RE: How do you become a good Dom? (Full Version)

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shortbassist -> RE: How do you become a good Dom? (9/28/2010 10:19:38 PM)

I learned with someone else who also had zero experience and feel that it was a great way for me to learn. We found out that we liked things we didn't think we liked 8 months from when we started and didn't like things we thought we would love. Our relationship ended due to differences in kink & poly issues but it's helped me get the direction to grow into who I am today, which I'm pretty damn happy with.

BTW - 5'4" and with 2 younger, gorgeous submissive oriented switches (5'7" & 5'10").

My "trick"" Be true to yourself and always seek to become a better person. People will notice, especially over time. Seek knowledge from many sources and apply yourself to be who you want to be. Set realistic goals and always strive for them.

Best of luck,
SB




Acer49 -> RE: How do you become a good Dom? (9/30/2010 3:22:24 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MaverickUnleash

I am currently wondering how you become a dominant in a relationship but so far I have not found anything that can help me with that matter. I'm hoping someone could help me along with this.


By realizing that ones ability to dominate, starts and stops with one's desire to submit. Desiring complete control does not make one a dom, it simply makes them a control freak




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