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sexyred1 -> RE: What do it takes to become a pro domme? (10/26/2010 9:14:40 AM)
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ORIGINAL: DMFParadox
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt
Way to attempt to marginalize my real life experience and opinion. At least you admitted it.
Please believe that I wish I didn't.
On a professional level, I respect most girls I meet. Skilled, intelligent, passionate, caring.
On a friendship level, I can deal with any girl, as long as they don't try to argue with me on the subject of attraction and dating. Then I generally have to leave the room.
Because on a relationship level, I sincerely believe that most women are are almost biologically obliged to be unaware of their own actions. And conversations like these are part of it.
It's like the old legend of when Columbus came to the new world, and the natives couldn't see his ships. I don't know if it's true or not, but it's illustrative of a real psychological phenomena known as 'hysterical blindness'. The natives looked right at his ships, and did not see them. The couldn't see them, because their minds would not let them think it was possible.
Something similar happens when you lose your keys and find them sitting on the table right in front of you.
Women just don't see what really attracts them. Their minds -- perhaps the way we teach our women, maybe making you feel guilty for this or something similar -- but you just don't recognize what actually attracts you. You'll come up with 50 different traits that are only tangentially relevant to what initially drew you in. You'll simply edit the bits out that attract you but you don't like. For instance, anything that raises the trigger word, 'slut' -- hoo boy, is that a hot button. Your minds will not even let you see anything that hints you might be a slut, oft times, unless it's too blatant to miss, and sometimes even then. Whatever specific interpretation a woman might have of the word.
It's fucking mind blowing, and I really wish it were not the case. But it is.
No, what is mind blowing is the boatload of crap you are spewing. Don't fool yourself bud, women know exactly what attracts them, EXACTLY. I don't know a single intelligent and self aware woman who does not know what she wants, why she wants it and why she is into a guy.
No amount of armchair pseudo psycho or sociological bullshit reading you attempt to use in the debate will ever change that.
The question is, why does it bother you and anyone else that we know what we want?
I find that when men are making ludicrous generalizations and trying to fit women into neat little boxes it is usually because they cannot deal with them on any intellectual OR basic level. Some men are just afraid of women, cannot be helped.
Oh and your comments on how we freak out about being called sluts? Hilarious and oh so misguided.
Get over your bitterness, it might stand you a better chance of getting what you want. Tell your buddy nicky too, get over the anger, dude, it is getting old.
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