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darq -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 3:37:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess

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i dissagree with you their ,i dont beleive it cheapens the lifestyle as some of these women have built fantastic dungeons and have all the equipment as well as the outfits to make your dreams come true ,but once youve paid ,whos calling the shots

me because i`m paying for what i want ,and shes doing it


i can speak for myself.. with the 4 males i've all seen on a tributed  basis. they tributed me rubber.. or in some cases cash (but i do prefer rubber tributes.. i always stipulate that.).. they didnt call shots anything beyond their limits and the ability to have a safe word.

my slaves' limits are whatever limits i impose on them. and we don't use safe words.

when i seesioned those 4 times it wasn't them calling shots.. that's why i said i could never be a pro domme fulltime or as a means of support because i would be hurting motherfuckers left and right when i get into a scene. and i may *blank* out and ignore his cushy little *safe word*.

so not all tributed sessions are males getting what they want. if someone comes to me the only thing the stipulate are their limits. if they aren't huge rubber addicts, or into heavy SM.. why the fuck else would i bother?

i dont have those "oh kiss my feet and crawl worm" sorta scenes

if someone comes to me.. tributed or not.. then he's going to skip to my beat.

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[sm=hair.gif] Wow ... Yeah ... Uhm, I guess consensual ... Doesn't really fit in your ideals then?

With your own personal slaves, I can see that ... They knew that going into the relationship and they consented to that ... But to 'blank out' and ignore a safe word with someone who is essentially paying you to make their fantasies come true and then send them home in one piece ... Wow, thats not only frightening but its also extremely unprofessional.

Even as someone who only does professional scenes on a part time basis, thats just scarey. I mean, do you warn the boys you play with that ... Hey, I might just blank out and ignore your cushy lil safewords. Just thought you should know ...

Of course, you're not going to respond to this post because you've stated that you're ignoring anyone who isn't seeking real time. Thats ok ... Its mostly just food for thought ...



inferiorwanker -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 3:42:46 PM)

LOL to some men thats a fantasy come true ,to others thats abuse

i`m curious on this point ,do you tell them this after they are naked ,do you like to have fear in their eyes or do you revel in the site of a humiliated naked man running from your house



Contesaluv -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 3:44:54 PM)

My goodness!  I'm glad there's a voice of reason on these boards.  Actually there are several.  Just look for what you want and even though it may be like finding a needle in a haystack.  When you find it you'll know because the needle will probably stick you...

I think that's all she wrote!!!!  And the fat lady did sing so let's call this one over.



darq -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 3:45:02 PM)

LOL

Thats a great mental image ... Some poor guy bolting out of the house completely nekid. Sheesh.



inferiorwanker -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 3:50:07 PM)

yeah if your watching, i dont fancy the idea of high tailing out of dodge buck naked ,but if she was a true sadist she would have a door painted on her  brick wall with EXIT flashing in neon lights[:D]



Proprietrix -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 3:53:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess
when i seesioned those 4 times it wasn't them calling shots.. that's why i said i could never be a pro domme fulltime or as a means of support because i would be hurting motherfuckers left and right when i get into a scene. and i may *blank* out and ignore his cushy little *safe word*.


umm, that's a scary thought actually. That's even scary for a part-time-semi-pro.



darq -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 3:55:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: inferiorwanker

yeah if your watching, i dont fancy the idea of high tailing out of dodge buck naked ,but if she was a true sadist she would have a door painted on her  brick wall with EXIT flashing in neon lights[:D]


OMG I laughed so hard I snorted. [:D] 



darq -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 3:57:22 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Proprietrix

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ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess
when i seesioned those 4 times it wasn't them calling shots.. that's why i said i could never be a pro domme fulltime or as a means of support because i would be hurting motherfuckers left and right when i get into a scene. and i may *blank* out and ignore his cushy little *safe word*.


umm, that's a scary thought actually. That's even scary for a part-time-semi-pro.


Thank you.



twicehappy -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 4:03:47 PM)

I'll have a bosk burger on Sa-Tarna, a paga, one well muscled kajirus for my Mistress and a black wine if you have it. Can you break a silver tarsk of Ar?



inferiorwanker -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 4:31:43 PM)

looks like we are back to McBeatings and whippys burger bar

i`ll never understand Gor

i`ll just have a big mac [:)]



orfunboi -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 6:00:43 PM)

i've never had a Fem Domme ask me for money, so yea, it must be you...



EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 6:13:24 PM)

darq (really needs to be dim)
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With your own personal slaves, I can see that ... They knew that going into the relationship and they consented to that ... But to 'blank out' and ignore a safe word with someone who is essentially paying you to make their fantasies come true and then send them home in one piece ... Wow, thats not only frightening but its also extremely unprofessional.


