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RE: Sadistic Master - 9/12/2010 8:20:54 PM

HisEvelyn

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I agree with the others who say such intense things so quickly are a big red flag. If my Master had come at me with such intense stuff when we first met, I never would have gotten involved with him. It seems like common sense to me that if a sub is new, the dominant/Master should take it slow and easy, to ease into discovering what the sub's abilities, likes and limits are.

I do not know what your situation is in depth, but on first glimpse it seems as if he is all about getting his intense kinks met, and that your needs/wants/safety are secondary, if of any importance at all. From one newer sub to another, please be careful and take care of you.

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RE: Sadistic Master - 9/13/2010 11:52:16 AM

aneeda

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Thanks for you all for your replies and messages.
I must to clarify something. I met that Master before meeting Master Soaul who is my Master now.
Master Soaul asked me to stop these discussions.
I thank you all again for your concern.
Regards

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RE: Sadistic Master - 9/13/2010 3:06:26 PM

mstrjx

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Ahhh.... so touching.

If only 24 hours were enough to bounce from one relationship to the next.

Where I get in line to take a number?

Jeff

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RE: Sadistic Master - 9/15/2010 4:33:49 PM

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I don't see why lactation and needles need to wait years until the relationship is solid. You really only need to know the person knows what they're doing and trust them.

In my mind there's no bond or "waiting till the relationship is solid" needed to do things like needles and lactation.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Urethra stretching, lactation, needles? None of these are appropriate play for a beginner.
He obviously doesn't care about your needs being satisfied also.

These kinds of things shouldn't be done until the relationship is rock solid which is a matter of years, not weeks.

I'd wish him good luck finding someone compatible and go look for someone who you are compatible with.

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RE: Sadistic Master - 9/15/2010 4:42:13 PM

leadership527

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ORIGINAL: aneeda
I met a very caring and mature Master. But ... he is sadistic he loves pain and torture. Should i accept this ?

Well... that depends? Do you want a sadist or not? If you do, then yes. If not, then you have to evaluate his other characteristics and decide if they are worth it. It is possible to find non-sadistic dominants.

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