Andalusite -> RE: Take down scenes??? (10/26/2010 7:47:28 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Nineveh Yeah, that's actually kind of the point I was making with my second post. A resistance or rape play scene is different than a take down, for me at least. It may include physical resistance, but it is about the mental and emotional struggle. I've struggled emotionally at times - feeling panicky, or vulnerable, or overwhelmed, or claustrophobic. In a few cases I've experienced enough pain to shut down and go numb, but I didn't feel my will was broken, just that it was too much for me to take. KoM, I personally think of "play rape" as involving verbal roleplay as well as physical struggle, and think of rough sex more as how physically forceful he is being, but as long as both/all people involved are on the same page, I think either way of putting it is fine. :) Focus, I've never felt rebellious toward someone who I felt submissive toward, and so far, I haven't felt humiliated or humbled by a man being stronger than I am. I generally assume that's true of most men - I'm rather petite, though strong for my size. Struggling is fun for me no matter who "wins."
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