HELLOOOOOO tesla.. aka.. brainchild.. that's WHY i said.. i do NOT accept tribute males whom do NOT adhere to what i expect. they KNOW they're getting the real deal when they approach me.. sorry..i dont fit into your box.. i dont cater to them.. that's WHY i only accept males that KNOW what i expect. i make it clear from day ONE.. ok.. you will have a safeword.. i will listen to your limits.. they STILL have chosen to scene with me.. i own 3 of those 4 now.. i would have owned ALL 4 but one has a sick mom so i respect that.. he can't travel bi monthly to me.. so YES he will tribute me for our intensive rubber scenes  ie.. buying toys.. rubber.. or gear.. [gear is a real life experience word for heavy rubber].. i do realize you may not be able to comprehend that.

if someone does NOT adhere to what i say and wants to play with me anyway.. yeah.your limits mean shit to me.. when you're strapped into the table.. that's it. don't approach me if you don't want the straight dope. trust i know what's best.. and i assure you.. i DO.

maybe your online life sorta froze.. i suggest a reboot.

lol do you SERIOUSLY think i would take a male that does NOT live up to my standards and limits as ANYONE approaching me does?  i'm no one's vehicle.

newsflash genius (and yes i'm using that word lightly).. i said.THAT'S WHY I WON'T TAKE MALES WHOM ARE NOT COMPATIBLE TO MY FETISHES..

let me translate that into net slave speak.

oh wait i cant. i dont speak net geek-ese.

but i'm still waiting for you to kill yourself if there are two of me.

guess what..  i just cloned myself

and i'm waiting

dumbass

i suggest  you leave me alone dumb little girl.

best not to engage in a battle of wits unarmed

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Even as someone who only does professional scenes on a part time basis, thats just scarey. I mean, do you warn the boys you play with that ... Hey, I might just blank out and ignore your cushy lil safewords. Just thought you should know .


that's WHY i dont take clients MENSA child.. oops.. wrong again.. doubt you'd make it into MENSA like i have.. wrong again. i said.. im not a safeword sorta person.. if someone straps into my chair or any other torment i dish out. tributed (for the 4 times i've EVER had a tributed scene.. or not.. ).. then DONT approach me. PERIOD.. helloo.. no mincing of words here.

i'm SAYING.. if someone comes to me.. they TRUST that i know when to stop.

and i dont cater ANYTHING i do with slaves. TO slaves

um.. when are you going to kill yourself again when there are two of me?

geeze.. maybe you need to start taking doms again so i can email him and have him fuck you up for me

you annoy me.. plain and simple.. if you hadn't have emailed me.. then blocked your name like a little BITCH.. i would have responded in email.. being the twat you are.. you  choose to take it public.. well then have at it.

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Of course, you're not going to respond to this post because you've stated that you're ignoring anyone who isn't seeking real time. Thats ok ... Its mostly just food for thought ...


lol sorry.. just did.. and yes.. you still cease to exist in my world.. and i'm STILL waiting for you to kill yourself when i am doubled or cloned

adieu chica..\


*edited to make it nicer to darq*



EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 6:24:46 PM)

i see your point.

for my PERSONAL slaves.. it's not abuse.. they understand the fact that i am WELL trained and WELL educated on SM and edge play.. lest i wouldn't conduct workshops and demos over the WORLD to show lifestylers how to play safely..

with the 4 i've done with tributes.. YES they had no "ok do this this and that to me"

they are klinik patients.. and they submit to what i say.. i ask their limits.

ok no scat.. no blood, no animals.. or this or that..

ok i go with that.

but if someone told me.. ok no piercing.. (play or perm).. or no this or that.. then get the fuck on.. period.. my profile is clear. and that holds true for EVERYONE that approaches me.. the only difference to me with tributing slaves and others.. is that they KNOW they can't handle me 24/7.. i'm a TOUGH bitch to please and i make NO qualms.

i dont blank out like.. oh my god who i am i? where am i?.

i just wouldn't take a male that doesnt have comparable limits to me.. that's all

i'm nothing but not if safe.

end of story.. with that being said.. hell no.. i'm the gummi nurse.. i'm the Herrin.. i'm the one calling the fucking shots.. and if a lifestyle or tribute slave comes on and can't handle  it.. well fuck off

still doesn't negate who  i am. and what i expect.. i don't compromise myself for some paying twat

sorry.. wrong woman

(bear in mind.. i'm not speaking solely to you).

you cheeky brit



ladylexington -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 6:31:39 PM)

Is that what REAL Domme means, one who doesn't ask for tribute? So many people contact me asking if I am a REAL Domme...I never knew what they meant.



EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 6:32:20 PM)

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umm, that's a scary thought actually. That's even scary for a part-time-semi-pro.


i DO respect the limits of tributed slaves.. but not with my PERSONAL slaves.

they approach me with limits that i set.. end of story..

tributed slaves ARE allowed to express their limits.

and i heed them.. with my slaves.. they TRUST i know their limits

and that is what is missing in a session.. you can't learn someone's limits after 1 meeting.

i'm talking 4-5 YEARS of limit learning.

we play and they lay on the table.. they take ANYTHING i give.. they know im skilled.. they know i'm respecting.. but at the end of the day..

hell yea if bjorn thinks he can take a *little bit more*.. or a *little bit less*.. he knows that's MY decision if i want to progress him.

with  the 4 tributed sessions i've had.. i've respected their limits.

you want to know what their limits were? and these are based of the 4

-2 wanted no permanent damage

2 had no male limits

1 wanted no blood

3 wanted no  animals..one wanted to suck off my german rotttweiler.. which of COURSE i denied.. i love pets.. but not in a  LOVE animals sorta way.

that's about it.

my limits..

ONLY

no animals, no vomit, no dead folks, sparse leather (hoods only), and nothing kid oriented.

if someone doesnt agree.. yeah.. i wont see them..

if i DID see a tributed session.

if his limits don't fal within those.. (with the exception of a few more).

then yes.. he can't see me

i dont compromise my limits and ANYONE scening with me is hardcore and they know what they want.

i do have more mild slaves.. and they respect my limits too.. my limits are your limits.. if you don't like it..

they can get the FUCK on.

tributed or not.

and i am not at a want for males




darq -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 6:32:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess

quote:

With your own personal slaves, I can see that ... They knew that going into the relationship and they consented to that ... But to 'blank out' and ignore a safe word with someone who is essentially paying you to make their fantasies come true and then send them home in one piece ... Wow, thats not only frightening but its also extremely unprofessional.


HELLOOOOOO tesla.. aka.. brainchild.. that's WHY i said.. i do NOT accept males whom do NOT adhere to what i expect.. maybe your online life sorta froze when the computer did.

lol do you SERIOUSLY think i would take a male that does NOT live up to my standards and limits as ANYONE approaching me does?

newsflash genius (and yes i'm using that word lightly).. i said.THAT'S WHY I WON'T TAKE MALES WHOM ARE NOT COMPATIBLE TO MY FETISHES..

let me translate that into net slave speak.

oh wait i cant.

but i'm still waiting for you to kill yourself if there are two of me.

guess what.. i guess cloned myself

and i'm waiting

dumbass

i suggest  you leave me alone dumb little girl.

best not to engage in a battle of wits unarmed

quote:

Even as someone who only does professional scenes on a part time basis, thats just scarey. I mean, do you warn the boys you play with that ... Hey, I might just blank out and ignore your cushy lil safewords. Just thought you should know .


that's WHY i dont take clients MENSA child.. oops.. wrong again.. doubt you'd make it into MENSA like i have.. wrong again

i'm SAYING.. if someone comes to me.. they TRUST that i know when to stop.

and i dont cater ANYTHING i do with slaves. TO slaves

um.. when are you going to kill yourself again when there are two of me?

geeze.. maybe you need to start taking doms again so i can email him and have him fuck you up for me

you annoy me.. plain and simple.. if you hadn't have emailed me.. then blocked your name like a little BITCH.. i would have responded in email.. being the twat you are.. you  choose to take it public.. well then have at it.

quote:

Of course, you're not going to respond to this post because you've stated that you're ignoring anyone who isn't seeking real time. Thats ok ... Its mostly just food for thought ...


lol sorry.. just did.. and yes.. you still cease to exist in my world.. and i'm STILL waiting for you to kill yourself when i am doubled or cloned

adieu chica..




The sheer level of immaturity in this post makes me wonder if anything you've mentioned about being a pro domme or a semi pro domme or about having any sort of experiences in the real world are valid at all. Resorting to insults and name calling to get your point across is never classy and never acceptable but especially not in an adult forum dealing with adult topics.

Seriously ...



darq -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 6:38:01 PM)

OK, I'm such a nerd ... lol

I *just* now realized I can block someone on the forums and not see their posts ... How cool.



Lordandmaster -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 6:38:37 PM)

I suggested this a long time ago.  Looks like it's not going to happen.

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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty

Most sites I know about of this nature have an icon for those who are 'pro.' Usually a $$ symbol of some sort. That would make it a LOT easier when searching to NOT contact thoes who only want money; and for those that want to play, well, they can set thie search for those people. Makes sence to me.



inferiorwanker -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 6:46:12 PM)

please no fighting in my forums this is a place for a civalised mass debate[:D]



inferiorwanker -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 6:48:00 PM)

real as in not made of paper (looking for the homer smiley) [8|]



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