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Contesaluv -> Does the size matter to you? (4/25/2006 4:20:27 PM)

First let me state that this is not meant to offend or to catapult any male subbie into a plastic surgeon's table for some extensive extender surgery.[sm=banana.gif]

I was having a conversation with a vanilla friend who is aware of my lifestyle choice and she asked me if the size of the package of any prospective subs mattered to me or not just as they do to some women in vanilla.  Of course, they mattered to her.  I responded that it depended upon what my intentions were for each one. [sm=bust.gif]

I was wondering, does this matter to you?  Are you looking for them to be well endowed?  If they're not well endowed do you sort them to the only for play list? 
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Just curious if there's a greater majority that think this makes a difference and in what ways.[sm=preen.gif]




darq -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/25/2006 4:21:56 PM)

Oh wow ... *giggles*

Inquiring minds want to know!




Proprietrix -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/25/2006 4:26:28 PM)

lol
I'll answer here the same as I answered about cut or uncut....

Doesn't matter to me as long as he keeps it in his pants 99% of the time!




Contesaluv -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/25/2006 4:37:09 PM)

And the one percent? of the time?...lol




ShiftedJewel -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/25/2006 4:40:50 PM)

Hmmm... does size matter to me... OH HELL YES!! I've turned men away that have to much hangin'. Let's do the math here... I'm 5'2" tall...exactly how much room do you think I have between there and my NAVEL? Hell, I couldn't even have big babies...  lmao. Aside from that, not a problem... lol




MistressLorelei -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/25/2006 4:42:40 PM)

In a submissive... it might only make a difference in deciding which chastity device to purchase.

Actually, in someone I would want to have intercourse with... there is something to be said for size.. .  but if he doesn't know what to do with his 'generosity', then it may as well be a tiny, little thing.




Contesaluv -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/25/2006 5:01:16 PM)

The problem is that if they don't know what to do with it size doesn't matter anyway.  I can definitely say that if I were to choose to have sex with one then I'd want him to at least be average (6 inches) or above and, know how to use it.

I did however, enlighten my vanilla friend to the fact that all I wanted with most of them was to spank that ass into submission.  However, I do think it would possibly make the scene more erotic if they've got a decent package.  More for the mind to play with.




Proprietrix -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/25/2006 5:03:20 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Contesaluv
And the one percent? of the time?...lol


lol
Actually, that 1% doesn't matter a whole lot either. It's probably just gonna end up in his own palm.




KarbonCopy -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/25/2006 5:27:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Proprietrix

quote:

ORIGINAL: Contesaluv
And the one percent? of the time?...lol


lol
Actually, that 1% doesn't matter a whole lot either. It's probably just gonna end up in his own palm.


How dull.


Masterbation is amazingly . . . boring.

Doesnt feel good, too much effort, and the result is completely disatisfying.




Proprietrix -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/25/2006 5:31:30 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy
quote:

ORIGINAL: Proprietrix
quote:

ORIGINAL: Contesaluv
And the one percent? of the time?...lol

lol
Actually, that 1% doesn't matter a whole lot either. It's probably just gonna end up in his own palm.

How dull.
Masterbation is amazingly . . . boring.
Doesnt feel good, too much effort, and the result is completely disatisfying.


ummm, then don't do it?




Contesaluv -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/25/2006 5:48:40 PM)

I have to differ, KarbonCopy, as I have had men in the past who complained that the push into the bush was more time consuming indeed.  So much so that they wanted me to climb on top....eh!




GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/25/2006 5:49:11 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei

In a submissive... it might only make a difference in deciding which chastity device to purchase.



My feeling, also.




TexasMaam -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/25/2006 10:24:06 PM)

I'll have it My way, I AM Burger Queen!

Thick is better than long, long is nice as long as it's thick.

Cut or uncut, but I prefer uncut.

Shoot-billy-bob-snake-spit, I'll order it hot, thick, long and uncut, in that order.

