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darq -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:03:09 PM)

And we're back to name calling. Its sad when you make it so easy ...




EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:06:02 PM)

quote:

I always get the last word when they misbehave... LOL


YOU ARE OFF..

god you get this like you got the tribute post

why am I the one the blame? hell i took you off.. what the fuck else should i do.. heLOo.. it's not that i'm NOT taking you off ignore.. if you can't get through.. fuck if i know.. i unblocked you from the *block list*.. then i went just now and clicked the *blocked* tab off.. THEN i hit save.. if you can't  get through.. fuck i don't know what to tell you honestly..

i'm starting to rethink my whole apology thing.. shit at least you aren't pissing me off with the tribute thread agian

dim:
quote:

Oh god Benji you made me snort again ...


other snorting things comes to mind- pigs




darq -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:07:53 PM)

I'm starting to think she has a crush on you, Benji.

She's *awfully* concerned about making sure you KNOW she's not blocking you. She's all but begging you to message her. Its kinda cute ... Really ... I wonder if she doodles your name in her notebook with lil pink hearts about it?




gooddogbenji -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:08:34 PM)

No, but I could start there again.  Cuz, you know, I still think those things.   I'm not all that fickle.

But I have to say, it is refreshing to hear a Domme swear, whine, get mad, and call people names.  I would not have thought such a prominent Domme would go on record with these things.  But hey, we each market ourselves our own way.

Yours,


benji




darq -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:08:57 PM)

dim is a cute nick by the way ... I like that ... But I'm already using darq so maybe I'll save it for another venue.




EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:10:59 PM)

dim:
quote:

And we're back to name calling. Its sad when you make it so easy ...


you have a crush on me little net girl.. don't you?

it's ok.. admit it..

because you're hanging off my nuts like a fucking squirrel.. back off.. i said take it off forum.. either that, ignore me and don't respond to my posts. and i will do the same.. TRUST me..

when i say this.. i mean it.. from now on..

any post you say to me.. i don't care HOW incendiary.. will be ignored..

hell i thought you were gonna go kill yourself if there were two of me.. ok i just cloned myself.. make good on your promise.

god i hope you find a master soon.. so he can beat some sense into you.





darq -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:12:11 PM)

Actually I have a crush on Benji. What can I say ... I have a thing for dogs ...




darq -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:14:16 PM)

Wait ... you have nuts?

I thought you were a GODESS?




gooddogbenji -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:14:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess

you have a crush on me little net girl.. don't you?



Hmmmmmmm....  the whole crush schtick....  sounds kinda familiar....  Don't know how....  may have appeared somewhere in this thread already....

But I must be mistaken.

quote:

ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess

hell i thought you were gonna go kill yourself if there were two of me.. ok i just cloned myself.. make good on your promise.



Did you not say you would rather slit your wrists than PM me?????  I won't demean myself by telling you to make good on yours.

Yours,


benji




Calandra -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:17:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess

quote:

I always get the last word when they misbehave... LOL


Okay, um, why was MY line pulled into this? I've stayed on topic and refused to get involved in this flame war intentionally...
 
I think everyone should take a minute, breathe deeply, and realize that no one is winning here... everyone is looking foolish because they can't seem to drop this...
 
The issue is dead people, all you're doing is holding up the funeral.




ModeratorEleven -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:17:54 PM)

Ok folks, that's quite enough. Take your love-fest to email if you want to continue this, but the junior high school antics in this thread stop now or people will get sent off to detention.

XI




EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:20:26 PM)

takes time to type things canucknuckle head.

odds are she was typing the same thing as i was.

i would say great minds thing alike.. oops..

that would take two great minds to think alike..

quote:


Did you not say you would rather slit your wrists than PM me?????  I won't demean myself by telling you to make good on yours


yes.. and that still holds.. however.. to say i hastily ignored you without hearing your FULL side.. is being the bigger person.. sorry if you're still on the playground and you don't recognize adult behavriour.

don't end up on block again.. i took you off so we could speak off the forum.

the only reason i EVER emailed you.. was because you emailed me FIRST.. and i, like an ADULT.. would respond in kind.. if you make light of it.. i'll say screw you too and put your ass back.

haha makes no difference to me



i did get your test email by the way.. and it went through.. i realized the block problem.. i've never had to take anyone off block before.

feel lucky i did so for you.






EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:24:02 PM)

quote:

Okay, um, why was MY line pulled into this? I've stayed on topic and refused to get involved in this flame war intentionally...

I think everyone should take a minute, breathe deeply, and realize that no one is winning here... everyone is looking foolish because they can't seem to drop this..


i'm not upset or nor is my pulse racing.. these two are having a net geek day out trying to incite me.. that's all..

both emailed me.. the dim on ignored me. right after she sent her little inconsequential email.. benji and i emailed back and forth before i ignored him.

now they want to take it public.. whereas i respect benji (ONLY MARGINALLY).. he DID be a man about it.. and contact me privately.

the dim one.. well.. she's .. hmm.. well she's herself.

this is amusement for me.. i dont internalize anything.

this is leftover aggression from the *tributes* thread

hell let them have at it..






carolsea -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:25:57 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven

Ok folks, that's quite enough. Take your love-fest to email if you want to continue this, but the junior high school antics in this thread stop now or people will get sent off to detention.

