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RE: needing help desperately - 4/27/2006 6:18:08 AM

plantlady64

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Hello There,
When I was a slave to my now boyfriend we had his 9 & 11 year old kids in the house. Being a slave meant I wore dresses without panties in the home so my crotch would be accessible to him at all times. Much like you there was very minimal playtime overall. The point wasn't that he wanted to play with me all the time it was that it was his right to choose when. Service to your Master with kids in the home means keeping the house clean, the laundry done, the meals cooked and cleaned behind & making him and the kids as comfortable in their environment as possible. As you hang up jackets, do dishes clean the bathrooms you should center yourself on the notion you are doing these household duties for him. In all you do and every breath you take you can do that with the Master as the center of your purpose. Play is a fringe benefit you're lucky to have when your Master requires it of you & not the main purpose of a slave. Center your life on making his easier and being available to him and you'll feel more whole. There's two good books for you that may help. Mrs Abernathy's concise slave training manual & SLavecraft. You can get them online pretty cheap. There's also castlerealm.com. It has some good info you may read too.
Good luck finding your peace and center.
Sincerely,
Suzanne

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RE: needing help desperately - 4/27/2006 8:46:32 AM

DommeLaura

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Dearest little one,
you are a Slave. you can't elect to go out of slave mode because you are forever a slave.All that you do is to serve Master and you must remember this in all that you do.You are working at your job to support and please Master.This is not time that you are out of slave mode, it is one of the best ways for a slave to serve and honor Master.I agree with the other post that Master needs a way to communicate this to you while you are working or infront of the kids.you need cues or touchstones to remind you that you are a slave.
I think the problem here is that your Master needs to communicate this with you on a more regular basis.
Communication can take many forms and can be subtle and private so as to be exhibited in public.Verbal cues (such as every time you say *please* or other sub words you are honoring Master wether you say it to him or another).I think you need something along these lines to act as a constant reminder that you are in service of your Master.you can develop slave tendencies at work through a vocabulary Master forces you to use.
you need to ask permission to discuss this with Master and request that he give you feedback on your performance as slave and that you are forgetting your place out of his physical control.Master needs to provide more mind control over a little one like you.Are you reporting to Master every day you come home from work?Maybe Master needs to select your clothes,underwear,jewelry,shoes that you wear to work.
If you need ideas I would help you or Master. Emotional domination is my favorite and a special relationship that takes a very,very long time to accomplish.
It is my opinion from what you have said you need more emotional training and control as a slave.
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RE: needing help desperately - 4/27/2006 9:50:21 AM

Dustee

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ORIGINAL: rose442
I have a question for all the slaves out there. Master has been looking for a slave to help me with a problem this girl is having and has had no luck....Master says there are other slaves in my situation but they have adapted to being in this situation and feel and act as they should. So now I am asking for help. How is it done? What can I do to feel like a slave should feel all the time? Master says it is within me. I have to keep myself there. I am the reason I get out of slave mode. But I don’t know how to stay there. Can anyone relate to me and give any advise.
rose442

Here's the best advice I can give you and I wouldn't be saying this if you didn't state you have a master-slave relationship. He is your master, Rose. The solution, whatever it turns out to be, must come from him. :(

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RE: needing help desperately - 4/27/2006 11:44:25 AM

SweetEscravo

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Something simple I've found is to simply think to yourself that you are doing what ever activity you are engaged in "for your master". Even if you're cleaning, at work, running errands ect, just keep telling yourself you are doing it as a slave for him. Imagine how you would feel doing chore X as a slave, and invoke those feelings.

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