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RE: What is cuckold? - 4/30/2006 11:22:05 PM

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The cuckold is the man, not the woman. You can call the woman the cuckold if it pleases you, but you'll be speaking your own language.

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A cuckold is a woman who is unfaithful to her partner.

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RE: What is cuckold? - 4/30/2006 11:24:58 PM

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Don't be pedantic LM it doesn't become you ...you knew exactly what I was trying to say.... but thanks for pointing out the error, much appreciatd *kiss*

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RE: What is cuckold? - 4/30/2006 11:27:48 PM

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Honestly, I did not know what you were trying to say. In fact, all I understand from what you've written is that you have one conception of what a cuckolding relationship is like, and it's the only kind you want to talk about.

Anyway, I agree that this discussion has become unproductive.

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RE: What is cuckold? - 4/30/2006 11:27:52 PM

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I don't understand why everyone is trying to twist this word away from it's definition.

cuck·old n.

A man married to an unfaithful wife.
tr.v. cuck·old·ed, cuck·old·ing, cuck·olds

To make a cuckold of.
Word History: The allusion to the cuckoo on which the word cuckold is based may not be appreciated by those unfamiliar with the nesting habits of certain varieties of this bird. The female of some Old World cuckoos lays its eggs in the nests of other birds, leaving them to be cared for by the resident nesters. This parasitic tendency has given the female bird a figurative reputation for unfaithfulness as well. Hence in Old French we find the word cucuault, composed of cocu, “cuckoo, cuckold,” and the pejorative suffix -ald and used to designate a husband whose wife has wandered afield like the female cuckoo.

The definition speaks NOTHING to whether or not the husband knows, cares, wants, desires, participates, is bothered by, takes action against, joins in, or gives a flying shit. These are all variables that are simply added into a specific person's preferred method of cuckoldry. Those variables hold no value on whether or not the act in itself meets the definition of cuckoldry.
If the wife is fucking someone else, it IS cuckoldry, regardless of all other variables.

By definition, Hot Wifery is a form of cuckolding.
Adultery on the part of the woman is a form of cuckolding.
Wife swapping is a form of cuckolding.
Swinging is a form of cuckolding.
The male talking her into it is a form of cuckoldry.
Her doing it on her own is a form of cuckoldry.
Any time a wife is unfaithful to her husband, it is cuckoldry. Whether or not one wants to place their own personal preferences into the equation, does not change the definition of the word, or the act.

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RE: What is cuckold? - 4/30/2006 11:45:15 PM

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If an older man living with a younger very sexual woman, loves and cares for her, realizing he can't always give her the good, hard, fucking she needs, and they discuss the situation. He is willing to allow her to invite occasonal males to have sex with, if she is willing to allow him to always be there, watching, protecting, and partisapating. The males would be screened and agreed on by both. His desire is for her to be completely satisified sexually so she would never be tempted to cheat. It is honest and keeps the relationship in tact. Is this man a cuckold?

By general definition... if you define the word 'unfaithful' as the female having sex with another even though the husband has given his stamp of approval on a specific male... then yes, he's a cuckold.

Correcting the huge error in My previous post to actually match what My views on the subject are.

Personally, I would find this male not to be a cuckold.... agreeing or knowing that his wife can do as she pleases when and if she pleases is one thing, but choosing the specific partners along with her in a screening process? That takes the control out of her hands, and to me the control being held by the female is a key part of a cuckold relationship.

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I agree that by definition.... a male with a cuckold fetish will seek out sex partners for his wife.... but a "cuckold" is about an unfaithful partner.... how unfaithful is it to have sex with a man whom your husband brought home for just this reason? He has given you his blessing and encouragement to have sex with another for his pleasure... sounds like a faithful wife to Me.

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/1/2006 12:18:43 AM

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There is nothing that I enjoy more than presenting my loving wife to a well hung black man to use for his pleasure. My wife does have a preference for black men and especially if they have a big cock. She says that most black men are able to give her more pleasure and make her cum more than a white man. I most admit that I too get more pleasure when watching a black man give her a good fucking. I am really proud of my wife when she is being a slut and whore for any black man that wants her. If there are several black men present, she will take them all and not refuse any of them and will be a total slut. In every day life she is a lady and very proper and noone would believe that she is really a wanton whore.

