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Gor -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/6/2004 12:55:35 PM)

Estrict...

What a wonderfully thought through question!

The answers are actually pretty straightforward.

I actually stand by My earlier position of supporting others in their differing lifestyles and needs.

I don't subscribe to anything of the roleplay world that is attached to those works of fiction. Homestones, Tarns etc. don't exist for Me. There is no planet Gor, no evolution of guys in leather g-strings prancing merrily from one fictional geographic location to another until they at last arrive at a "superior" state of being by virtue of their IMAGINATIONS. (Though My tongue is firmly inserted in My cheek when discussing this point-- I do support and defend those who choose roleplay as what they value.)

As for the *pronoun* it is primarily an existential comment more than anything else. A minimalist posture pointing toward simplicity and lack of artiface. (I prefer to refer to Myself as "Me" rather than what others opt for: "Hairygoatfarmerguy" or "DomOnthelookout" or "MrsomewhereinMaryland" what have you...)

*The One not Just formerly known as....*

HIMSELF




Gor -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/6/2004 1:16:51 PM)

moderator6...

While it was never My intent to get into any "pissing contest" -- to whatever degree it may have been perceived to be so I stand chastized and repentant! Thank you for your kind reminder.

[snip. 'nuff said right.... about.... there -Mod6]

To err a bit on the side of prudence, lets just leave references to each other off your posts until tempers cool a bit. Thanks. -Mod6




Leonidas -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/6/2004 2:48:48 PM)

Alright, as is often the case when questions about Goreans come up, I find myself in the position of having to set the record straight about some things. It's the downside of being an old guy, I guess, to have to step in when all kinds of cockeyed claims are being made about the way things were, and are.

I've been around the D/s world, actively, since the 1980s. I have a number of friends who have been involved much longer, back to the early 1960s. I don't have any first hand knowledge, nor have I ever read of, a group that espoused a "natural order" theory of D/s prior to 1967 when the first Gor books were published, as has been stated on this thread. In asking around some to the really old timers who have been around longer than I have, I can't find any living memory about such a group or groups, or any literature about the same that anyone can site.

The earliest groups who called themselves "Goreans" that I know about for sure appeared in the late 1970s. Echoing what occured much earlier in leather culture, the earliest "Goreans" were motorcycle clubs, though the earliest Goreans were not gay men. They were men who identified primarily with the values of strength, independance, freedom, honor and D/s sexuality that they found in the books. I say that these are the earliest groups that I know about "for sure" because I have spoken with a few of them. Similar "Biker culture" Gorean groups still exist, and are thriving. One group in Ohio even invented a distinct language for its "clan".

In the 1980s, here in Los Angeles, specialized D/s groups, both for fem dom only and male dom only started to appear, and some clubs started having nights devoted to one or the other. This may have been going on earlier in other places, but I have no first hand knowledge of of it. These groups didn't espouse any kind of a "natural order" theory of D/s that tried to say that domination by the other sex was invalid. They were just "birds of a feather" type groups that formed to enjoy fellowship with the like-minded. The Gorean group that I was first a part of was a splinter from one of these groups.

The term "Natural Order" when applied to D/s or Goreans doesn't appear anywhere in the Gor books as far as I know, and wasn't in use among any of the early (70s - 80s) vintage Gorean groups either to the best of my knowledge. I am very aware of the first place I saw the term used. It was in an essay on a website for an IRC channel (chat room) called the Silk&Steel in the late 1990s. The two founders of that chatroom went by the names Bear- and Zeb online, and I think I can say without too much fear of contradiction that one or the other of them coined the term as it relates to D/s or Goreans. So, representations to the contrary on this thread notwithstanding, I'd have to see some hard evidence or corrobrated accounts by people who are old enough to know that the orgins of the "Natural Order" theory of D/s pre-dates the publication of the Gor books, or, for that matter, is anything but an invention that originated in online circles.

The last thing that I will say is that someone who says that adopting some kind of ideological male supremecy view of the world called "Natural Order" is the only "real" thing that can be gleaned from the Gorean experience, and that everything else is role-play has missed just about anything of value that could be gleaned from the way of life that I've pursued over the last 16 years. On the contrary, "Natural Order" as it has been explained in this thread is an unrealistic, myopic view of the world that I think could only have spawned and been nurtured in the fantasyland that is online interaction. Goreans do believe in biological determinism, as I have tried to explain earlier, but it's an informed view that isn't blind to the realities of the world that exists outside of chatrooms.

