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Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 7:08:02 AM   
candystripper


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Status: offline 		i see the phrase "don't waste my time" in so many Dom and Master profiles i am compelled to ask; when is one worthy of these esteemed men and their time?  What's a waste if you know no more about them?  Guidance, please.
 
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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 7:14:28 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Striking the pose much like the Don't email me if............ genre.

Ron

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 7:15:43 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		Pass 'em by, they are obviously too full of themselves.  No doubt they think they are a *true* or *real* Dominant.  hehe

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 7:17:14 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Usually it's accompanied by "If you don't fit these standards which I've clearly listed" or "If your interests are not compatible with mine" or "If you're just trying to play games and aren't looking for what I'm looking for."

A man sending out emails saying "Hey want to give me a blow job?" to profiles that clearly state "I'm a lesbian" or "Not interested in casual sex" is wasting everyone's time and energy.

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 8:41:44 AM   
IronBear


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Status: offline 		I agree with LA here. In other sites on my profile I state what I seek and usually list what I do not want followed by the werning that "Time wasters will be ignored and/or blocked".. 

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 9:10:24 AM   
crouchingtigress


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Status: offline 		Folks have the right to be selective and definitive about the sort of experience/companion they are hoping to attract, dont you think?

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 9:22:35 AM   
babyblues


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Status: offline 		he knows what he's looking for so don't waste his time (or yours for that matter) if you are not a fit
 
i'll agree that it comes across as arrogant in a profile, but it does cut to the point of the matter....
 
and aren't many Dominants arrrogant anyway? that's one of the things i so like about them

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 9:28:38 AM   
fastlane


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Status: offline 		All I have is time to waste.....so please, waste mine!

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 12:17:15 PM   
candystripper


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Status: offline 		<sends whiney email to annoy Kevin>
 
i was not clear; the profiles are mostly vague or nonexistant as to requirements or preferences; but "don't waste my time" still appears.  All is confusion here.
 
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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 12:27:28 PM   
Arpig


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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 12:29:14 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: candystripper

<sends whiney email to annoy Kevin>
 
i was not clear; the profiles are mostly vague or nonexistant as to requirements or preferences; but "don't waste my time" still appears.  All is confusion here.
 
candystripper

In cases where there's not much else to go on, it's just a standard emphatic empty phrase.

Not many people can write well, let alone their own profiles. 

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 2:21:26 PM   
slaverosebeauty


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Status: offline 		They want you to contact them asking what their requirements are so they can whine, bitch and complain about it later.

Also, just set your settings so that emails from 'blank profiles' go to your bulk box, that can help out a bit.

To LA: I have written a few male profiles, I don't know if it's helped many, but one friend got married a few months ago to a lady he met after I helped him write his profile.

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 2:46:04 PM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		I got a message from someone that said in  his email to me "Dont waste my time or play games", and then he gave me his phone number in the same email... He also lived in Florida.I did not respond and then he sent me another email demanding I not waste his time and email him back or call him... It stated on my profile that I would not date outside my state. In other words he was wasting my time.. (I know that isnt very "submissive" of me to point out is it.. just joking)

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 2:48:17 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Well, you gotta lotta good boxes checked there.  He may have been trying to avoid premature ejaculation by moving the conversation along swiftly........

LOL,
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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 2:49:55 PM   
darq


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Status: offline 		LOL thats bad, julia

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 2:55:24 PM   
darq


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Status: offline 		Oh is that what it is when Doms try to get you to stop emailing them through CM and give them your personal info? Avoiding premature ejaculation ... Thats ... Ew. I'm going to be thinking about that the next time I do talk to a Dom on the phone. Its lodged firmly in my mind ... Gawd ... Thank you. :) lol

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So you found a girl who thinks really deep thoughts ...
Tell me, whats so amazing about really deep thoughts?

I speak my mind because it hurts to bite my tongue.

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 6:52:58 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Well, you gotta lotta good boxes checked there.  He may have been trying to avoid premature ejaculation by moving the conversation along swiftly........

LOL,
Ron




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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 6:58:23 PM   
Vancouver_cinful


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quote:

ORIGINAL: darq

Oh is that what it is when Doms try to get you to stop emailing them through CM and give them your personal info? Avoiding premature ejaculation ... Thats ... Ew. I'm going to be thinking about that the next time I do talk to a Dom on the phone. Its lodged firmly in my mind ... Gawd ... Thank you. :) lol


As funny as Ron's comment was, he isn't all that far from the truth. Any doms I've talked to that accused me of wasting their time meant: What do you mean you won't agree to give me your phone number and meet me, unless I actually tell you something about myself, like my name or if I'm married? What the hell kind of sub are you??
 
Guess I'm just difficult.

Cin

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/25/2006 9:13:04 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		To the OP...if it says dont waste my time...I usually dont ..Tempting

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RE: Don't Waste My Time - 4/26/2006 3:27:04 PM   
Saraheli


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Status: offline 		I think 'Don't waste my time' has a lot to do with the image they want to portray.  They want to seem important.
Their time is Far more important than lesser beings like ourselves. 
Call it rude, but when somebody writes to me, and has that in their profile I rarely reply...after all, I'd hate to be labelled a time waster, and I AM known to waste a good deal of time.
And really, if they are here perusing profiles, they're wasting their own time, they don't need help.

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