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LadyPact -> RE: male doms: motivated by desperation? (10/4/2010 7:06:02 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Bravado
If there's anything true about doms from this site is that they are a defensive lot. While it seems like insecurity, I think in many cases it has to do with pride. As for desperation, I think most people get desperate at some point, whether it's for one afternoon, for a week, or for a couple of years. Sometimes you want something that you can't have, often regardless of what is offered to you.
I'll give you part of this. I actually am somewhat defensive of some of the stereotyping and propaganda that this particular OP has tried to convince people of in this and prior material. The reason for this is that, while some males might be slapping the Dominant label on themselves thinking it means easy sex, I think that it isn't by any means the majority.
I can't say if I agree with you or not on your thought about desperation. My reasoning doesn't work that way. I don't see the majority of folks on the site as being desperate. I'm sure there might be some people who really aren't good relationship material, but there's a solution for that in most cases.
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ORIGINAL: Bravado
Good point, this one thread of three pages proves me wrong about a generalization against the whole site. Thank goodness there's a rational mind here to keep me in check.
Yes. This one thread. However, it's not the first thread that this particular OP has decided to strike out a crusade against male Dominants and male sadists in particular. It's been evident through his many posts, something he, himself has admitted to in the past. Please keep in mind that it is only against males in particular. This pattern is well known amongst those of us familiar with this OP.
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