Lockit
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I have a confession and an explanation. First of all I wouldn’t set someone up to fail intentionally and the answers to it all were all there in black and white. From what this person knows of me he could have known it was all a sadistic little joke with a chance of showing him that he didn’t know me and there wasn’t a foundation for what he was asking for and shouldn’t agree to something before that foundation is there. There was a good chance that he could have pulled this off if he had used his head or was truly sincere. I knew he was intelligent and wasn’t insecure. Those were big factors in this. However, he was trying to play me and still is and that was one of the objectives of this little joke. He was to prove himself one way or another and he did.
I was proving much about myself… and all he had to say was… whoa, you are creative, I wouldn’t want to piss you off and do this again, but that was sexy, funny, scary and you are the same. Anything like that, one sentence even, complementary or not. It didn’t matter what he saw, just that he saw something there. I gave him a great deal to work with. Anything that was close to being Lockit like or about Lockit would have worked well. (I gave him more explanation to this assignment than I gave here on the thread.)
I decided to have some fun with it because of the sincerity he tried to impress me with. It could have been real and proven a lot or it would prove in his own words he was clueless and playing a game. I felt a bit of education was in order. Education about Lockit and playing her… or trying too hard to direct a dominant woman or going too far, too soon… it was all in the way it was going and that I don’t want to get too personal about. Normally when I suspect or question something or someone, I would simply say no thanks, but this situation was different and stuck just at the right time… I was sick, it was a rainy day and I had been sick too long. I needed some playtime… my way… to make it fun for me, while someone was trying to have some fun with me and at my expense. (Which wasn’t clear in the beginning.)
I strongly believe in laying a sound foundation and have very strong opinions. I am rarely lacking in showing exactly who I am, so it isn’t rocket science expected from a kindergartner. I half hoped I was wrong about this one, yet knew this could go either way. We all want someone to see who we are. We dominant’s are people too and we feel all the things that anyone else feels. We don’t want to be treated like a dominant character or as men think women are and what’s important to all women. We are individuals and what suits one, doesn’t suit another. I showed him who Lockit was and yet… all he saw was what he thought and felt and he failed to see even when it was made a point that he should see and this was a test.
So whether the man was successful or not didn’t matter to me as long as a point was made and rather than saying the same old shit, time after time, I decided to have a little fun of it. I thought some could have some fun thinking on it as well. I mean, come on, the mistress board has been rather boring lately. We need a little fun! Think evil… let’s play and I have a reason or need to do so.
What is great is that those that do know me, saw the sadistic joke of it all, some might have questioned what I was doing, thus proving they don’t really know me. This didn’t work for just one man, but a few! lol So I am very thankful for everyone’s input!
Someone tried to play a game and I simply turned the game on him and made it my game, my fun and I had some believe me! However, it wasn’t as much fun for him. Sorry…
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