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RE: why would a mistress/master want to be babied? - 10/17/2010 12:14:38 PM

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Either that or OTD* out the door* if OTK doesn't work. hehe.

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I'm the Dominant, and I want the food prepared the way I like it. If you consider that picky, fine. But if you don't like it, you will find yourself OTK shortly.

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RE: why would a mistress/master want to be babied? - 10/17/2010 12:25:57 PM

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Doesn't "Sparing the rod" spoil the slave?

Dunno but I gotta figure I like spoiled slaves. Or, at least I like spoiled Carols.

I wonder how this thread would've gone if the OP had been written, "Why would a M want to be nurtured?"

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RE: why would a mistress/master want to be babied? - 10/17/2010 12:55:40 PM

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I wonder how this thread would've gone if the OP had been written, "Why would a M want to be nurtured?"

Good question.

After all, being a dominant individual, Male or Female, is really as simple as just adding water.

*be sure to read the above with tongue firmly in cheek*

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RE: why would a mistress/master want to be babied? - 10/17/2010 3:37:54 PM

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I decided to put all the OPs posts together, try to make sense of them, and then say what I think:

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ORIGINAL: behavingbadly
edit: babied as in treated like a freaking infant with ridicilous needs, shouldn't it be the other way around that the slave is babied (not spoiled though) but treated sort of like a child by their master/mistress??

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ORIGINAL: behavingbadly
i feel like i want to be babied and not babying someone else. does that mean i'm not even that submissive?

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ORIGINAL: behavingbadly
like them acting like a fussy child or a child in general like being picky about the food or something like that. it makes me livid i don't know how submissive i am in that regard although i do consider myself submissive in most ways.

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ORIGINAL: behavingbadly
it's really the ungraciousness and immaturity that i can't deal with. maybe it's not so much a D/s issue but a personality clash.

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ORIGINAL: behavingbadly
just give me a gracious mistress and i won't complain.

(1)Maybe she wants a Mommy/Daddy, but even Mommies/Daddies expect their littles to have some measure of control. If the lil is way out of control and behaving poorly as a rule, that's not a good thing either. Unruly, spoiled brats aren't in popular demand.
(2)Even her profile says she's out of control. Before she looks seriously for a Domme, maybe she should get herself more under control and then consider a relationship.
(3)Maybe she has a problem with Dominants wanting what They want and expecting to get it. I thought that's how it's supposed to be.
(4)Possibly it IS a personality clash, who knows. But that doesn't mean a Dominant is a bad one, it just means that Dom/me isn't the one for her. That means she should keep on looking & find One Whose wants & needs mesh with hers.
(5)Someone being choosy about what they eat isn't necessarily a bad thing. People have different tastes. Even I have foods that I'd rather starve than let pass my lips.
(6)I think the OP has a problem with anyone that sees things differently than herself. But....I could be wrong.

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RE: why would a mistress/master want to be babied? - 10/17/2010 6:09:35 PM

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I would suggest that until you are capable of caring for someone else's happiness as much as your own, that you aren't going to be capable of having a good relationship.

This. In spades.

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Yeah, but Cali, I didn't mean it in a bad way. To my mind, at 18 a person shouldn't tie themselves down in a relationship. They should take the time to be selfish and discover what they do and don't like in the world. They should have experience doing exactly what they want so that later, when they do want to join with someone, they don't feel as though they're losing anything. If you take the time to be selfish now, then you will have that need fulfilled and you won't be nearly as likely to resent another's needs later on.

This is especially true if you ever have children. You need to sow your wild oats before becoming a parent so that you can be a good parent.

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