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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 9:30:20 PM   
EbonyFtshGoddess


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Wow ... Yeah ... Uhm, I guess consensual ... Doesn't really fit in your ideals then?


are we talking about my personal slaves? the last consent they have in life while serving.. me IS to serve me.. PERIOD.

goodness.. your name really IS appropriate.. you are darkly dim.. well kudos on picking an apropos name- because you're totally in the dark.

i said.. here let me translate this into *netspeak*

EbonyFtshGoddess
quote:

that's why i said i could never be a pro domme fulltime or as a means of support because i would be hurting motherfuckers left and right when i get into a scene. and i may *blank* out and ignore his cushy little *safe word*.


that means.. i wouldn't accept a male that had limits that werent compatible to mine. pro dommes DO cater to subs.. and YES they are a vehicle on the road of fetish with a whip, personally.. i'm not.. i do what i want WHEN i want.. and if they don't like it then don't approach me.

if what you *say*  was true.. i'd have a bad name in the rubber scene. which i don't .LOL far from it..when someone approaches me for a tributed rubber scenee i'd treat him like one of my slaves WITH the exception he DOES have a safeword and ALLOWED limits (compatible with my own).. i get a male that tells me.. ok whatever your limits are mine and *blank out* to enjoy myself. THAT means.. i IGNORE the fact he's not a slave of mine and i treat him JUST like he were collared.

so yess.. if he didnt  accept my view of limits then why approach me?  my profile CLEARLY says i won't compromise what i expect.. sorry.. a rubber patient or rubber dog or cuckold that agrees for treatment isn't going to dictate shit to me. i KNOW what i'm doing.. and i do it WELL.. my personal slaves feel safe as does my 1 tribute slave  that i have left whom i didnt collar yet.. when his mom dies and he doesn't have to care for her anymore.. then he'll be mine too.

THAT's why i don't see pro clients exclusively.

try again.. wrong candidate but it's ok.. i'm used to *haters*.. with THAT being said.. PERHAPS.. (in your infinite wisdom) you could see i said that i DO respect the limits of the FOUR males i've seen.. i was TRYING to say  limits aren't an issue with my slaves or 4 (now 1) pro clients i've seen.. because we ALL have common limits. if he didnt agree.. well then that's his bad for approaching me. but i DO respect limits.. just my SLAVES don't have limits other than what I impose upon them.

i said: EbonyFtshGoddess

quote:

i could never be a pro domme fulltime or as a means of support because i would be hurting motherfuckers left and right when i get into a scene. and i may *blank* out and ignore his cushy little *safe word*.


sorry.. attack someone else.. not havin it..,.. blank out is an expression.. OBVIOUSLY i won't black out. duh. i thought  we were all smarter than that.. i'm saying IF i were the type to ONLY have pro clients, i would do what i want ANYWAY... i'd blank out their limits.. HENCEFORTH i am not a full time pro domme.. i only take men that accept MY limits anyway.

darq:
quote:

Even as someone who only does professional scenes on a part time basis, thats just scarey. I mean, do you warn the boys you play with that ... Hey, I might just blank out and ignore your cushy lil safewords. Just thought you should know ...


no, net dear.. contrary to your feeble attempts to debase me.. along with your cronies.. i don't have to warn anyone.. my profile warns them enough. and they KNOW they are in safe hands they also know what they're getting into.. and TRUST me.. PLENTY of men are game for rubber play at my will.. lol if they haven't run yet.. odds are they wont

probably one of them have seem me conduct demos or workshops and they WISH for REAL SM training.. not this happy net shit.. so they come to me.. they flock to me.. not away from.

inferiorwanker:
quote:

LOL to some men thats a fantasy come true ,to others thats abuse

i`m curious on this point ,do you tell them this after they are naked ,do you like to have fear in their eyes or do you revel in the site of a humiliated naked man running from your house


no, they pretty much know when they meet me.. you are a slave.. you are nothing else.. you are flesh for me to amuse myself with.. i dont spring shit on people because i dont HAVE to.. no surprise tribute for my lifestylers.. no surprise limits for the 4 pro sessions i've had.. they come to me knowing full well what they can expect.. i dont hide shit.. i edge play.. and i'm damned good at it..  but yes, typically in my home they are naked or in full rubber gear.

