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Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 5:28:46 AM   
MrGentleTouch


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Status: offline 		I want to do a poll of what subs and slaves are and are not willing to do for their masters/owners.

I guess I'll start with the most vanilla, to the more extreme ends. If you do not think thats the correct order, I'm not here to declare anything, just my guess of what is more extreme by the community.

1. Clothes
2. Hair
3. Accessories (bracelets, chains, collars, etc.)
4. Tattoos
5. Non genital piercings
6. Branding
7. Genital Piercings
8. Cosmetic Surguries (Lip, Nose, Butt, Boobs)

Male Female Transexuals or any other gender you want to align with, please give me your 2 cents.
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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 5:45:08 AM   
tazzygirl


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Status: offline 		1 - 3, no problem.... i would even go bald.

4 starts into the permanent physical changes. I have a tatoo designed by an ex Master. i would have to think twice before doing it again.

5 - 7 hmmmm... again, lots of thought needed here. at my age, showing up with a lip or eyebrow ring would cause a bit of a stir.. lol

8 ... again, needs thought, a huge bank account and a physician. given if i had access to all, i would be very hesitant about doing anything to my face. but, hey, a boob lift wouldnt be out of the question.

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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 5:54:00 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MrGentleTouch

I want to do a poll of what subs and slaves are and are not willing to do for their masters/owners.

I guess I'll start with the most vanilla, to the more extreme ends. If you do not think thats the correct order, I'm not here to declare anything, just my guess of what is more extreme by the community.

1. Clothes - work clothing is chosen by me and is not up for discussion (although he would be able to choose for me from a wardrobe of suitable clothes). Ditto outer wear worn when with family/nilla friends. When we're alone together, or with kink friends, then he can choose.

2. Hair - he can insist on the the length, but for work reasons I need to have 'normal' hair

3. Accessories (bracelets, chains, collars, etc.) - this would be his choice, although obviously for work/nilla friends discretion is the byword.

4. Tattoos - absolutely not

5. Non genital piercings - absolutely not

6. Branding - absolutely not

7. Genital Piercings - maybe, although I would expect the final say


8. Cosmetic Surguries (Lip, Nose, Butt, Boobs) - absolutely not. If he doesn't like me as I am, why would he want to own me?


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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 7:13:11 AM   
MrGentleTouch


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Status: offline 		Already I am seeing the dichotomy with this issue. Thank you very much for your responses. I got a question though tazzygirl

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1 - 3, no problem.... i would even go bald.

4 starts into the permanent physical changes. I have a tatoo designed by an ex Master. i would have to think twice before doing it again. - do you regret the choice of having a mark of a previous master, feeling like it almost hinders you to be closer with your current/future masters? I don't want my future subs/slaves to be excited one day to have my mark, but scarred the day after if things do not turn well (i think that masters and subs need to put more consideration into the subject before undergoing any tattoos) (

5 - 7 hmmmm... again, lots of thought needed here. at my age, showing up with a lip or eyebrow ring would cause a bit of a stir.. lol - piercings are not markings, and they can be taken off. Branding are less obvious, and often are symbols rather than letters, tattoos can have letters

8 ... again, needs thought, a huge bank account and a physician. given if i had access to all, i would be very hesitant about doing anything to my face. but, hey, a boob lift wouldnt be out of the question. - what about breast implants? if yes, is there a size limit that you would consider?



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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 7:41:50 AM   
phoenixmoonn13


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Status: offline 		1. Clothes yes but he know well as to what suits me and what i like etc
2. Hair yes but my hair is so thick and strong there is little that can be doen anyway and luckily he loves it as its a great handle
3. Accessories (bracelets, chains, collars, etc.) yes i wear his ring and collar (a necklace already)
4. Tattoos yes i am getting one done soon
5. Non genital piercings maybe it depends
6. Branding no
7. Genital Piercings maybe well more yes than no
8. Cosmetic Surguries (Lip, Nose, Butt, Boobs) no but luckily he doesnt believe in it either

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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 7:46:12 AM   
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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 7:48:49 AM   
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Status: offline 		1. Clothes-I choose whatever I wear as I know best what suits me; inside I know what someone likes so whatever he wants there is fine.

2. Hair - oh hell no, it is perfect already

3. Accessories (bracelets, chains, collars, etc.) I am assuming you mean lifestyle stuff and not everyday jewelry, which I have a ton of. I am open to it if it does not interfere with my job or life. However, I would not walk around with a collar, something more intimate that only the two of us would know about works for me.

4. Tattoos- NO 
5. Non genital piercings I have my ears pierced, that is all I want.
6. Branding: in fantasies, yes, real life NO
7. Genital Piercings- just NO 
8. Cosmetic Surguries (Lip, Nose, Butt, Boobs)- this is a personal decision for a woman. I don't need anything now, but if I wanted a nip/tuck down the road, I would appreciate a partner's support. Never had anyone want to change anything about me physically though.

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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 7:55:44 AM   
MrGentleTouch


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Status: offline 		The dichotomy continues. I personally wouldnt mind fixing my small but seriously scarred burns thats on my left and right temples. (its normally not seen due to my bangs)

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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 8:03:18 AM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		personally, I see my scars as battlewounds, and nothing to cover.  :)  Perhaps if you look at them in that manner?

