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menstruation - 9/19/2010 4:50:47 PM

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are there any mistresses that i could serve with my tongue and mouth during their period

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RE: menstruation - 9/19/2010 5:35:54 PM

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RE: menstruation - 9/19/2010 6:39:39 PM

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I normally would not respond to such a post because it only encourages this type of thing....but...I can't stop myself....

REALLY?!!?

You joined CM over two years ago, this your very first post.....and that's the brilliance that you decided to put out there? Have you not read a single forum thread to understand how this group interacts?

I shudder to think what you've emailed the women on this site. Have you read the various posts and journal entries from women complaining about the idiots who email them ridiculous one-liners? Here's a newsflash: they are talking about you. Please stop making it harder for good men to interact with the wonderful women on this site.

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RE: menstruation - 9/19/2010 6:40:13 PM

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I'm sure there are some. However, a woman, even a Dominant woman does not want to be someone's personal fetish delivery system. What happens as she gets older and stops having periods? Does that mean you will seek a younger Mistress and leave the Mistress you have been with for years? A woman is a woman for more than 4 days a month. What about the other 24 days? How will you serve her then?

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RE: menstruation - 9/19/2010 6:43:43 PM

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I normally would not respond to such a post because it only encourages this type of thing....but...I can't stop myself....

What is "this type of thing"? This may not be my cup of tea, or your cup of tea, however, it is a legitimate fetish. After reading OP's profile my only concern is that his fetish is all he wants. He doesn't seem to see a Mistress as a woman but only as a way to satisfy his fetish.

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RE: menstruation - 9/19/2010 6:56:58 PM

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ORIGINAL: hausboy

I normally would not respond to such a post because it only encourages this type of thing....but...I can't stop myself....

What is "this type of thing"? This may not be my cup of tea, or your cup of tea, however, it is a legitimate fetish. After reading OP's profile my only concern is that his fetish is all he wants. He doesn't seem to see a Mistress as a woman but only as a way to satisfy his fetish.

Peppermint:
I have no problem with the fetish....and am completely supportive of anyone who pursues their desires.

but he (I'm making a huge assumption....and might be wrong) has a profile here for two years, which means he must have at least read the forums to get a feel for how forums go, and rather than post something in a manner that is WAY more likely to get a response,from a Domme who might be interested in what he has to offer, his first post is the one-liner approach in a public thread.

Personally, I just believe tt's bad form. If you look at how most of the folks here approach a topic--even the taboo ones--it's usually in a manner that would at least solicit feedback/information from the collective online community.

EDITED to add this: there's a new scat thread from a new person who is looking for someone to do scat play with. His original post was intelligent, respectful and honest....and it's actually lead to a decent thread on a topic that most people do not understand/have an interest in. That's the better approach, in my opinion, and I predict he'll be far more successful finding a partner.

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RE: menstruation - 9/19/2010 9:02:39 PM

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To the OP:

Giving a woman oral sex during her period is very common and very vanilla [a man isn't a man until he's earned his red wings!].
Most lifestyle Dommes love oral sex, and is a requirement for many [the acronym is OSODD 'Oral Sex on Domme's Demand']
Most Dommes want oral sex throughout the cycle, and not just during their periods [although it's GREAT for cramps].
If you want to give oral sex only during her period, well, that's a fetish and bottom behaviour, which most lifestyle Dommes aren't into.

you decide which one you're interested in.

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RE: menstruation - 9/20/2010 7:12:36 AM

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Why do I keep wanting to say "get a girlfriend" when I read threads like this?

I was at a foot party the other night and this amazing young man was talking about how he couldn't believe how we women got approached! He couldn't fathom that kind of clueless behavior. We were also talking about the one sidedness of so many fetishes... sure, you want to X. Why would I want to permit that? What's in it for ME?

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RE: menstruation - 9/20/2010 11:54:53 AM

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wow where do you get your information?