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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 9:34:27 PM   
EbonyFtshGoddess


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quote:

Sheesh - I'm not in Mensa, and I know that should be WHO and not WHOM.

I feel better now.
CarolSea




who cares.. you got my drift.. or well..lol on this  forum.. maybe you did not.

try again.. not phased.

but nice try


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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 9:55:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Wow.  Anyone else see an HNG stealing some pics and spoiling a probably good Mistress' reputation?  If only she knew it was an arrogant, stuck up 18 year old guy using her pics, HE would be getting a new one torn by the real one.

And because you blocked me, I couldn't let you know how cowardly it is to send a personal attack then block someone.  I know, I sent the first one, but 3 messages in, come on!

Anyway, hope school starts up again soon, so you can get back to studying and off this forum.

Yours oh so truly,


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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:07:44 PM   
Calandra


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Status: offline 		I was a pro Domme for five years. I have no problem charging for a service (let's face it, I did not have a "relationship" with each and every client - though I did give a considerable discount to some of my more enjoyable darlings), however I am very careful NOT to emphasize money in any way when getting to know a prospective partner. 
 
I do notice a few common things about many male subs:
* Many of them are attention hogs who have no concept of the time, energy, or concentration that a quality scene (much less a relationship) requires.
* Many of them are "wired" to think that if they can get something for free, it has less value. (I often plan to pay My portion of the check when we go out the first few times - If he offers, and he seems to genuinely want to pay, I do appreciate it, however.)
* Many of them forget that beauty and fantasy are not free. When dressing for a party, a man can often wear the same clothes he wore five years ago because they are still in style and he looks good in them. In addition to My dress or pantsuit, I have the added expense of nails, perms, pantyhose, lingerie, jewelry, accessories, makeup, purses, and shoes. When a prospective sub meets me for drinks, it's not uncommon for me to dress for the evening two hours before the appointment, while he takes 20 minutes, shower included. As a lifestyle Mistress, I maintain my own toys, tools and supplies, including costuming for role play, castille soap for enemas, gloves to avoid cross contamination, lysol, saddle soap, sterile needles and catheters etc, etc, etc...
 
While it is true that some subs provide their own supplies if they have a specific kink, how relaxed would they feel if they met me and I was slovenly, mismatched, and my toybag was not in good condition and stocked?
 
I may not ask specifically for tribute, but I notice which play partners are sensitive to my finances and my effort, and which ones simply take me for granted. Guess which ones get (and hold) my attention?
 
If someone moves from casual play partner, into the realm of personal slave, where we are investing more time, emotion, etc, I expect them to pay their share of the expenses. If we become full time live-in, then and only then will I allow them to pay any of MY expenses. However, if I am financially better off than the slave in question, I have been known to pay the lion's share then too...

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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:21:16 PM   
EbonyFtshGoddess


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Status: offline 		i blocked you after email because you were rude.. i had already removed you from ignore right after i did it.. so i suppose you can toss more pro domme rants at me.

email me tomorrow.. you'll see you were removed from block..

i will admit.. it was done in haste

and i've already taken you off block about like 5 hours after you sent that last email that annoyed me.  i have a habit of mentally (or physically IE blocking) males that perturb me. i just don't tolerate or deal with that to me from ANYONE. let alone online.

i was ok with you emailing me personally i prefer it to random cheap pot shots.. even in my second email to you.. i said i appreciate you taking our discrepancy OFF public forums (even though really.. i didn't have MUCH of a problem with YOU personally.. )

i did appreciate however your forthcoming to take it private.. but the ad hominem pro domme tribute rant that you carried over from the tribute thread to my email  really didnt sit well with me because i don't appreciate passive aggressive taunts.. they dont go over well with me- especially when i'm not even a full time pro domme. but hell yeah i'll take gifts from my slaves.  why taunt me?

like i said.. it was done in haste..i'm not back peddaling,, BUT i do see your point..and never let it be said that Goddess is not able to admit her fault in things.

what you did and what I did was different than you sending me an email and then automatically blocking me. you didn't do this. we did speak and then when you pissed me off so i blocked you.

blocking me AFTER you sent the1st email would have been retarded..  you didnt do that so i can respect that fact. you didnt email first then block like a little bitch.. you stood your ground (albeit a RUDE ground).. but you still stood it.. you didnt hide behind block feature.. and neither will i.