<thinks She may be waiting at that drive thru a verrrrrrrrrrrrrry lonnnnnnnnnnng tiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiime!

; )

TexasMaam




Nikolette -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/26/2006 12:01:52 AM)

Yeah.. It matters to me.. but not too much. I don't want something irrationally small, and I also don't want something irrationally big. However I haven't ever had a situation where I had to weigh penis length/girth against their personality. .... Except... once.. when I was like 15 I dated this boy in highschool who's stuff was SOOOO big... it really was irrational!

In any case.. I prefer them to be between 6-8 1/2 inches.  With 7-8 being perfect! For me... in some positions that gives a perfect feeling of fulness without it being uncomfortable in deeper positions. ...

However I'll certainly add, if I wasn't collaring them to use it... I certainly wouldn't care what size/shape etc.




Nikolette -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/26/2006 12:08:47 AM)

In a weird twist of fate, just as I was typing my previous reply... someone messaged me and randomly decided to tell me their manhood measured up to a hysterical 4.5 inches.

Okay. Yes... that IS irrationally small. : (

What is up with just randomly telling me that type of unsolicited information?!




MistressLorelei -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/26/2006 12:15:09 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Nikolette

In a weird twist of fate, just as I was typing my previous reply... someone messaged me and randomly decided to tell me their manhood measured up to a hysterical 4.5 inches.

Okay. Yes... that IS irrationally small. : (

What is up with just randomly telling me that type of unsolicited information?!


He must be into humiliation... and was likely hoping to get his jollies off with an insult to his tiny manhood.... which he got. 




BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/26/2006 12:40:44 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Contesaluv
I was having a conversation with a vanilla friend who is aware of my lifestyle choice and she asked me if the size of the package of any prospective subs mattered to me or not just as they do to some women in vanilla.  Of course, they mattered to her.  I responded that it depended upon what my intentions were for each one. [sm=bust.gif]
I think that for those women who intend to have intercourse with him, size matters.  A man can be too small or too big, and it matters to me because I intend to use my sexually...  As As I've said before, it is hardly the most important determinant of whether he gets to stay or go.   M




Lashra -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/26/2006 4:32:54 AM)

Yep 7 is the lucky number, nothing smaller no larger than 8. It matters to me because I use mine sexually and I will have my orgasms [;)]

~Lashra




thetammyjo -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/26/2006 7:20:07 AM)

Since I do not trust birth control pills or other forms of birth control, so I don't have intercourse with anyone at this time; if I did it would be with my husband when we decide we want to have offspring. For me, the risk of pregnancy far outweigh the pleasures of intercourse.

Because of this penis size is rather irrevelant to me. However it can be very important to a man so if he feels uncomfortable with his size (shape, color, whatever) or too focused on that question, he's probably not a good match for me. His mind should be on me, not on his penis.

For personal preference circumsized or not does matter to me. It is an visual and hygienic issue for me.

These opinions would apply to women too though the body parts would be different. I have had women write to me and in the first line tell me about their breast size or compare their breasts to others.

When a submissive or slave is thinking or worried about his/her own body parts or comparing them to others, it makes me think that they aren't as interested in good service as I'd like.




FLsubmalecd -> RE: Does the size matter to you? (4/26/2006 9:08:50 AM)

It seems that it matters to some ladies and does not matter to others as much. I think it matters mostly to the man that thinks he is to small. Like most males, I'd like to have 12 inches....lol  But I don't. So I make do with what I have. I have made my share of women scream out in pleasure.  Enough said. I won't be looking for my ruler.
But it's the same to me about women's breast size. Many women have their own hang ups about their small breasts. So much so that the surgeons are getting rich in making them bigger. For me, I'd rather a woman that is comfortable with what she has and turns me on with her other womanly charms. Breast size is not important to me at all. And I don't like the artificial feel of implants. Cher is sexy as hell and she is about as flat as they come. But I sure would not kick her out of bed for eating crackers. lol  




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