I hope that I have managed to clear things up a little here. If I have said anything blatently inaccurate, and anyone has some evidence to the contrary, please, by all means, say that I'm full of shit, and back it up. I don't like writing posts like this. I think that they the written equivelent of cleaning up horse-shit after a parade. What I would like even less though, is having to explain again and again in conversations with anyone that might have read this thread that I'm not a male-supremisist ideologue because I identify myself as a Gorean.




Rapacious -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/6/2004 3:47:48 PM)

I am not Gorean, but have been in the D/s community in one form or another since the early 1960's. I have to respectfully contradict you. I have had many interesting conversations with Goreans over the years and can state without contradiction that I have experienced clubs as well as individuals in them dedicated to natural order Gor. As a matter of fact there was a fairly famous private membership club that boasted such a clientele in New York City in the 60's.
Play nice kids.




Leonidas -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/6/2004 4:09:40 PM)

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I am not Gorean, but have been in the D/s community in one form or another since the early 1960's. I have to respectfully contradict you.


Hmmm. Well, unless your profile in innacurate Rapacious, you are 34 years old. Which means that you weren't even an itch in your daddy's pants in the early 1960s, much less involved in the D/s culture. Are you relating some kind of past-life experience here?

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can state without contradiction that I have experienced clubs as well as individuals in them dedicated to natural order Gor. As a matter of fact there was a fairly famous private membership club that boasted such a clientele in New York City in the 60's.


Now, you understand that the first Gor book came out in 1967, right? So within three years, a "natural order Gor" sub-culture based on the three books that would have been out by the close of the decade was already so well established that it could support a private membership club? This claim is only slightly less outlandish than your first one.

I should have known better. You try to clear away some crap, and you just start a crap avalanche.




jillwfsub4blkdom -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/6/2004 5:45:37 PM)

It appears to me as if whenever there is a Gorean thread, there is more bashing within the Goreans than from others. It also is apparent when someone takes the effort to learn more about Gorean beliefs, there are repeated comments made that there is little point in doing so based on the fact that we currently do not practice Gorean beliefs. Makes me wonder why someone is afraid to impart some knowledge.

jill




LadyBeckett -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/6/2004 6:19:08 PM)

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I am not Gorean, but have been in the D/s community in one form or another since the early 1960's.


He did say "in one form or another". [;)]

Kidding aside, Leonidas, I appreciate the fact that you take the time to share this information in the way that you do.




Rapacious -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/6/2004 7:19:00 PM)

You are correct leonidas I make it a practice to never put accurate information where someone I do not specifically trust can have access to it. In point of fact I not only remember the 60's, but the 50's and even vaguely the late 40's. Your fixation on my Dad's pants aside, you seem to have a lot of hostility for anyone that doesn't agree with you, if the many, many reponses to the original post are characteristic. I am often amused by the passive-aggressive undertone from so many online toughguys and thought in reading some of what was here that I might have something positive to add. I reasoned that I should break my personal rule against posting to message boards for the sake of injecting some fact into the discussion. In retrospect, I can see that information or dialogue is looked down on in favor of a lot of self-congratulatory bloviating and verbal foot stomping. I am not of the gorean persuasion as I said, so could care less when the books were published or indeed whether you choose to either believe a disinterested party that doesn't fall neatly into supporting whatever it is you are imagining today. This is my final word on the subject, being what I would consider a reasonable person, I will leave the reasoning to those with the mind for it and leave you to whine and spit at the next person that has a thought dissimilar to one of yours. If I had to bet, I would imagine you to be one of those folks who try to convince girls how worthy you are by writing a shopping list instead of just being real.

Try to take life seriously occasionally, you may not get out alive, but it's a sign of maturity and what you do might actually count for something then.




topcat -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/6/2004 7:34:40 PM)

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I make it a practice to never put accurate information where someone I do not specifically trust can have access to it.


I don't understand exactly what it is you are afraid of. I mean, I am rather lax about such things myself, but I do understand that many have fears of being exposed for what they really are, and take steps to hide themselves- but what exactly does your age reveal that you need to hide?

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Your fixation on my Dad's pants aside, you seem to have a lot of hostility for anyone that doesn't agree with you, if the many, many reponses to the original post are characteristic.