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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 8:59:29 AM   
IrishMist


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1. Clothes

He never cared what I was wearing.
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2. Hair

Once again, he did not care. I prefer long hair though so my hair has always remained long.
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3. Accessories (bracelets, chains, collars, etc.)

I wore a collar that was not removable.
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4. Tattoos

I have tatts, but I have them because I wanted them, not because someone told me to get them.
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5. Non genital piercings

Nipple piercings, at his insistence. They are still pierced.
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6. Branding

Yes, but not to mark me as his. Mine were done during one of our more intense interactions. Put there as a way for him to prove that yes, he could do anything he wanted.
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7. Genital Piercings

Clit was pierced on our wedding day.
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8. Cosmetic Surguries (Lip, Nose, Butt, Boobs)

Absolutely not.


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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 9:28:49 AM   
MrGentleTouch


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Status: offline 		This topic gets more and more fascinating.

Maybe I should see my scars as battlewounds. But I believe the body to be something that you fine tune, sort of like a great car, it needs good maintenance and if you want it to grow out of its body into something else, you need to switch parts. I mean, thats why we exercise so damned much.

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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 9:30:44 AM   
GreedyTop


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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 11:11:06 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Body modifications are a hard limit for me.

And I already have implants; intra ocular ones.

You planning to foot the bill for all of these things and sign a legal contract footing the bill to have them removed after the breakup? Because tattoo removal laser treatments are not cheap. Neither is an inhospital surgery. And if you aren't willing to, then don't ask anyone to do it.


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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 11:14:52 AM   
littleone35


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Status: offline 		Number 1 not a problem He lets me choose my clothes. I do however wear styles colors he will approve of.
Number 2 also not a problem. I chose my hairstyle and color the only thing he tells me is to keep it long.
Number 3 no problem i have my collar which i wear 24/7.
Number 4 I want a tatto but Master does not like body are so that would have to be a no.
Number 5 Just my ears (again).
6 and 7 no way in this world. I am not a calf i do not need to be branded and anyway Master loves my body he does not want to mark it up. As fo the other percings. Master does not really care fot that either.
8 Why? He chose me he must like what he saw why would he want to change it?

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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 11:26:20 AM   
MrGentleTouch


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Status: offline 		If there were to be a girl that would be a great match for me, I wouldn't mind footing any bill, and a good master should protect their slaves/sub to every inch possible. I'd have to be close with this girl too, its not anybody that can just come and trick me into paying for their crap. It has to be something we both enjoy.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Body modifications are a hard limit for me.

And I already have implants; intra ocular ones.

You planning to foot the bill for all of these things and sign a legal contract footing the bill to have them removed after the breakup? Because tattoo removal laser treatments are not cheap. Neither is an inhospital surgery. And if you aren't willing to, then don't ask anyone to do it.


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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 11:35:01 AM   
leadership527


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Status: offline 		We're in the TPE category so, so the answer for this whole list is "yeah, she'd do that". If you posited something suitably horrific like "facial branding and scarification" eventually we'd run into something like a limit.

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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 2:26:32 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: MrGentleTouch

I want to do a poll of what subs and slaves are and are not willing to do for their masters/owners.

I guess I'll start with the most vanilla, to the more extreme ends. If you do not think thats the correct order, I'm not here to declare anything, just my guess of what is more extreme by the community.

1. Clothes
2. Hair
3. Accessories (bracelets, chains, collars, etc.)
4. Tattoos
5. Non genital piercings
6. Branding
7. Genital Piercings
8. Cosmetic Surguries (Lip, Nose, Butt, Boobs)


Greetings MrGentleTouch,

Although your list is not comprehensive I didn't find the areas mentioned of concern. I trust the suggestions are beneficial to my well being and the relationship as a whole and aren't solely based on his perceptions or preferences. In my opinion balanced M/s relationships go beyond these limitations and take the collective into account rather than one perspective. It's the proverbial 'we' that makes the impossible a reality we can manifest. Doing what is best isn't always comfortable but it's well worth the discomfort.

Namaste,

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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 3:50:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm willing to do any of those if that is what he wants and he does and will happen I'm sure.

I trust him so I don't have any problems at all accepting any of those and still being happy with the outcomes.


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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 3:55:01 PM   
BreePix


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Status: offline 		1. Clothes-he already has say
2. Hair- my hair is cut how he wants it cut
3. Accessories (bracelets, chains, collars, etc.)-yes i wear things he gets me when he wants me to
4. Tattoos-i would be willing if he wanted but he doesent like tattoos with names we have talked about one without his name
5. Non genital piercings-yeah sure
6. Branding- same as tattoo
7. Genital Piercings- already have it was an xmas gift to him
8. Cosmetic Surguries (Lip, Nose, Butt, Boobs) maybe really depends

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RE: Implants and Body Modifications? - 10/11/2010 5:52:41 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		You may have missed a few that I have seen in use.

1. Clothes
2. Hair
3. Accessories (bracelets, chains, collars, etc.)
4. Tattoos
5. Non genital piercings
6. Branding
7. Genital Piercings
8. Cosmetic Surgeries (Lip, Nose, Butt, Boobs)
9. Diet - gross weight loss/gain
10. Tanning
11. Physical exercise - body toning shaping for health & fitness
12. Physical discipline - marshal arts, combat and self defense
13. Personality adjustments, paradigm shift in attitude
14. Religion
15. Career
16. Pregnancy



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