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margitness -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 1:56:53 PM)
I used to think I couldn't do take down/resistance play, too. After all, I'm a Southern Belle and have no idea how to fight. However, I've discovered it's so much fun! And the Tops with whom I've played this way don't care that I don't know how to fight- they've stressed to me that the important thing is that I try. I wiggle and struggle and punch and kick (when I'm not getting blocked anyway) and grab whatever is convenient with which to hit back. My proudest moment regarding this type of play came when I busted the Top's lip. Of course, retribution is a bitch and I walked away with several more trophies than he did, but I'll take it.

Hillwilliam -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 1:56:59 PM)
Ex wrestling coach here. Takedown scenes are funnnnnnnnn, ;-)

poise -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 2:16:13 PM)
I submit![8D]

Focus50 -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 2:20:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists quote: General advice? Absolutely, positively don't do it in public or he's really gonna have some 'splainin' to do to John Law. Of course, if the bastard's been cheating on you.... wink Well.. this is advice I wouldn't follow... and have not followed.... done it in public many times.... in fact... it might in some situations wiser to do so in a public play rather than in a private scene. General advice.... don't limit yourself to the limitations of others. If your a eagle... soar like one instead of walking around like a turkey. Perhaps you're right.... And if the local footy team (or any other good samaritan) wanders by, I'm sure they'll be patient listeners as he explains what's really happening. On the other hand, consensual roleplay or not, enabling/inviting ignorant strangers into what will look like a highly charged and serious sexual assault on a woman is irresponsible, dangerous and just plain dumb. Especially when advocated by one who's sposta be in control because no-one can control a stranger's reaction.... Universally, astronomically, exponentially DUMB...! Focus.

switch2please -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 2:31:16 PM)
Focus, she said in the original post that this will be taking place at a kinky party. Presumably, everyone there will understand what's going on and not interfere unless it becomes necessary - but there are certain risks to playing in public, especially a scene this 'highly charged'. That's their prerogative. OP, good luck and have fun! If you're comfortable posting details, updates would be fun to let us know how it went. If not, that's completely understood [:)]

Focus50 -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 2:39:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lilmisssubmiss Well, he has 30+ years of experience in this. And, i'm just a planner. He explains and communicates very well. I am seeing him before W/we go so I am sure He explain more. Aways does, but this helps because now I know what questions to ask. So thank you soooo much guys it really helped! He said fight... He's the kind of guy who knows if He tells me somthing I will do it. I will kick Him in the nuts, pull his hair... hit... scratch dig my nails in him...it's up to Him to find a way to restrain me and pull me down. I know He knows thats fair game, lol. But this really helped. Just to add to my original post, shoulda mentioned that it's best not to wear clothes you'd wanna use again. The "getting stripped" in a rape usually means clothes getting ripped and torn, so leave that fav outfit at home. And most r/l rape victims get bashed to stop them stuggling. All this "nuts are fair game" advice from others; might wanna check if getting a few fists in your face (or worse) is fair game, too. Me, I can't help thinking the object is really charging up hot, primal sex so at least some things should be scripted. And a kick in the nuts will mean no hot sex that night - maybe a few nights. Assuming you're able - it's not nearly as easy as most think because most rapists are expecting such a move. Focus.

Focus50 -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 2:50:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: switch2please Focus, she said in the original post that this will be taking place at a kinky party. Presumably, everyone there will understand what's going on and not interfere unless it becomes necessary - but there are certain risks to playing in public, especially a scene this 'highly charged'. That's their prerogative. Damn, that detail did escape me; even went back and checked when you posted. Only "public" registered.... We old fogeys shouldn't post late at night, ay? [8\|] Fortunately me ole mate KoM didn't qualify his post as "kinky party". Though I'm certain he won't disappoint me when he returns.... Focus.

lilmisssubmiss -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 2:56:49 PM)
Thanks for the cloths warning, I'll be wearing ym halloween costume, so doesn't really matter. I think I'm going to do good, I'm really anxious and excited!! :) I'll for sure post how it goes. Thank you again for everyones help.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 2:58:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 quote: ORIGINAL: switch2please Focus, she said in the original post that this will be taking place at a kinky party. Presumably, everyone there will understand what's going on and not interfere unless it becomes necessary - but there are certain risks to playing in public, especially a scene this 'highly charged'. That's their prerogative. Damn, that detail did escape me; even went back and checked when you posted. Only "public" registered.... We old fogeys shouldn't post late at night, ay? [8\|] Fortunately me ole mate KoM didn't qualify his post as "kinky party". Though I'm certain he won't disappoint me when he returns.... Focus. Why would anyone even want to do this in a public venue? Wouldn't that make it more like a wrestling match instead of a takedown scene. And for the record....rape play is incredibly hot in my book.

