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Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 4:56:50 AM   
Nrilion


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Status: offline 		Title sums it up. My previous subs and/or girlfriends have not been into anal at all. My new sub is fond of it. I have some catching up to do, and I wouldn't mind a few pointers. Sure, I know I can just feel my own way, but it can't hurt to have some knowledge of what's in store. So my big questions are:

1. Should I just be planning on getting crap on my cock, or are there ways to time it so that doesn't happen?

2. Is it reasonable to have my sub enema beforehand, and does that actually help?

3. Are condoms worth even trying? They seem great for a lot of reasons, but I heard they can't hold up under the pressure, so to speak.

4. Bonus question: what's it smell like?

Hah. Plus anything else you'd like to volunteer. It is interesting how much there is out there about doing it, but how little there is about the actual details.
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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 5:06:15 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Nrilion

It is interesting how much there is out there about doing it, but how little there is about the actual details.


While I'm sure others will chime in with loads of advice, information and whatnot, I'd like to suggest you do a search of past threads as this isn't a topic that goes undiscussed around these parts.

That being said, welcome and I hope you get the answers you seek.

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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 5:07:45 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nrilion

Title sums it up. My previous subs and/or girlfriends have not been into anal at all. My new sub is fond of it. I have some catching up to do, and I wouldn't mind a few pointers. Sure, I know I can just feel my own way, but it can't hurt to have some knowledge of what's in store. So my big questions are:

1. Should I just be planning on getting crap on my cock, or are there ways to time it so that doesn't happen?

You're fucking her up the ass, so yes, sometimes you will get crap on your cock. If you don't want any on it, don't fuck her up the ass.


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2. Is it reasonable to have my sub enema beforehand, and does that actually help?

You could, but what if it's spontaneous?

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3. Are condoms worth even trying? They seem great for a lot of reasons, but I heard they can't hold up under the pressure, so to speak.

Unless you are fluid bonded, use condoms. I'm bonded with him and don't use condoms.


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4. Bonus question: what's it smell like?

It tends to smell like sex.

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Hah. Plus anything else you'd like to volunteer. It is interesting how much there is out there about doing it, but how little there is about the actual details.


A lot of people are going to tell you to use lots of lube. I don't like lube. It makes it too lubey for us. Not enough resistance and friction so to speak.
For us, just a little bit of spit goes a long way...

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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 5:28:43 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Nrilion

Title sums it up. My previous subs and/or girlfriends have not been into anal at all. My new sub is fond of it. I have some catching up to do, and I wouldn't mind a few pointers. Sure, I know I can just feel my own way, but it can't hurt to have some knowledge of what's in store. So my big questions are:

1. Should I just be planning on getting crap on my cock, or are there ways to time it so that doesn't happen?

2. Is it reasonable to have my sub enema beforehand, and does that actually help?

3. Are condoms worth even trying? They seem great for a lot of reasons, but I heard they can't hold up under the pressure, so to speak.

4. Bonus question: what's it smell like?

Hah. Plus anything else you'd like to volunteer. It is interesting how much there is out there about doing it, but how little there is about the actual details.

1. If her stomach is empty and she had enemas before, you won't get anything on your cock.

2. It does help and it does work, but if she ate recently, you can guess what's going to happen to that food soon. If I am planing to have anal play (myself) I  usually either don't eat or eat liquid foods,  then take enemas few hours before the play and few minutes before the play.

3. Yes, because fecal matter is a dangerous thing. I am not talking about it smell or looks, but all the bacteria that is there. Although some people like it, I believe that anything inserted into ass should not be inserted into mouth/vagina afterwards w/o some cleaning.

4. Ranges from no smell to strong smell, if you actually got some crap on your cock.




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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 5:32:44 AM   
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Status: offline 		1. Shit happens. If you get squicked by a fudgicle, use a condom or ATM. 
2. Proper/high fiber diet (your partner), and it isn't necessary.
3. Yes.
4. Rim her first, and find out.

With a condom, you may not even need lube.  As stated above, spit works.  Ask your partner what she prefers.
I'm not a fan of lube, unless it's warmed up.  (Nothing like a cold shot of lube up the poop chute to ruin the mood.)


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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 6:56:57 AM   
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Status: offline 		If you need to ask what it SMELLS like to have anal sex, you perhaps are not ready to actually do it.

