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inferiorwanker -> Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 9:44:13 AM)

is it just me? but why does it seem that every female dominant is begging for tribute or does everyone get replys from female dominants asking for money to prove your not a timewaster

i can understand pro Dommes asking for a deposit if your booking a session but the women who are just looking for potential play partners

i`m suggesting a new icon for these such women a small begging bowl ,would do and also a new verification system ,where if you are asking for a tribute ,those people have to go on cam and verify themselves to the moderators ,then we can give them icons too ,pro dom/mes ,real women just asking ,and the man in a dress



slaverosebeauty -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 9:49:04 AM)

Most sites I know about of this nature have an icon for those who are 'pro.' Usually a $$ symbol of some sort. That would make it a LOT easier when searching to NOT contact thoes who only want money; and for those that want to play, well, they can set thie search for those people. Makes sence to me.



darq -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 9:57:36 AM)

Forgive me for saying but gawd ... This is a tired subject. Its been played out already for lord's sake!



GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 9:58:52 AM)

You might also be inviting those types since the first word of your very brief profile is: (see bolded first word quoted below)
 
quote:

solvent male seeks REAL Fem Dom for mutual pleasure

 
Sometimes the very brevity of a profile as well as the user name will attract only certain people.  It's always good if one can own his/her personal responsibility in any given situation.
 
**Edited for tag



 
 



EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:07:57 AM)

quote:

i`m suggesting a new icon for these such women a small begging bowl


i gotta admit..lol the begging bowl was funny..



Madam4BiMaleONLY -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:08:48 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: inferiorwanker

but why does it seem that every female dominant is begging for tribute


I really don't appreciate the word every before female dominant. I do not beg first off, and I certainly do not beg for tribute from you or anyone else. Next time you post, word it so that it does fit everyone you are talking about and not everyone in general. [sm=crop.gif]



crouchingtigress -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:11:52 AM)

Great name, great first post, welcome to the fora!
 
With out getting into a tirade about tribute because there are about 3 active ones on board right now, I have to say that the icon idea is a damn good one, and I for one am in favor of it.
 
Also just as a personal aside, if you see someone looking for a tribute and if that is not what you are into then in a way think of yourself as lucky, because you have not invested all that much into a person you are not compatible with.
 
But do go and read the threads (where is proud sub's wonderful archiving prowess when you need it? lol) and you will see all sorts of POVs on the tribute thing from both Dommes and subs, that just might expand your understanding...



darq -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:12:44 AM)

Well we could have a half begging bowl icon for all those semi pro Dommes out there ... Hmm, yeah.

Anyway, this subject is pretty worn out. All it ever really does is get all the Dommes who dont want money to come out and growl at you and the ones that do want money are off somewhere else earning said money. Maybe you should just ask the Dommes who are demanding money instead of asking the rest of us. Or ... Talk to The Powers That Be of CM about getting those icons made. Once again, thats something we have no control over.



Lashra -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:14:53 AM)

I don't beg, I've never begged for anything, I don't have too. I don't need money from a sub, I've got my own. So NO not EVERY female dominant begs for money/gifts what have you.

The only begging going on around me is my sub begging me to whip his ass, other then that its pretty quiet. [;)]

~Lashra



inferiorwanker -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:15:39 AM)

are you suggesting instead of real ,i put genuine or perhaps even daring to ask for lifestyle



EbonyFtshGoddess -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:22:13 AM)

can we have a whiny icon too?

i can think of a few people who would need it.. or maybe a thicker skinned icon? i'm up for that..

how about a potshot icon?



fastlane -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:23:00 AM)

I thought when they asked for Tribute they were just asking for compliments, flattery, props...etc.

No wonder I never hear back when I say "Your the Chicken of the Sea baby and that ain't Tuna!"

Winks, Kevin



Moloch -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:30:59 AM)

We are no longer beating a dead hores we are now beating a bloody hamburger!



GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:32:32 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: inferiorwanker

are you suggesting instead of real ,i put genuine or perhaps even daring to ask for lifestyle


Good Grief, no.  I quoted your entire profile in one line above.  I am suggesting you get rid of the word solvent and all it implies.  That, along with your apparent lack to ability to share anything about yourself except that you want to identify as "inferior" (not a popular word with the "REAL" Dominas) and wanker (an even less popular word with the "REAL" Dominas) is certainly going to attract the other "wanker" gals with a paypal account. Hint? Hint?
BTW, I am of the opinion there is nothing wrong with "tribute" in it's proper place.  But I wouldn't give you a second glance, and I can already guess how your  letter of introduction would read. 
However, if you are seeking a lifestyle, rather than some wanker play when you can fit it into your schedule, you should let people know that.  If this is not the impression you wish to leave, you should rethink your approach.
Own it, and then fix it.
 



inferiorwanker -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:32:51 AM)

sure ,why stop there ,why not go the whole hog and have icons with beards and beer bellys for Doms ,skinny guys with a goatee ,for switches ,and just a skinny guy for submissives and a dog for slaves




crouchingtigress -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:39:13 AM)

~Tries to think of what a whiny icon would look like~ maybe this guy>...[image]http://www.collarchat.com/micons/m22.gif[/image]



IronBear -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:39:42 AM)

Stand inside my new business ....................................

MacIron Bear's Fast Foods

And watches kajirae cooking the Blue Flamed Boody Dead Horse Burgers...
(Blue Flamed under licence of the Priest Kings ~ Gor)



truesub4u -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:43:49 AM)

LOL grabs shovel.... looks for OWNED.... asking Ironbear.... you got any grannysmith apples in that eatery?.... [;)]



twicehappy -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:44:04 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: IronBear

Stand inside my new business ....................................

MacIron Bear's Fast Foods

And watches kajirae cooking the Blue Flamed Boody Dead Horse Burgers...
(Blue Flamed under licence of the Priest Kings ~ Gor)
 
Can i get an order of fried suls and a paga to go with that?



inferiorwanker -> RE: Female Dominants begging (4/25/2006 10:45:26 AM)

ok i`ll change it too broke and desperate ,and i deliberatley kept my profile short as for my name i called myself that because i have an iferiority complex and wanker ,well you show me a man who doesnt claim to self love ,and hes either in chastity got no hands or hes a liar

and on a personal note i wouldnt give you a second look not because we may not be compatible but your in arizona ,i`m in UK ,but thanks for replying [:D]



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