I'm a nasty little slut that loves to fuck guys while my sissy husband watches helplessly. It turns me on so much when a man with a nice big cock slams my pussy and ass until I feel weak and submit to his every desire. I go wild when He has cum inside of me, letting me know that he is done using me as the piece of slut-meat that I truly am, all the while making my boyfriend watch and see what a real man can do to me.

I for one would love to watch you fuck my sweet wife like a whore. Making her preform depraved sexual acts for you and turning her into your submissive slut. You could use her any way you wanted to and force me to watch you transform my precious wife into your nasty little fuckslut.

I guess for me it is the above scenarios that reduce the woman to a cock whore for the male/s pleasure that does not fit with the Fem Dom cuckolding relationship.

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/1/2006 5:50:31 AM

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yeah my wife says i an big enough but i do not last long enough for her she says i last only a couple min. she wants more long lasting and says she's not intrested with my sex. Shoud in this case I be chastised and cuckholded? I am looking for advice on what to do? all help is welcome

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/1/2006 6:09:25 AM

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Do you simply command him to do this? Or do you use a combination of your dominance with nurturing to persuade him to do this?

subtle and sometimes not so subtle reprogramming.

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/1/2006 7:31:22 AM

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I rest my case.

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yeah my wife says i an big enough but i do not last long enough for her she says i last only a couple min. she wants more long lasting and says she's not intrested with my sex. Shoud in this case I be chastised and cuckholded? I am looking for advice on what to do? all help is welcome

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/1/2006 8:43:13 AM

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/1/2006 1:01:31 PM

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I always wounder what emotionally is going through a mans or for that fact woman min when you get involved with others in the form of being with another. I mean we all have some form of ego. Some more sensitive than the other. To watch another that you care about with another lover, can you seperate your self from the fantasy and still have a loving realtionship? I know swingers can do both .Some realtionships appear to become closer due to the involvement of both. Maybe I am looking for more of the mental and emotional connection than there should be ? Again ,.i know of doms who expect their submissives to accept this type of play in their realtionship. That the males sub idea of giving or being forced to give up his postion in the bedroom to another lover . Does anyone who has experienced this on a regular bases ever felt something was missing after wards or changed in their relationship in some way...good or bad???

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/1/2006 1:13:21 PM

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I always wounder what emotionally is going through a mans or for that fact woman min when you get involved with others in the form of being with another. I mean we all have some form of ego. Some more sensitive than the other. To watch another that you care about with another lover, can you seperate your self from the fantasy and still have a loving realtionship? I know swingers can do both .Some realtionships appear to become closer due to the involvement of both. Maybe I am looking for more of the mental and emotional connection than there should be ? Again ,.i know of doms who expect their submissives to accept this type of play in their realtionship. That the males sub idea of giving or being forced to give up his postion in the bedroom to another lover . Does anyone who has experienced this on a regular bases ever felt something was missing after wards or changed in their relationship in some way...good or bad???

If the couple doesnt already have a very stable relationship they probably have no business involving a third party. Jealousy, and feeling of neglect, abandonment, emptiness can be an issue. However in the case of some cuckolds that enjoy the humiliation, in some cases debasement, and other similiar emotions thats a plus.

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/1/2006 1:28:57 PM

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What do you mean, you rest your case? can you tell me please?

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/1/2006 1:33:55 PM

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Lam is above average intelligence which means that you would have to follow the thread.

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/1/2006 2:23:07 PM

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hello if any dominant is on this post now could you help me with this please? my last post i stated "eah my wife says i an big enough but i do not last long enough for her she says i last only a couple min. she wants more long lasting and says she's not intrested with my sex. Shoud in this case I be chastised and cuckholded? I am looking for advice on what to do? all help is welcome"
help what should be done? ANY HELP or Direction is desperatly needed thank you

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/1/2006 9:24:31 PM

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I suggest talking to you wife and not a message board.

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/1/2006 10:13:27 PM

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Unless she's cute...

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/1/2006 10:34:19 PM

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lol then talk to Lam ..he might be able to help you out with that anal you're so desperately needing sissy. (j/k)

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/2/2006 10:07:07 AM

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RE: What is cuckold? - 5/2/2006 7:03:11 PM

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well 1st my wife is cute. and she intimated that if i cant satisfy her she 'd find a man woh will. so i just wonder.. maybe i ned anal w/strapon or something else to put me in my place i dont know

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