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Well, I guess I should get this over with - 9/8/2010 4:50:01 AM

inkSecret

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Many of you have seen me post on the boards already.
Most of you can see, I don't really take anything on CollarMe seriously.

At all.

"There's nothing worth being serious about on CollarMe to be honest."

... I have a sense of Humor.
This does not mean that I'm a "funny" guy

I want to share with the people who read this how I see my lifestyle.
Not "The" Lifestyle. I think the entire "Lifestyle" that people talk about on the boards is laughable
There is no Standard, and even if there was. That would be entirely uncreative.

To me.

"A Slave is the person who reaches the Closest a person can be to me."

I've had girlfriends. I've had flings, One night stands.

To be honest. I am that guy who goes into a club. I dance and I talk to people

I know girls are watching me. I know they're talking about me

They end up adding me on Facebook and I RECOGNIZE them from seeing them stare at me
...Because I have peripheral vision.

I'm still not confident about approaching women,

Even though I know they want me to.

So that's me. I'm the guy who walks into the club. I become the center of attention

I command the respect of my peers, and I dominate each little group with my wit and intellect.

People have pitied guys who've tried to tool me. I have stories.
So... Yeah, I'm good at talking. I'm good at writing. I'm great at making comebacks.

Call me a "people's person"

However.
I'm also technically a Sociopath.
It's hard for me to see people as Human and not just resources
Often times, I'll do my best to overcompensate for that fact by trying to treat people more Human than they might deserve.

But that's my shortcoming. Probably from a lifetime of watching people abuse each other

"And still try to play the victim."

And then I walk out.
Alone.

Unless there is someone who had the balls to approach me.
And engage me. Either Intellectually or with their Tits.

To be frank.
If a girl engages me Intellectually, it normally just leads to good conversation
If she engages me with her Tits, then it just leads to good sex.

"None of it leads to an actual relationship."

A Slave goes beyond connection for me.
A Slave is an extension of me.

They are made of three parts.

An Object, A Human, And Love

Most people seem to forget that Humans are multi-tiered.

To concentrate on any one aspect of it, is shortchanging yourself to only a third of what you can enjoy from someone.

A Slave, first and foremost is my right hand.
She is a Bodyguard. A Soldier. A pleasure Object. A secretary. A nurse.
She is both an Agent and a Bath Temperature Check.
She massages my sore muscles, and she also spars with me
She researches potential stocks. And she also blows me under my desk while I'm working
She cooks. And dolls herself up for my Glory. And my pleasure.

Yet

She is also Human, of her own personality and her own perspectives.
I have lived life through a hundred people's eyes.
I have managed to think as each of these people and to want, desire and act as these people
I did it to understand to them. Humanity is Compassion. It is also the thing that separates her from a Slave
To a very versatile Robot. Someone that I can give an idea
And she can twist it. She can put her own personal spin that is UNIQUELY hers
The humanity part of her, makes her DIFFERENT, and Glorifies me
Because what Glory is there in chaining yourself down to a Bimbo that acts like the very next Bimbo?

Which does not matter...

Except that she is Bound by Love. The glory that she would give onto me
Is nothing without Love. For many men have claimed that they have owned a woman
But have only proven that they have bartered her affections with Money, or Fame, or Lies
The respect and trust, is only a side affect of becoming one's hearts desires.
There are no limits with me. A slave will do as I have asked of her to do without hesitancy.
However. The contra-positive is that the only Slave I would consent to serving me is a Slave that would trust a rightful Master

And that my 'no limits' demands, have reason.
I would ask a Slave to jump off of a cliff, and expect her compliance completely
But she would already know the only reason I would ask of her this
Was because that cliff was more dangerous than the fall
And I've already got a plan to save her.
Under the correct conditions, we're all "no limits"

A slave to me.

"Is where "I" am that condition."

And that's not something I expect from every woman I meet
But it's not a title I give until there is nothing of her that stands between her heart and my will.

The term "Slave" to me is a respected title.
It means to truly be beneath me
And be above all others.

These are concepts I don't expect CollarMe to understand.
Which is the reason the only side of me that people get on here
Is my smarmy attitude that will look at a profile and just laugh and laugh and laugh

Because to see it any other way would ask me to have some kind of compassion

"If I had compassion while on CollarMe, it would just be painful"

I do expect my words to be copied
Mimicked
I'm not saying my concepts are original
But I have an eerie talent at putting words to things that people only understand abstractly

And I've been copied on CollarMe
Over and over and over
I once had a... An organized glossary of my profile
And some guy copied that, I got messages from people that showed it to me

The current thing on my profile has been copied.

I'm not really bothered by the copying, it's just that. They do nothing to Improve upon my concepts

If you're going to copy me. Obliterate me
Or at least MAKE it your own.

But don't just play a second rate fiddle to my Orchestra.
It makes everyone look bad.

< Message edited by inkSecret -- 9/8/2010 5:04:00 AM >

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RE: Well, I guess I should get this over with - 9/8/2010 5:19:48 AM

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Well thanks for that, i read a couple of lines, i'm sure you will win lots of friends and influence people, or of course it could go the other way! I'm betting on the latter at the moment! Perhaps a welcome is in order, hope you don't squander my generosity!

