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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/20/2010 3:02:58 PM   
sweetickle


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Tickling... hhhhmmmmm yes and no..... I like to have my back, butt, arms, neck etc tickled. I DO NOT like to have my legs tickled, for some reason, my shins are VERY sensitive (May go back to the days when my baby sister use to kick me in the shins with hard shoes when she got mad :o)) and it drives me NUTS!!!!! I love sensual tickling using fingertips, feather..... that is all I have had used on me so far.


That's lovely! Soft, sensual tickles are the best.

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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/20/2010 4:34:42 PM   
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Tickling? NOOOOOOOO!!! I'm insanely ticklish and, if anyone tickles me, first I will piss myself and then I will kill them. That kind of humiliation....I.....DON'T....need.

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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/20/2010 5:04:02 PM   
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and can't stand to pick-up a peach.



This! Do you get people looking at you like you're nuts? I do and it annoys the hell out of me. Peaches are to be peeled under running water so I never have to feel the fuzz.


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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/23/2010 1:20:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm extremely ticklish, generally I don't mind getting tickled either intentionally or inadvertently. It is rarely erotic for me, and once I get tickled, any further touch often comes out as tickling rather than hurting or turning me on, until the oversensitivity wears off. When I have had knifeplay done to me (with a sharp knife) I have to be bound so that I am completely immobilised, or the knife tickles, and I'm afraid I'll writhe *into* it. Vampire gloves also tickle a lot, which was very disconcerting to the top the first time I experienced it. He thwacked me hard enough to draw blood (brand new glove, he gave it to me since they can't be cleaned completely), and I was in gales of laughter. It does annoy me when someone threatens to tickle me until I pee myself, and have refused to play with people at all because of it. I've been tickled until my diaphragm seized up and I puked once, and that was very un-fun, and it usually turns into breath play pretty fast. Pushing it too far makes me feel claustrophobic, and I've occasionally gotten violent (usually unintentionally, just thrashing around, but occasionally getting panicked into fight-or-flight), but I've never lost bladder control. Some people are so rough that it hurts, and not in a fun masochistic way, more like they're trying to claw out my internal organs or something. As long as they keep it light and lighthearted, it's all good.

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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/23/2010 1:26:07 PM   
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Status: offline 		Not even the slightest bit ticklish, and I love it when people try because I love that kind of touching. Usually get strange looks when I get that 'ooh yeah' voice and tell 'em to keep it up.  The only time I'm even a little ticklish ... well, after certain very intense exertion. Just sayin.

As for tickling others, I love to tickle a little or a lot. But so far most people I've come across are adverse to tickling. And when I have managed it in a not-silly-playful way it's been something I had to lead up to, then do in small amounts. Though right time, right place, another great tool for doing evil things to someone.

Maybe that's just because I'm a hypersensitive touchaholic ...


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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/23/2010 6:52:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
I find that most people have bad experiences with being tickled nonconsensually while underage by a sibling/cousin/other who wanted to hurt or humiliate them. And that's why we don't like it as adults, it's very much linked to unpleasant memories.


Make it an ex, and you've got it right!  He used to think it was fun to tickle me until I scream.....until I "accidentally" almost broke his nose with an elbow.  It's a hard limit for me now, amd anyone who tries it had better be prepared to get hurt......

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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/23/2010 8:23:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm an evil tickle monster. I love tickling people. It doesn't even have to be sexual, though sometimes it is. There's nothing quite like making someone writhe and jerk and laugh insanely in agony for long stretches of time. Red faces, tears, contorted grins~Muhahahaha! Makes me gleeful just thinking about it. It's really funny when the victim puffs up their cheeks, spittle spraying from their twisted lips, then breaking into howls of laughter.

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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/24/2010 1:06:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am extermely ticklish and HATE being tickled, I am likely to get hurt the person who tickles me. 

However, the gentle, sensual tickling with soft fingers, feathers, etc up and down my back has me purring like a kitty.  

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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/24/2010 1:17:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am extremely ticklish to the point that Daddy can be sliding his hand down my side, back, leg, stomach. anywhere and it tickles me and it makes me jumpy and squirmy that I am used to because it happens often. Purposely tickling me is a big no no I hate it my ex husband would tie me up and do this to me til I cried. I don't like it and never will. I used to be okay with it til he did it to me.

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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/24/2010 4:13:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		I absolutely HATE the sensation of being tickled. I am ticklish, which I think makes it worse.

And while I enjoy gentle stroking up to a point, I much prefer firmer stroking and even fingernails to get my motor runnin'

I make it clear to potential partners that tickling is off-limits. It turns my mood instantly to anger and retribution. One guy who thought it funny to tie me up and then tickle me for ages discovered, once the restraints were removed, that I can happily wait to deliver retribution...

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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/24/2010 4:18:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'm ticklish and as long as I am tickled lightly, I love it. I go off into giggles rather than laughter, and Master just loves the particular tickly giggle He gets from me then, it's a bit (embarrassing to admit!) like a baby's gurgling giggle. I am very touch-sensitive and love anything from light tickles to firm nail strokes, and have orgasmed from just having the insides of my elbows touched with circular strokes! (And the first time that happened was with a vanilla bf while I was draped over his lap in a cocktail lounge ... he looked SO surprised when I hissed at him "don't stop! don't you dare stop!" but bless his heart, he kept stroking my inner arm till I came!). Master has since replicated the feat a few times, so it wasn't a 1-shot wonder! Master tends to call me "eccentrica galumbits" which the Douglas Adams fans will get!