I'm fascinated

quote:

ORIGINAL: Tantriqu

To the OP:

Giving a woman oral sex during her period is very common and very vanilla [a man isn't a man until he's earned his red wings!].
Most lifestyle Dommes love oral sex, and is a requirement for many [the acronym is OSODD 'Oral Sex on Domme's Demand']
Most Dommes want oral sex throughout the cycle, and not just during their periods [although it's GREAT for cramps].
If you want to give oral sex only during her period, well, that's a fetish and bottom behaviour, which most lifestyle Dommes aren't into.

you decide which one you're interested in.

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RE: menstruation - 9/20/2010 12:51:04 PM

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Why do I keep wanting to say "get a girlfriend" when I read threads like this?

I was at a foot party the other night and this amazing young man was talking about how he couldn't believe how we women got approached! He couldn't fathom that kind of clueless behavior. We were also talking about the one sidedness of so many fetishes... sure, you want to X. Why would I want to permit that? What's in it for ME?

Because the topic (even though it is a kink) has all the class of walking up to a woman on the street and asking her if he can lick her pussy?

That's My first thought on the situation at any rate.

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RE: menstruation - 9/20/2010 6:03:23 PM

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Well, that's par for the course on the other side, LP

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RE: menstruation - 9/20/2010 6:26:15 PM

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Not anymore. I report all such crap as spam now. It's done wonders for My email.

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RE: menstruation - 9/20/2010 7:33:35 PM

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Even the profiles and journals are full of it...

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RE: menstruation - 9/20/2010 7:36:19 PM

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quote:

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wow where do you get your information?

I'm fascinated

Seconded. Some women I've come across hate this; a rather smaller number seem to love it. Feelings are sharply divided - or, at least, that's been my experience. I don't know if that's true of Dommes, particularly, though.

I'd never heard of BJs reducing a woman's cramps when she's under the influence of The Curse, though. Fancy that! Well, I like to learn a new thing every year if I can.

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RE: menstruation - 9/20/2010 7:44:10 PM

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Orgasm's do reduce cramping.

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RE: menstruation - 9/20/2010 8:01:08 PM

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I'd never heard of BJs reducing a woman's cramps when she's under the influence of The Curse, though. Fancy that! Well, I like to learn a new thing every year if I can.

Happy to help spread the word! That's what should be taught in sex ed; lapping orgasms are far more effective and infinitely more pleasurable for cramps than running laps. All natural, and red wings are the ultimate in earth-friendly 'green' hygiene.
Every man I've had has been turned on by the scent and taste, but my last [the Aberdeen man] would even be disappointed if my period was shorter than usual. And a lot of women's libidos are highest during their period, but for me it's the run-up to ovulation that gets my jungle drums drumming.

Could that be the secret to world peace? Straight males can't receive blowjobs until they've earned their red wings? What a fabulous social experiment!
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RE: menstruation - 9/20/2010 8:26:56 PM

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Lol thankfully I rarely get cramps, or periods, b ut when I did, orgasms made the cramps worse. Really intense orgasms can cause awful cramps all on their own!

I never thought to try chewing on guy parts as a distraction! Brilliant!

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RE: menstruation - 9/20/2010 8:53:25 PM

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Ok LH. What is a foot party?????

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RE: menstruation - 9/20/2010 10:04:36 PM

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A foot fetish party, rayray.

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RE: menstruation - 9/20/2010 11:31:26 PM

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quote:

Tantriqu:
Most Dommes want oral sex throughout the cycle, and not just during their periods [although it's GREAT for cramps].
If you want to give oral sex only during her period, well, that's a fetish and bottom behaviour, which most lifestyle Dommes aren't into.

In my experience, this is very specific to each woman. Some women don't like oral sex much at all. Others love it, but don't want anyone near them (sexually) during their periods and don't have a high sexual drive during their periods. Another subset has higher sexual urges during their periods and may want oral sex, penetrative sex, and other kinds of sex during their period. I don't think there are any hard and fast rules. It very much up to how a specific woman feels and what she wants during this time... at least this has been my experience thus far.

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