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LadyPact -> RE: Domme / Sub marketplace - Imbalance in favor of Dommes (9/14/2010 9:36:32 AM)
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It's a little early in the day for Me to start saying the word "pussy" so many times in one post. Instead, I'll tackle this.
It is interesting to see Dommes commiserating on the various "cut and paste jobs" and how "stupid and insincere" the subs are. I wonder how much of this would remain, should the number of Dommes far outnumber the available male subs (this is not the case today). Obviously they can be as selective as they want in this situation, and apply rational and irrational selection criteria or no criteria at all. The male sub has to operate in this environment and learn how to do so very effectively or risk getting nothing at all.
Frankly, no matter which way the numbers swing, there really is no way to describe cut and paste emails or form letters other than lazy. That's just the way I see it. If somebody can't come up with three or four original sentences after reading someone's profile, exactly how do you describe it otherwise? As to the second part, like it or not, there isn't a single demographic on this site that doesn't include folks who are less than sincere. It's not unique to any one group, and I highly doubt, OP, that you are able to stand here and pledge that every male who has slapped the designation of "submissive" on themselves is the height of sincerity. You are looking at your own motives and we have our track record of being on the site for years with the thousands of emails that we've received. I think I'll stick with history, rather than your intent.
Stupid? Well, I'd have to really go back and look to see if I've ever used that word on the forums. I highly doubt that I have in regards to a person. Yet, I'll ask, what would your impression be of folks in New York who write someone in CA who says they are interested in local people only? How about ones who say they are looking for a Dominant to marry who is already married? Someone who says they can't attend public events that writes to someone who specifically states that she lives for them and isn't compatible with anyone who doesn't? I think we may have different definitions on intelligence.
I do happen to think a lot of this is going to change with the new spam filters that have been set up. I won't speak for anybody else, but it's doing wonders for My mail box. There are already fewer buckshot approaches, form letters, and random notes being sent out and that should help to eliminate the problem. As the crap gets cut down, those sending genuine notes of interest will be more likely to be noticed.
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