CuckoldsQuest2 -> RE: What is cuckold? (8/25/2014 2:46:37 PM)
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ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess Jasmyn quote:
I see the 'Hot Wives' scenario as described above as something entirely different to a Mistress making a cuckold of her partner/slaves and do wish sites like Collarme would allow for the point of difference when filling out profile checklists. The cuckolded relationship is a personal and private dynamic between the Mistress and partner in which she is free to see whom she chooses and when she chooses, while he is denied such freedoms. He may or may not be present, most likely not, possibly in some other part of the house or at home awaiting her return. The beauty for the cuckolded partner is that despite all her other lovers...she returns to him ... him who gives himself to her mind, body and soul ... he who has yielded power and possession of self to her wants, desires and needs. There is power too for him in the knowledge his Mistress is indeed a women in control, she who uses and discards men to get her sexual needs met...he is does not get discarded, ergo he is special and precious to her...he provides for her what no other man can't/don't/won't. In the 'Hot Wives' scenario, the requirement of a 'bull', ergo a bigger, better, more satisfying lover than the 'husband' who has to watch his/or is told in detail of the 'wife' having sex with another, a 'real man' and the 'husband' ultimately humiliated for his inadequecies, in this instance is moot. I view cuckolding like you do Jasmyn. I have and have had cuckolds. I only have ONE. that's the only male in my life that's not replacable by any means. it's a special connection because they give you ultimate freedom while you give them ultimate denial. my cuckold gets me ready for dates, he takes me shopping to have sexy things to wear when i go out, sometimes he will drive me and my boyfriend on our dates while he waits in the car (or if i'm in a really good mood i'll let him sit at a table across from us and eat alone.. although i still order for him).. he bathes me, pretty much everything. he's my alpha slave and is the one that is with me most (or 24/7).. often they will marry their mistress if she so chooses. in a Goddess/slave relationship a cuckold is the Mistress' personal attendant- sort of like a chambermaid. in a hot wife scenario like you described.. oftentimes it's the husband/cuck that wants to see his wife get fucked by bulls. and i do prefer Bull lovers i must admit.. i'm very dominant so it takes an even more aggressive dominant lover to have me sexually. that hot wife scenario is totally different than the sort of cuckolding practiced in BDSM. often that's their only kink and no other form of D/s comes into play. in that case yes.. the woman would be the pawn. great clarification
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