*edited because i had a CRAP load of typos in that post*

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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:30:25 PM   
Calandra


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Status: offline 		I so agree with you there!

My clientelle was built predominantly around enema enthusiasts. It's a specialty that I have real talent for. It helps that I enjoy, understand, and can really give these guys exactly what they've always dreamed of.

I would conduct an initial interview to find out if they have limits, requests, and health issues (I mean, come on, you cannot give a milk and molassess enema to someone who's lactose intolerant). I would then begin the session and the sub was no longer in control in the slightest. I remember a smart ass who wanted enema play, and I conducted an entire scene without giving him what he requested. When I told him to get dressed, and that he was free to go, he asked about his enema... I told him that maybe next time if he was respectful, I'd give him what HE wanted, but since I didn't get what "I" wanted this time, neither would he... He behaved like a darling from then on out.

I love how so many people can attest to what a Pro Domme does in session, and get it soooo wrong....

~chuckles~

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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:33:05 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Call me crazy, but a formal apology saying "you're unblocked" and such means a lot more if you actually unblock me.  Or let me write a long message and lose it, then laugh that it may have worked.  (it said "Test")

Second, you'll find that all I do is write passive agressive taunts.  I don't have the experience for much else, but it sure makes my life be more entertaining.  For example when people take them seriously.

Anyway, I see no reason to message you.  I think I've stated my theory quite blatantly.

Yours,


benji

Edited because you still do.

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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:34:50 PM   
EbonyFtshGoddess


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Status: offline 		you've been unblocked since about like.. 4 hours or maybe 5 after i responded.. i dont know how long CM takes to unblock.. but no

i did unblocked you.. i have no reason to lie.. hell i even sent you an email just now and it went through.




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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:38:50 PM   
EbonyFtshGoddess


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He behaved like a darling from then on out.


shit he at least he behaved like a darling and went out.

rather than you having to kick him out..

i've had males that approach me for pro sessions on CM to shit on them, vomit in their food (by the way i HATE vomit.. it's one of my limits).. or they want me to *force* them to suck animals.

please.. when i gave my 4 tributed sessions.. and i dont give sessions often, they did what i said or they didnt scene with me.. sorry, no ebony rubber nurse for you.

like i told the scat lovers.

shit happens,

but not to you. and i passed.. just like i pass by most slaves.. if i were to be a full time pro domme i'd probably be broke as fuck.

i agree with you.. if someone doesn't want to do what i want to do.. they can kick bricks..

lifestyle slave, tributing rubber lover or WHATever.

as i tell them


don't let the door hitcha where the good lord splitcha




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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:39:29 PM   
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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:40:02 PM   
darq


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Status: offline 		EFG ...

I'll ask you once more to please knock it off with the name calling. In my posts to you I have never had to resort to name calling or personal threats yet you seem to feel justified in doing so with me.

If you disagree with me, thats fine. By all means express it. I love a good debate. But I refuse to debate with someone who finds herself unable to communicate effectively without using threats and name calling to make her points.

Oh and one more thing ...

MENSA member my ass ...

sincerely,
darq

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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:41:23 PM   
EbonyFtshGoddess


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Status: offline 		you're not bloody blocked anymore!!

not since like 5 hours ago..

shit that aint my fault.. great.. MORE shit lumped on me that i have no control over.

geeze


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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:43:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Actually, you do have control over it.  Click on the blocked list button.  Click on the X next to my name.  That's all it takes, dude. 