XI


Finally!  Thank you Moderator Eleven!!  [8|]




EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:27:48 PM)

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Ok folks, that's quite enough. Take your love-fest to email if you want to continue this, but the junior high school antics in this thread stop now or people will get sent off to detention.


how many times have i asked what's her face to take it private?

benji has done so.. the other one.. she needs to grow up. yes.. i'm nearly equally as guilty because i did give in to her taunts (by responding.. not by the virtue of it getting under my skin).. that's why i said.. OK.. let's take it off forum.. well you know.. ya can't take it off forum if someone sends you a retarded email then blocks you.

at leat i waited until benji annoyed me before  i blocked him.

i think it's rather puerile to email somene.. block them so you can't handle it like adults so they can respond.. THEN take it public.

i commended benji (as much as he got on my nerves).. both publically AND privately to tell him that i appreciated him taking it off forum..lol the other one.. just has it out for me.. and i'm enjoying being on her skin like chicken pox.

however, i've chosen to ignore her.. and yes.. i feel a moderator should step in before things get nasty.






Calandra -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 11:31:14 PM)

I believe that I said I did NOT wish to be involved in this.... Now for the last hour or so, I've watched all these posts get nastier and more childish. I'm 40 years old and I've seen My 16 yr old and My 22 yr old disagree with more maturity than I've seen here tonight.

I've tried to post ON TOPIC so that you guys would have SOMETHING ELSE to talk about - to no avail.

Sometimes there is valor in accepting that someone has "wronged" you - if that is even so...

To be honest, I've heard you say over and over how you don't care what they think of you, or what they say about you, but your actions say something very different. You do care, or you wouldn't still be typing furiously in an attempt to be accepted and understood. Unfortunately, I think the chances of you being accepted here tonight are very slim, and after the way you have presented yourself while under pressure has destroyed a lot of your credibility.

I'm not attacking you... just appealing to you to stop this nonsense and maybe post elsewhere on a thread where you might offer advice someone sorely needs...

~smiling softly~




EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/26/2006 12:24:27 AM)

honestly.. i would entirely and respectfully disagree.

if someone wants to poke and me.. or incite  me.. YES that is in my nature to respond.

anyone can see how the thread went ok until i got *attacked* by two i'll say "folks".. for sake of not pissing off anyone.

at the end of the day.. i really don't need CM to validate me or my assertions nor me.

if someone says shit.. i will reciprocate to a POINT..

and i've reached that point a few posts ago...


sorry.. once again. i dont need CM to validate me..

maybe if you knew the underlying workings behind it you'd have a bit more knowledge.. and i wont go into it on a public forum.

and no i don't *care* what they think.. hell i'm sure  most people on here dont like me and honestly i don't really care.

but if someone wants to take things public.. the cuban in me says BRING IT.. i wont back down from anything.. forum post.. club fight at an OI! or punk show.. whatever..

however after some point i do grow bored.

if you feel my responses invalidate me.. ok fine.. lol but i seriously doubt how ONE forum thread could invalidate all i've done in life.

i'm sorry.

still.. i do respect how you could view it being on the outside.. i wasnt the one that started the fight.. but i'm not afraid to finish it.

if someone wants to take take things out of private email and blast it on a public forum.. depending upon the topic, yes i will or will not engage.. however, i don't engage for the sake of engagement.

contrary to what you feel.. i don't REALLY care.. unless i've met someone face to face.. they are just a pixel on my screen.. and when i go to bed at nite i have sweet dreams.

i was taunted, pot shotted and well frankly.. after a while i took the bait.. but no.. it has nothing to do with my credibility.. nor who i am.. i took a taunt bait and that's rare.. i only probably took said bait because we could have handled it in email. that wasn't an option when someone sends you a fucked up email,  hides behind the block feature.. then wants to take it public.

show me a human that wont stand up for itself.

and i'll show you someone that needs some chlorine in their gene pool

i for one am glad the moderator stepped in..

and i dont feel attacked.. don't worry.. i have taken what you've said tonight in earnest.. i really have. but once again.. i dont feel i need to be *accepted*.. i don't have that follow the herd mentality. if someone crosses me.. i will handle the case on a situation by situation basis.. but i won't be *picked* on.. by two subs..

i'm sorry.. mabye it's the domme in me.. or maybe i just have a sense of reality. with ath being said.. yeah.. i lost my cool.. and that is rare.. rarely do i get annoyed like that.. but if you read the emails i've received from these two.. that want to take things personal and public..well if you'd respond differently.. and not at least say something .. then i can respect that.. but i can't say that's me.

but you're right to an extent.. it reminds me something that my gramma once said.

never argue with a fool. someone on the outside looking in may not know who is whom.


truer words have never been spoken and i've proven that tonight.








Reasonable -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/26/2006 4:11:03 AM)

Naw,they need a little picture of a cat, with tiny dollar signs for eyes.

This topic is almost as old as the one where male subs whine that they can't get laid.[X(]




TedEbear -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/26/2006 6:19:10 PM)

I second the motion.

A way to exclude or include them in the search parameter as well.





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