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LadyPact -> RE: Who has it the worst? (9/20/2010 6:23:50 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Jeffff
You are correct. I don't care about those I don't know. When I get to know them, I may or may not care.
I would however like to point out, by that post, neither do you.
Sorry about this, because it probably is off topic. Then again, maybe it's not.
I don't know why people don't get the concept highlighted in red. My *care* factor does work on a sliding scale. Very much like the way I prioritize people in My life. Just because a person has an account on the same website that I do, doesn't necessarily qualify. If I get to know that person through posts or emails, they are friendly, we have things in common, or they seem like a decent human being, the care factor goes up. When they don't have those things, are just a jerk, we have nothing in common, and we seem to have a different value system, there's not going to be a care factor. For example, some dude from across the country who has a piss poor attitude, why am I going to care?
Same thing goes for this idea of there are more men than women here, so women have it easier. There are a good number of folks that I would love to meet from here. Others, I would actually avoid. When you take things like that into consideration, the numbers change.
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