bite you in the ass later in life.

This.

My former dominant and I used to goof around with videoing. When he died, there was a police investigation to rule out foul play < which was ruled out >. In the meantime the police gathered up stuff .... yep they got the videos and returned them to the next of kin, which was his Mother ! And yes, indeed she watched them to some degree. Very, very embarassing !
He and I had an agreement, because he had a terminal disease, that I would destroy them when he died. Unfortunately that cuoldn't be done. Despite me telling his Mother this, she still has them and won't give them back. IT's very creepy to know that a 78 year old Mother watched and has possesion of them. And was the breaking point in our previously good relationship.
So, no, I would never do it again.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 9:14:07 AM

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He enjoys taking pictures of me when I'm all tied up. Invariably my first response is "oh no, I look terrible".

That's the other problem. How am I supposed to enjoy myself when all I can think about is whether my hair looks cute??

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 9:22:39 AM

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If the video hurt someone's career, it would be the woman's, since the guy could always pretend it wasn't him.

This of course does not apply to me because you could never find another man endowed like I am.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 9:47:20 AM

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quote:

rob21:
1. What's your feelings on being filmed by your partner while tied up or in a BDSM situation or scenario?

I realize that people change their minds sometimes, but for me, for now, it's absolutely out of the question.

Here's why:

quote:

WyldHrt:
Just be aware that any photos or video can come back to bite you in the ass later in life. Depending on your field, employers take a dim view of such things, and some actively look.

Also this:

quote:

jujubeeMB:
I'm even cautious of being filmed by people I'm with, because you have no idea where that's going to go after you have a nasty breakup or the other person changes into someone who doesn't care about what you want. Once you've been filmed doing sexual things, and it's on the internet, you've just prevented yourself from ever being a public figure (unless you don't mind a two-year scandal over your sex tape) or respectable performer. If you're in a business where the clients need to trust your "morality," (meaning, what the general public views as moral) you've also potentially flushed your career down the toilet.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 10:11:45 AM

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I'm uncomfortable with being filmed because an ex decided to do it without my consent.
I've done some modeling, but nothing too risque. I am looking forward to my first fetish shoot (shibari). I agreed with the conditions that it be tasteful, not explicit and without nudity. B is welcome and he hasn't decided yet whether he wants to be there, but doesn't mind me doing it. He has stripped, done some adult modeling and a couple 'movies', and it could be fun if he wanted to do that again. I wouldn't participate, but I think I'd enjoy watching...
I like being naked but I don't like being photographed naked. My profile picture was taken by an ex who fancied himself a photographer and it's artsy but doesn't show too much. I've danced at a strip club but I didn't like the environment. I've posed for life drawing classes and I enjoy that, and J (the woman B and I have been seeing) is also very creative so she I are going to pose for each other to draw or paint.
I'm a bit of an exhibitionist - unless I know there's a camera.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 10:17:11 AM

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Hello there rob_with_numbers,

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ORIGINAL: rob21
2. Would you rather do a payed adult modeling shoot with a partner, on your own or not at all? Would it be okay if your partner was involved in a adult shoot without you? Would you watch?

I have no inherent problems with part 2 of your question. Models need love too.

I'm not very jealous, I don't think.

quote:

1. What's your feelings on being filmed by your partner while tied up or in a BDSM situation or scenario?

JujubeeMB made an excellent post.

Due the vast amount of judgemental people on this planet, the capacity for trouble is endless. Although I don't think I'd end up living in a country where it matters as much as in the US.

Carla Bruni (the French president's wife) has enough naked pictures out there for both of them.

Not that I'd know of course. Plus with >her voice<, you can't really blame her for anything.

I haven't ended up in such a situation, but I'm sure there are those who become vindictive after breaking up, which could be inconvenient.

Additionally, I really get nostalgic looking at old photos and videos and so I hate them! I start thinking: "Damn, I'm getting old again... *sigh*.

Whoever invented time is surely one sadistic bastard. When I find him..."

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ORIGINAL: switch2please
I'm a bit of an exhibitionist - unless I know there's a camera.

This sums it up rather nicely.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 10:20:07 AM

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I would like to know your opinions on the following:

1. What's your feelings on being filmed by your partner while tied up or in a BDSM situation or scenario?

Do you mean staging a scene or just having a camera on hand during actual play ?

AND

2. Would you rather do a payed adult modeling shoot with a partner, on your own or not at all? Would it be okay if your partner was involved in a adult shoot without you? Would you watch?

Who doesn't want to get paid ?

i big ole heart being in pictures with either of my partners.

However, when modeling is done, everything is staged. On my own is not the most fun, and as a hobby, i'd much rather be the one opperating the camera.

Again, modeling is staged, so if my partners wanted to model with someone else, i'd be fine with that. i would watch and stick around just for moral support, since being in front of the camera all day can be hard work.

I did some modeling when I was younger and really enjoyed it. Now that I'm older I would like to try some modeling of a different type. I'd like to get a few views on this, anything you have to say is appreciated.

In my old job, getting pictures for promotion was standard. imho, just start doing your own work and build up a good portfolio, it couldn't hurt if you chance meeting the right people.

i really enjoy putting together photos, and do so just for the art. If you enjoy modeling, find a friend that likes taking pictures and live it up. Even if you don't get paid, you've still had fun.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 10:30:02 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP
He enjoys taking pictures of me when I'm all tied up. Invariably my first response is "oh no, I look terrible".

That's the other problem. How am I supposed to enjoy myself when all I can think about is whether my hair looks cute??

The first time he did this I got all upset and when he asked what the problem was, I wailed "My hair needs washing"! First he calmed me down and then he explained it wasn't my hair he was looking at.

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 10:40:07 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB
If the video hurt someone's career, it would be the woman's, since the guy could always pretend it wasn't him.

This of course does not apply to me because you could never find another man endowed like I am.

Of course. I meant to add that. Where is my brain today??

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RE: Being on Camera - 9/6/2010 10:47:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

quote:

ORIGINAL: jujubeeMB

quote:

ORIGINAL: DesFIP
He enjoys taking pictures of me when I'm all tied up. Invariably my first response is "oh no, I look terrible".

That's the other problem. How am I supposed to enjoy myself when all I can think about is whether my hair looks cute??

The first time he did this I got all upset and when he asked what the problem was, I wailed "My hair needs washing"! First he calmed me down and then he explained it wasn't my hair he was looking at.

What was he looking at, your outfit??

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