I'd say M. Leonidas was responding to a preposterous statement by an apparently clueless idiot- which was exactly what I saw, when i checked your profile to see if we were aquinted in the NYC scene. If that's not the case, taking offense for his taking you at your word is a rather odd thing.

BTW, was 'Dominion' the club you spoke of in NY circa '60? I know several of the alumni, and wasn't aware that it was some sort of Gorean club.




LadyBeckett -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/6/2004 8:02:49 PM)

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Try to take life seriously occasionally, you may not get out alive, but it's a sign of maturity and what you do might actually count for something then.


Rapacious, I quoted the above from your post. The same post that you began by saying the following:

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You are correct leonidas I make it a practice to never put accurate information where someone I do not specifically trust can have access to it.


You were dishonest about something that didn't matter. That speaks volumes about what kind of person you are to those you are seeking to attract. Perhaps you should attempt being honest occasionally, Rapacious. Not only will you get out alive, but your life will actually count for something. [;)]




Hotspur -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/6/2004 8:23:52 PM)

Mr. Hotspur, I have edited out what you posted because you didn't add anything meaningful to the discussion and with your very first post, managed to insult a couple of the more senior and respected contributors to these boards. Not an auspicious beginning. The senior members here do have lives, and the high number of posts under their names mean that they have been good enough to share their perspectives and often very valuable experience with others. For free. If you wish to continue posting here, my strong recommendation, Sir, is that you take a deep breath and follow the advice that topcat was kind enough to offer below. Do some reading, get to know the people here, and then contribute to this community if you are so moved.

Mod6




topcat -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/6/2004 9:03:29 PM)

M. Hotspur-

Now come on- what did he say that was intelligent?

That a club existed in the sixties in NY based on books that hadn't been written yet?

That as a 34 year old (born in 1970, right?), he was in the scene in the sixties?

That he's so mysterious and shadowy that he has to hide his real identdity by saying he's 34 when he's around sixty?

how about giving us a break? He came off like the forty year old guy in the bar who talks about 'nam like he was there, and it was a slow night, and he got gently flamed.

So give us a break- Read the boards,contribute get to know some of the members. If you are out and about, I'll be at the Fetish Warehouse on Saturday- I'll buy you a drink

Stay warm,
Lawrence




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EStrict -> RE: Rapacious, Hotspur, and Gor (10/8/2004 11:27:53 AM)

Actually, the part I find the most amusing is the simple fact that one of his profiles says *be real or be gone*. That is twice as funny to me as he uses different ages (none of which are his real age if anything in the one post is true). Perhaps words like *real* and *gone* The one thing I *do* know of those who are really Gorean is they believe strongly in personal honor and integrity.. and his action show him to be lacking in both. So *Gor* is about as none Gorean as you get...




Leonidas -> RE: Rapacious, Hotspur, and Gor (10/8/2004 12:03:29 PM)

If you read closely, Sandy, it shouldn't be too suprising. He doesn't believe in honor or any of that other "role-play Gorean" stuff. Only in the part about being entitled to dominance if you happen to be male.




LadyBeckett -> RE: Rapacious, Hotspur, and Gor (10/8/2004 12:08:28 PM)

What I don't understand is why this person, whatever its name is, couldn't have presented all of those perspectives/points as one person. Why the fraud? [>:]




lilninotchka -> RE: Rapacious, Hotspur, and Gor (10/8/2004 12:47:39 PM)

Schizophrenia? Online, BDSM-forum-induced schizophrenia...




bena -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/10/2004 4:54:14 AM)

I cannot understand why someone who has a profile stating they are 34 would post saying they were at least 56 years old. What has this got to do with putting "accurate information where someone I do not specifically trust can have access to it". What about the implied trust extended to the member to be honest? What about the 'older women' who might be looking for a 56+ year old man or the 'younger women' who are getting bamboozled writing to you thinking you are 34? Sorry, I just don't get your point. You say you live in NY. Well I am sure there are enough 56+ year old men that just stating an accurate age will do nothing to harm your anonymity.
Politeness on my part prevents me from stating what I think you are.




iwillserveu -> RE: Gorean bashing and Exstensiary service (10/12/2004 12:30:31 PM)

The board title is an iteresting quandry. If they think I don't exist, can I bash them?[:D]




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