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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 7:11:37 AM   
Ait


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Status: offline 		Lube is good. Lots of lube is better but if she has a lube that works well for her that she enjoys then quality > quantity. Going slow is required at least until you know what you're doing. Enemas can cause irritation. Use a condom and you can avoid most if not all of the ickiness that might show up during or after. For some people having a hot shower with a handy adjustable attachment helps. Make sure she uses the bathroom beforehand. Some people suggest fasting but it's never been something that I felt was necessary. Sounds like she knows what she's doing so she should have all the muscle stuff worked out, one less worry for you.

If you're overly squeamish then I'd say avoid it altogether. To my mind it's one of those trust things, and if you look disgusted afterwards then that's not a good feeling for either of you.

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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 7:23:34 AM   
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Status: offline 		1. Should I just be planning on getting crap on my cock, or are there ways to time it so that doesn't happen?
If shes had a BM that day and an enema probably not.

2. Is it reasonable to have my sub enema beforehand, and does that actually help?
Yes it does

3. Are condoms worth even trying? They seem great for a lot of reasons, but I heard they can't hold up under the pressure, so to speak.

If you dont want fluid exchange yes

4. Bonus question: what's it smell like?
from nothing to smells like ass



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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 8:06:22 AM   
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Status: offline 		anal 101 tautologies:

1.  you will at some time or another get shit on your fuckstick.  Humans have had a technology called 'soap and water' for centuries, learn to use the technology.

2.  shit smells like shit, even if you mix it with frankensense it will still smell like shit and frankensense.  you are young, you will get over it.

3. do it anyway.


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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 8:13:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		I love CM. Aileen finds lube too lubey and anal sex smells of sex and ass. Who knew?

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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 8:21:04 AM   
mnottertail


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Chicken McNuggets or ass, darling.

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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 8:27:25 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Nrilion

4. Bonus question: what's it smell like?




Unless someone else on this site is in your sub's ass, how can anyone answer that? 

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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 8:38:54 AM   
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This thread is becoming quite funny. There's nothing like good, not-so-clean entertainment.

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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 8:52:08 AM   
RapierFugue


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

2.  shit smells like shit, even if you mix it with frankensense it will still smell like shit and frankensense. 



Pure genius

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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 12:13:28 PM   
nephandi


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[quote1. Should I just be planning on getting crap on my cock, or are there ways to time it so that doesn't happen? ]

If the sub go to the toilet beforehand it will reduce the risk, an enema will usually take care of the problem. Other than that a condom is a good idea to avoid getting crap on your favorite appendage.

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2. Is it reasonable to have my sub enema beforehand, and does that actually help?


Allot of people do this, I would say it is reasonable yes.

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3. Are condoms worth even trying? They seem great for a lot of reasons, but I heard they can't hold up under the pressure, so to speak.


Yes condoms are a very good idea, even if your sub use an enema before the anal sex there will still be bacteria there that if you have a tiny rift in your skin can cause an infection. Condoms will hold and if you are worried you can buy some that are extra strong.

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4. Bonus question: what's it smell like?


What do you think the smell it like? You are putting your dick in someone's ass, it smells like shit, that is what it smell like, what did you expect, the scent of roses?

As for further advice, talk with you sub. The first time it is a good idea to use allot of lube as anal sex can be rather painful without it, however you two might like it a bit rough and like a bit of pain in it. I and my former Master do not use lube as I like anal sex to hurt. However the first time can be scary so be sure not to overload her completely, try to make it a pleasant experience for her.

I wish you well


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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 1:17:22 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		I think it's rather funny when people are anal about anal. In a kind of ironic way. If you are anal about anal, you won't like it. Hell I had a boyfriend once that was anal about me smelling like hamburgers when I worked at Aunt Alice's Kitchen. He wouldn't touch me or be near me until I had showered. lol

Take whatever measures you think you need to stop being anal about it, but until you stop thinking of it as a gross thing, good luck with successful anal.

I never used lube.. hated it... just get her all worked up and willing to do most anything for that cum or in your case, willing for anything for your cum. All sizes... no problem... smells... unless you can bend down and smell it, shouldn't be a problem, I never had one and enema's... why fuck up a good thing unless you like them.

Stop thinking of smelly shit and start thinking tight fun.


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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 3:20:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

I love CM. Aileen finds lube too lubey and anal sex smells of sex and ass. Who knew?


Ha! I figured it was a given that anal sex would kinda smell like ass...

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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 3:21:53 PM   
Aileen1968


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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

What's for dinner tonight, honey?

Chicken McNuggets or ass, darling.


I'll take ass for $100 Alex.

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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 3:29:15 PM   
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RE: Anal 101 - 10/19/2010 5:44:54 PM   
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