Yours,


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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:47:26 PM   
EbonyFtshGoddess


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MENSA member my ass ...


please "seeking online only" girl.. drop it.. don't carry shit from one thread to the next.

i'm done with you.. you can keep responding to my posts.. but at the end of the day.. you sent an email.. blocked a response (sorta unlike i did benji.. i blocked him AFTER he pissed me off.. which is my goddess given right to block someone that annoys me)

however.. dont block me then take shit public.

be a "woman" about it.. and approach me face to face.. spar with me in private.. i won't engage in your pettiness on a public forum.

still.. i'll say this.

i do feel you are dim.. that's not a personal attack.. merely my perception of you.. i wont  say what i really feel you are because.. well that would be rude.

take me off *block* after you sent a rather convoluted and non sequiter email.. then we can talk.

as far as my being in MENSA..

yes.. i was in MENSA because my mother pushed me to be. from elementary school until sophomore university.. yes.. i do have a high IQ.. no i don't boast or brag about it.. and yes i felt MENSA was a pretentious group of intellectual assholes.. that's why i got out.

be a woman.. take it off the board

-Goddess


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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:51:12 PM   
EbonyFtshGoddess


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Status: offline 		dude you are SO off my ignore.. you don't even know. i clicked that X.. let me unblock you from your profile.. maybe i have to do it in both places.

god this is a lot of work for me to make an apology

but hey.. you were a big man.. and i can do the work it takes to be a bigger woman.

but dammit if i didnt block you nearly right after you pissed me off!






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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:52:13 PM   
darq


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Status: offline 		But you did brag about it ...

Furthermore, if you have the right to block someone ... So do I ... Thats the beauty of this site.

And yes, I am seeking online only for now ... Because I have the intelligence to recognize that as much as I might enjoy having a person in my real life, at the moment, I have certain things I need to attend to. I'm choosing to take this time to improve myself as a human being.

I have no desire to spar with you ... No offense, but I'm way out of your league.

Thank you for taking the time to clean up some of the typos by the way. It makes reading your replies so much easier. Also, for not calling me names ... I guess you can be taught.

Want a cookie?

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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:54:35 PM   
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ORIGINAL: EbonyFtshGoddess

dude you are SO off my ignore.. you don't even know. i clicked that X..



Need I restate the 18 year old guy thing?

Duude, I totally unblocked you, man.  I like, clicked on that....  like, X thing, then took another bong hit, and then, like, totally...  totally...  like....  what was I saying?



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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:56:25 PM   
darq


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Status: offline 		Oh god Benji you made me snort again ...

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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:59:12 PM   
Calandra


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Status: offline 		I actually like the smart asses from time to time... I will allow them to think they're "getting away with it" and then make them pay for their actions in hilarious and inventive ways...

I always get the last word when they misbehave... LOL

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RE: Female Dominants begging - 4/25/2006 10:59:33 PM   
EbonyFtshGoddess


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Furthermore, if you have the right to block someone ... So do I ... Thats the beauty of this site.


look GENIUS.. (once again.. term used loosely).. you sent me an email about killing yourself or something or other.. i don't remember..

i respond to say >>yawn<<

and you blocked me.. that's not *quite* what happened with me and benji

he emailed me.. i emailed him back.. i responded.. then thought about it and i was like.. wait a min.. why the FUCK am i taking this shit into my personal email as if i already don't have ENOUGH.. why am i engaging in this tribute shit in my EMAIL box? as if i dont have like 15 emails stacking up and motherfuckers emailing me asking why i haven't responded yet and it's only been like 2 days.

YOU on the other hand.. emailed me then blocked.. THAT's why i said.. be a woman take it off forum.. you're really displaying your wealth of knowledge.. keep it up.. i'm getting a massive chuckle and you burn 3.5 calories per hearty laugh.. i think i just burned like 50..

as far as typos.. hey mami.. that's part of life on the net.

when i write a magazine article.. i dare you to find a typo.

oh wait.. you're still searching online for your domme.. you won't be able to read a book or magazine.. your face is too firmly planted in front of your screen.

like i said.. take it off thread and approach me like a woman.

or sub or whatever you are




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