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RE: Well, I guess I should get this over with - 9/8/2010 5:26:24 AM

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Someone actually likes and understands this. I thought you should know.
'Nuff said.

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RE: Well, I guess I should get this over with - 9/8/2010 5:39:47 AM

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Since this is a belated intro, wishing you a belated welcome.

'Nuff said..............

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RE: Well, I guess I should get this over with - 9/8/2010 6:45:13 PM

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Hi ink,

If a girl "engages" you with her "tits", how on earth does that automatically lead to good sex? I'm thinking your math (you know, the part where the equal sign is significant) is off. Merely holding a picture of a Venn diagram isn't the same as "getting it".

Anyway, I hope your intro gave you a ton of non-serious, sociopathic pleasure.

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RE: Well, I guess I should get this over with - 9/8/2010 11:46:44 PM

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Ok, ink... First, I feel your pain. Really.

You're not a sociopath, though. A true sociopath would not care enough to write a diatribe like this. And would be better at masking their disdain.

Point by point:

>>There is no Standard

Are you paying attention at all? Most of the people here in this forum are saying exactly that. About the only thing they agree on, otherwise.

>>I am that guy who goes into a club

...and has a little game, great. But you're clearly a lone wolf, which tells me your game isn't shit-hot, just lukewarm. Congrats, that's still better than half the guys out there. Nothing to brag about though.

>>Which is the reason the only side of me that people get on here
>>Is my smarmy attitude that will look at a profile and just laugh and laugh and laugh

Appearances matter. If you appear smarmy, then you are smarmy. Nature wired people's brains to accept surface appearances for a reason -- because 90% of the time, things are exactly what they look like.

But you don't look 'smarmy'. The word means someone who is sucking up insincerely; false compliments, 'me too'-itis. Clearly that's not you. What this looks like is the classic 'Why can't people get me??' diatribe, which is a phase a lot of people go through. No shame in it - well, that's not true, but I at least don't think it makes you a bad person. Just an unsuccessful one.

The winners are the ones that end up presenting an image of solidarity, good times, and action. Being the center of the storm. The losers are the ones who lament the fact that nobody's on their level... even if it's true, you don't want to advertise it. When you figure that out, give me a holler, you may possibly have the makings of a good wing man. But you fail hard as a sociopath. Take it from someone who may or may not have a few suspicious-looking pill bottles in his cabinet.

I'm gonna let the rest of the post go, it's just too much.

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RE: Well, I guess I should get this over with - 9/10/2010 5:32:42 AM

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(Waves to you) I spoke with you briefly when you were newer to Collarme, and when I was under another name and face that...well, wasn't as "green" as my current one. :p

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"If I had compassion while on CollarMe, it would just be painful"

They do say that pain is an acquired taste. ;)

Seriously, it's not that painful to feel compassion for what you see on this site or in most places in life. Most of what I see in a place like this is self-inflicted, and while I feel some compassion for that (about the same as I would for a child who is very sick from eating too much Easter candy), it doesn't hurt because I know they can get out of their self-set traps if they really needed or wanted to. But most people are quite content with whatever they are doing that is causing this "suffering" and do not want out under any circumstances! We are all like that in some ways.

There are a few people on CM who understand what you're saying about masters and slaves, who, in fact, have taken things like cliff-jumping as natural givens, minimum requirements hardly even worth mentioning for ... well, decades, to be honest. There are not a lot like that, though, and while that makes what you are looking for much harder to find, it will make its eventual finding all the more sweet.

The "club way" is certainly easier. It's far simpler and, with many people, far more effective just to manipulate them on the crudest levels at which they operate (working the twin greeds for attention and entertainment, with tiny appeals to a desire to "appear good to one's self"--usually expressed as caretaking or service--thrown in for spice) than to engage rarer qualities into your service. But if you want anything else, anything more than being skilled at manipulating the simple greeds that control most people, you may find yourself waiting a long time before the genuine thing comes your way.

Of course, each time you encounter something that looks genuine but turns out to be quite lacking, as disappointing as it that is, you learn a little bit more about how to recognize the genuine--and perhaps how to be worthy of it. By the latter I mean how to be--not just appear as--someone who naturally attracts the genuine article to himself. Being is required, obviously, as the genuine isn't particularly impressed by appearances.

You do want to be that, I believe, and this desire is laudable. Getting there can be pretty painful, though.

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RE: Well, I guess I should get this over with - 9/10/2010 5:37:22 AM

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wow that was painful and not in a good way

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RE: Well, I guess I should get this over with - 9/10/2010 8:24:33 AM

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Creative writing?

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RE: Well, I guess I should get this over with - 9/12/2010 8:41:15 AM

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Yes, i didn't mean it to come out quite like that, it seems worse now i read it back, although at the time inkSecret says he doesn't take these matters too seriously. Which i don't either, hope you don't as well?

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