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YoungBlondeSlave -> RE: Question for MASTERS only! (11/20/2010 1:56:47 PM)
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ORIGINAL: femasoslave
I'm curious....I have read many subby/slave women profiles on here and they have been single for a loooong while....in YOUR opinion....why do you think that is?
As a sub/slave myself, I have my own persnal opinion...that is that they have too many restrictions....in my opinion they should be and act sub/slave....which means that they should expect their limits to be expanded instead of being a definate.
When I was single and made up my mind that I definately 'needed' and 'wanted' a Master....I did NOT have a list of HARD limits.....i always believed that limits with a compassionate, caring and loving Master can always be expanded...its all a part of the leanring curve to be a sub/slave.
Maybe I was naive.....BUT maybe I wasnt....I have now the most wonderful, loving, adoring, romantic, passionate Master one could EVER wish for and truth be told......it didnt take long for me to find him!....His profile said it in spades to me.......since then....I have read many, many Dominant profiles.....and so many men are genuine here!.....it makes me wonder if the subby women really have no idea what they want....I am on the side of the Dominant men...not the subby women who if they were GENUINELY looking for a Dominant man...they would do ALMOST ANYTHING for them.(i wont bother replying to sub women....i am not interested in your opinions)
Wow, a lot of thoughts running through my mind.
1. Just because we have hard limits and you don't doesn't mean we're not "real" subs/slaves. For example, one of my hard limits is latex. I'm allergic to latex, it will kill me. That is not something to be "expanded" as you say but it is indeed a definite. So, if that means that I'm not a real submissive because I want to live through a play session, then so be it.
2. I want a Master, I don't need one. I want someone who will help to enrich my life, not give me a reason for living. I'm a strong, successful, independent woman who can and has survived well enough on my own. I need a Master who can do that as well. I'm not someone who ceases to function without the direction of a Master. Now, are there things that I need help on? Sure, everyone does and I would like a Master to help me out with that. But, I don't *need* one to do so, I can use other resources available for whatever assistance I need.
3. Yes, I know what I want and, I know what I don't want. I don't want some douchebag Dom (Master) asking me to sign over my home to him, to demand control of my money, to have me call him when i want to put gas in my car and ask him permission to fill my tank so i can go to work. I don't want someone who sits on his ass at home all day playing video games and watching TV, making a mess and then demanding that after I come home from work I clean it up and make him dinner. If that's what you want I'd be wagering that you're living in fantasy land because that'll get old in a heartbeat.
What I do want is someone who I can be myself with, fully. Not hide any parts of me. Someone who I can be completely transparent with. Not because I'm forced to be transparent but because he makes me feel safe and comfortable and able to do so without fear of judgement or punishment. Someone who has a terrific sense of humor, that I can have fun with. Someone who I would literally do anything for, not because he asked it of me but because I wanted to. I want to be with someone who my only thought is "what can I do to please him, make him happy and make his life easier." As opposed to "well, i better get it over with so i can do the other stuff i need to do." i want someone who doesn't feel the need to be "All Dom all the time." Because it's known, I know I belong to him, and he knows that I belong to him.
And, with the right man, I would do almost anything for him. But, I will not do almost anything for *every* man.
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