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Are women as shallow as men?

Yes

74% (80)

No

25% (28)

Total Votes : 108

(last vote on : 4/29/2006 6:40:28 PM)
(Poll ended: 4/30/2006 12:00:00 AM)

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 10:17:05 AM

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ORIGINAL: JohnWarren

Some people are shallow; some people are not.

That's really what it boils down to. Any "men vs. women" questions are going to get a variety of answers and speculations which will ultimately flare some tempers.

As for the argument of women being shallow because their husbands supported them...it is laughable, unless of course one thinks raising a family and running a household in days prior to television, technology, conveniences such as washer and driers and dishwashers (oh my!)....does not require cognitive and strategic thinking, planning and organization skills, budget management skills, and incredible patience, to name a few. Oh wait - the same skills needed in the work force!!

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 10:35:19 AM

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I have thought about it before I saw this poll, and I would have to say we are just shallow about different things...lol

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 10:38:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

I have thought about it before I saw this poll, and I would have to say we are just shallow about different things...lol

That sums it up pretty well.

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 12:11:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: lordbaltizar

I think woman in general are shallow since most have depended on men for there well being and being provided for,from the very start of existance and therefore did not require to do otherwise,that being said i do not believe woman have the same capacity as men in there mind sets to change since it is inherent in there makeup of being the weaker species,this does not mean i believe woman dont have the capacity to change ,what i am saying is they dont want to.~l.b.~

I don't agree with any of this statement at all. Women aren't the weaker species and many of us haven't depended on a man for our well being. Even in the very beginning the sexes have depended upon EACH OTHER to survive, men couldn't do it alone.
As for the question yes women can be shallow its not gender specific.

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 4:31:25 PM

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hell i've met some women MORE shallow than men. go figure.

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 4:45:09 PM

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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

To be honest, I don't care whether they are or not. As long as they find a reason to sleep with me, I'm happy.

Yours,

benji

You are just so shallow!

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 4:46:32 PM

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*looks around* ....... who's shallow?????

In an especially silly mood today . . . .
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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 4:51:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

quote:

ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

To be honest, I don't care whether they are or not. As long as they find a reason to sleep with me, I'm happy.

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benji

You are just so shallow!

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 4:57:28 PM

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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

You are just so shallow!

LOL

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 4:58:51 PM

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well, is wanting intelligence, smell good, and good kisser shallow? maybe in some ways... and we also find financial stability more important... but keyword there stability... if we're submissive, to an extent we're expecting him to take care of us in some way, so he has to be able to take care of himself, right? I'm probably gonna get attacked for saying this.. there is a bit of an aspect of looks, but I dont think nearly as much as in men. to me, someone usually looks good if I feel comfortable with them... because I associate the way they look with comfort.

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 5:09:42 PM

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Hey now...what is this dependence on men nonsense? Pffffft...I've never depended on a man for anything other than his sperm and I didnt even ask for those. I think shallowness depends more on AGE than anything else. Younger people (teenies and early twentiers) tend to be more shallow than older people. Too much MTV and BET.

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 5:13:40 PM

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Shallow women cost more but more readily deliver the goods than thinking women.

Perhaps this post is on the wrong thread.

< Message edited by meatcleaver -- 4/23/2006 5:14:32 PM >

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 5:15:57 PM

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Depends what part you are running a depth sounder over

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 8:31:49 PM

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It depends on what qualities you are talking about

It would be easy to point out general shallow qualities both sexes possess.

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 8:49:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: kittensmailbox

GO ladychatterley!!!

i myself, do not depend on men for anything... and dont say sex, because i much rather have my toy and get it right the first time... i am BI and rather be with a female over a male lover anytime... Do not get me wrong, men are nice and i do like them and it is a man's world... I just dont "need" them, like they want us to anymore...

Hmmm, not all men want women to "need" them. Nor do men want all women. Some men don't need women at all either the same as you. Gay or bi. Actually I just want one woman to need me and I'd hope I'd feel a need for her. The rest of womankind and mankind, I really don't care what they need or want.

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/23/2006 9:56:01 PM

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Tough question.......

Needs to be more choices. But I think I am going to agree both men and women can be shallow, but neither side really has the upper hand. It really boils down to an individual level.

If I disagree with someone, I respect their views and do not try to force the issue, for example different styles of teaching the same thing, such as puppy play. It is a matter of which way of teaching works well with the couple. If they try to force their views, then yes, I think they are shallow. If we agree to disagree, then I do not think that way. But if one passes judgement on someone without knowing everything, based on their egos, then yes, i believe they are shallow because they are not open to new styles.

The only time I question someone's judgement usually is on the young and experienced Dom/mes who think they know what they are doing, but do not. If they plan a scene for example on fire play and they have no experience at all doing so and roasts the submissive, yes I believe they are not only shallow but need to go back to their studies on the net. If it is a submissive wanting to try something new that would potentially endanger them, such as asphyxiation and choking, if they tell me "do it i don't care, my body is your's to do with and hurt as you please," I think they are shallow for not taking into account their own personal safety, and if it were a Dominant doing it for the first one, then yes, I would question and consider them shallow if they did not take into account totally the safety of others.

So it goes both ways really.. Do I belive women are more shallow than men? No, many are far from shallow, and there have been some great debates over the years. Do I think men are more shallow then women, not really..

It all boils down to what you consider shallow, the individual, the situation, and everything encompassing it.

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/24/2006 12:32:57 AM

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Just often in different ways. But sometimes in the exact same ways.
The best and worst of human beings is expressed in both genders.

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/24/2006 12:36:55 AM

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The average female is a better communicator than the average male. BIG SURPRISE - hello!!! Social condtitioning and ACTUAL sparks between right and left side of the brain. Men are awesome though - don't get me wrong!

Females Shallow? hehehe...

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/24/2006 1:01:32 AM

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I have one man friend who I find can go as deep as myself on an intellectual/emotional level(I'm a very deep person).
But I have met many many women throughout my life that has this ability.
Women I believe from personal experience are "deeper".
Now a question I would like to add
What about transgendered people?

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RE: Are women as shallow as men? - 4/24/2006 1:24:49 AM

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I think women are usually shallow when it comes to the size of a mans wallet and men are shallow when it comes to the size of a woman’s breasts it is just the way nature made people women look for supportive males and men look for women who will produce healthy babies. I don’t think you can really decide which sex is more shallow by discussing their personality traits men are usually strong and supportive and women are usually deep and emotional though that does not mean that I think members from ether sex cant be all of the above.

I personally don’t think there is a difference between the sexes in terms of who is more shallow it is just that men and women work in different ways.

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