lilmisssubmiss -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 3:01:01 PM)
He's known for his take downs... if He's not around and someones freaking out His wife usually helps out. One girl last time couldn't believe everything beforehand was actually settled upon with another girl He did it with (He said I wasn't ready then)...and she was freaking out, so she had to calm her. my Master is very sadistic, very intense... and i just want to please Him, i am His sub... so i'm not just any person just want to do well for Him. So hopefully i do ok. Everyone expects it from Him though, lol. Last time He did a single tail whipping scene on me 40 times. Eek, was so sore afterwards, yay:P .

lilmisssubmiss -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 3:03:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 quote: ORIGINAL: switch2please Focus, she said in the original post that this will be taking place at a kinky party. Presumably, everyone there will understand what's going on and not interfere unless it becomes necessary - but there are certain risks to playing in public, especially a scene this 'highly charged'. That's their prerogative. Damn, that detail did escape me; even went back and checked when you posted. Only "public" registered.... We old fogeys shouldn't post late at night, ay? [8\|] Fortunately me ole mate KoM didn't qualify his post as "kinky party". Though I'm certain he won't disappoint me when he returns.... Focus. Why would anyone even want to do this in a public venue? Wouldn't that make it more like a wrestling match instead of a takedown scene. And for the record....rape play is incredibly hot in my book. No its take down. And there is some wrestling involved, He's smart, been asking to wrestle Him forever... just now He said i'm ready. So guess I'll trust Him. I'd rather not do it in public, but don't think that's going to happen....it's a big party...and He knows His shit....He likes to show off. Which i don't mind in the end, since He's so good at it. He's one of the presenters for fire play at folsom next year.

Aileen1968 -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 3:04:40 PM)
Take downs aren't rocket science. I just don't get the public aspect of it.

switch2please -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 3:09:40 PM)
Agreed, I don't see the allure there...

lilmisssubmiss -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 3:12:11 PM)
I don't get it either. Wish i didn't have to do it public. But............I crave to please Him....

lilmisssubmiss -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 3:13:26 PM)
I know they aren't rock science I just over think everything....it helps me sometimes, and sometimes it doesn't.

littlewonder -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 4:11:34 PM)
I'm guessing he likes the shock value...watching the faces of the others, waiting for someone to freak out over what's going on.

Rochsub2009 -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 4:48:39 PM)
Brass knuckles are always a pleasant surprise for your attacker in this type of play. A knife or gun usually adds unexpected laughs as well. [:D]

KnightofMists -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 4:48:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 Fortunately me ole mate KoM didn't qualify his post as "kinky party". Though I'm certain he won't disappoint me when he returns.... Focus.[/font][/size][/color] I guess you find it difficult to follow the context of the OP... next time I will bring the crayons so you can follow along.

switch2please -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 4:53:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists quote: ORIGINAL: Focus50 Fortunately me ole mate KoM didn't qualify his post as "kinky party". Though I'm certain he won't disappoint me when he returns.... Focus.[/font][/size][/color] I guess you find it difficult to follow the context of the OP... next time I will bring the crayons so you can follow along. That hardly seems necessary...he offered valid advice, graciously admitted his mistake, and it's easy to skip over a word or two. ETA: I do apologize, my response probably should have been sent in a PM instead...

KnightofMists -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/23/2010 4:58:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Aileen1968 Take downs aren't rocket science. I just don't get the public aspect of it. I sure there is alot of reasons for people want to play in those public play spaces.... sometimes it's because they actually have more freedom to explore at these scenes because of the restrictions at their own private residence. Things like apartments and kids at home make it somewhat difficult to do these kind of things with the full freedom that one might want to have. But, I bet there always those that get off on doing it in front of others as well. Public play spaces also have a very different energy than those private places. It isn't so much that anyone is watching you but everyone is doing their thing and it sort of melds together. It's kind of like going to a night club.... some just dance to dance and everyone is dancing and that makes it an added thrust to the evening...but some dance to be watched and so go to watch people dance. Whatever floats there boat I suppose. Ironically... even though there is some freedoms available in public plays spaces over some private locations... there are restrictions as well that don't exist at the home.

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