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RE: The intelligent "fucktoy" - fact or fiction? - 10/1/2010 7:46:25 PM

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I'm not split into two separate identities and the majority of the above applies in my long-lived relationship with M. The opposites are just what I'm capable of in a suitable situation.

It's not in the least bit a dual life, anymore than being *very illogical and emotional* and also being *very logical and pragmatic* and I'm capable of both. We're capable of embracing the extremes of each other, that's all.

They're quite bald statements , not witnessed in the context of a relationship or in the context of a whole person.

Who's to say if we have a healthy M/s situation? It's fine for us but wouldn't suit plenty of other people.

Its a paradox.

Thanks for all the responses.

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RE: The intelligent "fucktoy" - fact or fiction? - 10/2/2010 1:19:57 AM

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

I saw a profile that stated:

Let's start with the main points:
- You should be intelligent but want to be treated like a mindless fucktoy.
- You should be extreme but discreet.
- You should be classy but not above being used as a human urinal.
- You should be attractive but not expect to be treated as such.
- You should long to please but not expect it to be reciprocated.
- You should be independent but want to be owned.

If you are these things, perhaps you can be my property.

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What is your take on these contradictions? As weird as it is, there is some truth in the absurdities here -- at least on a short term basis. LT my view slides towards "no way" and "unworkable."

How much can a person be split into two separate and distinct identities? How would such a duel life affect a someone?

Is all of the above just fantasy projection?

Does this describe a healthy BDSM situation?

Let's hear you take!!

Well they say there is someone for everyone, But I believe the owner of this profile is going to be waiting a long time for their match

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RE: The intelligent "fucktoy" - fact or fiction? - 10/15/2010 6:06:50 PM

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My fucktoi is quite intelligent. That is what I find most interesting about him. That and a few fetishes....

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RE: The intelligent "fucktoy" - fact or fiction? - 10/15/2010 10:14:27 PM

LadyNTrainer

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy
What is your take on these contradictions? As weird as it is, there is some truth in the absurdities here -- at least on a short term basis. LT my view slides towards "no way" and "unworkable."

How much can a person be split into two separate and distinct identities? How would such a duel life affect a someone?

Is all of the above just fantasy projection?

Does this describe a healthy BDSM situation?

It can, yes. I have a deep and abiding respect for the intelligence and just plain all-around niftiness of my partners. They are wonderful human beings who are endlessly entertaining to talk to and spend time with. The three of us have a great relationship, and a good time for us is pretty much guaranteed in any combination whether we're doing kinky stuff or geeky stuff or just hanging out. Though if it's just the boys together without me, they don't do kinky stuff, just geeky stuff. We have a good solid foundation of communication, honesty and mutual caring that makes poly work very well for us, and keeps the relationship healthy, drama free and stable.

I also like to objectify them and make them into slut holes, fuck toys, things to beat and fuck and use, my pretty arm candy, toys I can lend to other dominants, etc. We all think this is great fun and it adds to our relationship dynamic. The fantasy of being a mindless fuck toy that exists only to be used or sold or lent out may work so well for them because they know that I do care enough to keep them safe while they are living that fantasy.

This is not something we only do in the bedroom; our D/s dynamic is very real, but the underlying reality of my owning them as property is that I do care for them very deeply and value them very highly. He's a slut, but he's *my* slut, and that works for us.

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