Master, on the other hand, is very skin-insensitive, which we both find a bit frustrating. He seems to have no erogenous zones other than the obvious one, and even that has a mind of its own. We joke that God wired Him up wrong, and so if i play with His nipples, some other guy must be having a great time! Tickling is a hard limit for Him, as tickly touch goes straight from "can hardly feel it" to "HORRIBLE! Gonna kick ya!" so i am very careful! Suffice to say, it's been quite a challenge when His feet have needed a massage ...

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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/24/2010 9:37:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		I fight like a madman if tickled, I suppose if I was in restraints I would most likely hurt myself which would be terrible but I am SUPER ticklish.

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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/25/2010 3:30:49 AM   
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It's just like everything else. Some people like it, some people don't.

I for one *hate* *hate* *hate* being tickled. It really doesn't matter how it's done, I don't like how it feels. But, I also don't like flannel, and some silks, and can't stand to pick-up a peach.






Put me in the hate hate hate club, too.  And by the way, I don't like the way peaches feel in my mouth.  That fuzziness     ... give me a nectarine any day of the week!

*Oh, and I was in dance class last week.  The instructor used me as the model for a move.  "And gentlemen, put your hand on the woman's hip"... and he did... and I tried really hard not to laugh, but couldn't stop myself and had to twist away.  

A tiny tickle would be ok.  The problem is that they never want to stop and it becomes painful in a bad way.

< Message edited by sunshinemiss -- 10/25/2010 3:41:25 AM >

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RE: R u ticklish? - 10/25/2010 4:27:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: onlyfreelycaged

and can't stand to pick-up a peach.



This! Do you get people looking at you like you're nuts? I do and it annoys the hell out of me. Peaches are to be peeled under running water so I never have to feel the fuzz.




I just use canned peaches- solves the problem all together.

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RE: R u ticklish? - 11/4/2010 6:19:52 AM   
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I am extermely ticklish and HATE being tickled, I am likely to get hurt the person who tickles me. 

However, the gentle, sensual tickling with soft fingers, feathers, etc up and down my back has me purring like a kitty.  

I had noticed!

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I like the other end of the quill. - 11/4/2010 7:56:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have a thing for tickling girls... unfortunately it's not something I have ever been able to fully explore beyond a couple of short encounters. My wife is not ticklish (well very limited ticklishness anyways, she has to be very relaxed, and it isn't a turn on for her) and not many are actually alright with being tickled. Many subs really freak out... at least in my experience. Had one completely stop talking to me after I discovered that she was ticklish when she was bound and gagged. Hell, I wasn't even being mean to her, just teased her randomly between more standard D/s activities. Afterwards, she wouldn't talk to me, left, and I never heard from her again.

I had always entertained hopes of finding a second girl who could take up that part of my personality.

I do tend towards the sadistic when I tickle. I don't mind lighter play, and have no problems using tickling non-erotically, but I really like using tickling to ramp up the libido. Tease her to the edge, make her beg for it... then tickle her when she oversensitive from the orgasm... tease her into a second and third almost immediately. ~smiles slowly as he gets somewhat lost in that thought~

I am not much into foot tickling... never did get that obsession... or the tickling till they pee. Ew. (Well now that I am thinking about it, maybe in a dungeon with a drain right under her and a nice cold garden hose... huh, my mind is going in some odd directions today.)


Oddly enough, I am not ticklish.
At all.
It almost feels unfair at times ~grins wickedly~



Edit: because there were a lot more replies while I was posting...

< Message edited by CrazyCats -- 11/4/2010 8:01:04 AM >

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RE: R u ticklish? - 11/4/2010 12:47:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sweetickle

I just joined and did a search for my fav fetish, tickling. Was surprised to see so many negative responses (along with positive ones.) In my experience, most women either aren't ticklish or enjoy it if their limits are respected. That can mean keeping it to a few playful squeezes to a playful tickle fight to full-on tied up tickling madness. I tickling so playful, sexy and positive. I wonder if guys out there are giving tickling a bad name by not doing it right? Being too aggressive? Too harsh? Not being in tune with what the woman wants? Hmmm... Ladies, I'd like to hear your thoughts on this. Guys too, if you're into this. P.S. Nothing makes women happier then when they find out I'm ticklish, too, by the way. P.P.S. I know there is at least one member in the Los Angeles area who knows exactly what I'm talking about. If you're reading this, you know who you are!


I personally like the concept of tickle torture (the slow, sensual, unrelenting kind) but as the love/hate responses in this thread show, it also depends on how it's received by the individual submissive. Definitely something I'd discuss beforehand rather than just spring it on her after she's helplessly bound.

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RE: R u ticklish? - 11/4/2010 5:14:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Like some of the others have said, my skin is extremely sensitive. I love featherlight touches that tickle but turn me on. Any other thing even remotely resembling tickling is a hard limit for me and definitely will get someone hurt....namely the tickler.

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RE: R u ticklish? - 11/4/2010 5:34:24 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well yeah - I'm thinking the kind of tickling that makes her writhe and moan etc rather than jump and scream.

And safety first just in case (for me) - bondage, *secure* bondage (for her).

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RE: R u ticklish? - 11/4/2010 7:17:10 PM   
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Anyone tries to tickle me and I will try to kill them.


This.  Exactly this.  I will willingly hold still on an order, even if fire or needles are involved.  But tickle me, and you will be going to the hospital, orders or not.


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