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RE: An announcement - 5/6/2006 8:25:26 AM   
blondBBWsub


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Status: offline 		Oh Yes!!!  I totally trust in my fur babys instincts regarding people. If my cats don't like someone, that person is outa my life. I believe they sense things on a level that we don't.

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RE: An announcement - 5/6/2006 9:57:16 AM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		My cats hate everyone but me (and even hate me sometimes) so they are not a good judge.  And of the 3 dogs, only one didn't like him ... eh.

I'm not giving him the bear or the bunny, but I am giving him the necklace back.  I'm keeping the ring that he gave me, because I picked it out and it matches my collar from Holly.  I'm getting ready to leave momentaraly to meet him.  I just hope he shows up for his shit.

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RE: An announcement - 5/6/2006 11:08:59 AM   
shesbaringall


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Status: offline 		Its far too easy to believe ones lies at times, because we truly want to believe them and you want to give people the benefit of the doubt.  My gf who has been in the lifestyle for awhile just got majorly suckered by a guy from this site.  He played a good game.  Now the ass has the nerve to say that she was rejected, while the entire time he said she was the only one, to find out he was emailing with about 14 other girls, using 15 different names over the last 4 years, same story to each.  He has no real experience in this lifestyle and only uses this site and others to find new victims.  He lies about his profession, his children, even had women who visit him take pictures he forwards to the new subs as his own homes.  My gf found him out, told him to fly a kite thankfully not too long into his trolling process.  I just cant believe the nerve of some people.  The figure they cant get caught and just keep doing it again and again. 
Karma will catch up to him I am sure.  I am a firm beleiver in this.  Just feel sorry for his kids, and probably wife ....knowing that probably nothing he ever said was the truth.  I am truly sorry that anyone has to go thru this. 
I only wish I had about 10 minutes of play time with him, a few single tails, maybe a baseball bat or two...Something has to give..lol.
I wish a speedy recovery to all affected by this troll or anyone else affected by this.

s.

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RE: An announcement - 5/6/2006 9:41:31 PM   
UtopianRanger


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He may have thought that he did, but if you truly loved someone (even if you didn't love them anymore) you would NOT be unmoved at knowing that they have been suicidal ... and he was totally unmoved by it.  He still has no emotion except resentment for us throwing him out even though he is the one who was wrong by cheating.


Well you're a lot better than that. I know you have a great support network, but should you start to feel like that again and there’s no ones around, message me and I'll give you my cell, and I'll take your mind off it with a few of my crummy jokes. Until then, I strongly suggest you reconsider your position in regards to ''Imtempting'' - He told me he's ready to board the plane at a minutes notice



 - R

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RE: An announcement - 5/6/2006 11:11:48 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		Thanks

I'm really ok now ... other than the little snot didn't show up to pick up his stuff today.  Made me late for work too

I told him it's now up to him to pick a time/place to get it, and he has to work around my schedule (and I reminded him when I'm off)

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RE: An announcement - 5/7/2006 10:59:13 AM   
theRose4U


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

Thanks

I'm really ok now ... other than the little snot didn't show up to pick up his stuff today.  Made me late for work too

I told him it's now up to him to pick a time/place to get it, and he has to work around my schedule (and I reminded him when I'm off)

You do realize that he's getting off knowing that he's inconvenienced and upset you correct?

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RE: An announcement - 5/7/2006 9:12:38 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		I don't care anymore ... I'm very sad again today

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RE: An announcement - 5/9/2006 8:19:38 AM   
alex311


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Status: offline 		Hang in there.  It may not seem like it all the time, but you will definitely get through this.

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RE: An announcement - 5/9/2006 11:27:04 AM   
DerLachendeKater


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Status: offline 		first of all, i love your kitty in the picture. looks like a bigger version of one of my moms cats. that said, i just want to say that while i personally don't know you and only know about the situation through this post i would hazard a guess that part of you does still care otherwise you would have tossed all his stuff on the sidewalk and called him to come get it five mins before doing so.

i'm currently dealing with a similiar situation execept its with two previous tops from this site. i was their pet, they abandoned me at a con and took my four hundred dollar camera that i had bought with my own money with them. i could ellaborate more but my mistress is home for lunch break. so basiclly they are being very diffcult nuff said. anyways i wish you luck in however you deal with this.

one last thing i will note though is i advise against keeping anything from him, even the ring. those things have a pesky way of continuing the painful feelings.  

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RE: An announcement - 5/12/2006 11:40:02 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		Bah!  I posted a picture of my new haircut (decided I needed a change ... this is the first time my hair has been short in 7 years), and collarme deleted the pictures of Holly  Irritated me to no end.  Anyway, y'all can see my haircut now ... what do you think?

Oh, and my post about not caring anymore wasn't that I don't care about him anymore - I do ... but that doesn't really matter.  I want to be able to look back on this and honestly say that I treated him as fairly as I possibly could, not just that I treated him more fairly than he treated us. 

< Message edited by SweetDommes -- 5/12/2006 11:41:18 PM >

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RE: An announcement - 5/13/2006 2:35:15 AM   
DerLachendeKater


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Status: offline 		perfectlly understandable even though i'm more prone to acts of vengance. my mistress and her mate are slowly teaching me to kill with kindness it has its high points occassionally. but still mean sprited stuff is still really fun . glad things are working out good luck hun.

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RE: An announcement - 5/13/2006 10:41:30 PM   
hairslave


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Status: offline 		Sorry to see this happening.   Even though the rest of US/us are not involved, We/we all well suffer from it's repercustions for it.   Life has tought me that in order  for anyone to decive others,... frist they  decive them selves.   Now  in reality this means that, they can no longer trust them selves.   If they can not trust them selves,... how are we to trust them?   It must be hard to filter through profiles to see who sparks your intrests yet,... who can also be trustworthy.   i know trust is what has kept me from exploring my desies all my life.   Hopefully this can help US/us all learn how to move forward in a safer way.   Don't give up.   i'm sure i'm not alone in saying there are trustworthy subs out there, and we hope we link up with the right Top soon.   Honesty is very important,  not only for those around US/us,... but frist and formost we most stay ture to OUR/ our selves.  Good luck

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RE: An announcement - 5/14/2006 1:28:35 AM   
liks2plzlf


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Status: offline 		SweetDommes  Please don't give up because of one dumbass. Or even three.I only hope he is the excepetion, rather than the rule. There are many out there that are sincere.Perhaps more control the next time.I almost gave up, but found out there are many truly dominant woman out there.I believe their are many truly submissive men as well. As someone once stated on here,"you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find a prince". Don't give up.He/she is out here

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RE: An announcement - 5/14/2006 8:02:12 AM   
SweetDommes


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Ok, I've had about enough of this.

First, don't tell me what to do/how to feel.
Second, I'm not giving up because of "one dumbass or even three."  We're taking a break from our search of undetermined length because of one tremendously bad choice following a streak of regular bad choices which threw me into a severe, suicidal depression (which I'm mostly over - but I still have moments). 
Third, I'm well aware that this process takes time and effort and a lot of patience - but right now, I don't have the patience or the will to make the effort, thus the break. 

If/when we start our search again, Holly will be the one in charge of it, which I have already said.

I'm really getting tired of being told "don't give up" and "don't leave the site" - and just for the record, I never said I was leaving the site permanently.  And I want no comments about my having been suicidal either - being told that I'm stupid for feeling that way DOESN'T HELP.

[/rant]

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