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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/23/2010 4:06:48 PM

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ok so you're frustrated with the caliber of email you receive.

And this is different from all the other complaints about fakes, newbies, players, etc...how??

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/23/2010 7:28:02 PM

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Beg pardon, but whence comes the idea that "most" women do NOT enjoy oral sex?
There are almost seven billion people on this planet. Approximately half of them are female, give or take a few hundred thousand or so. A good portion of those are healthy, fully-functioning and consenting adults. Another goodly portion of THOSE are sexually unrepressed souls who have had the better fortune to be gone down on by a male who knows how the hell to eat a slice of warm, juicy peach pie in a properly mind-boggling ZOMG fashion.
I am one of this last group. I may be more fortunate than some, but I do not think that I am as much of a minority as the OP suggests. Just sayin'.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/23/2010 7:32:55 PM

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Beg pardon, but whence comes the idea that "most" women do NOT enjoy oral sex?
There are almost seven billion people on this planet. Approximately half of them are female, give or take a few hundred thousand or so. A good portion of those are healthy, fully-functioning and consenting adults. Another goodly portion of THOSE are sexually unrepressed souls who have had the better fortune to be gone down on by a male who knows how the hell to eat a slice of warm, juicy peach pie in a properly mind-boggling ZOMG fashion.
I am one of this last group. I may be more fortunate than some, but I do not think that I am as much of a minority as the OP suggests. Just sayin'.

Wow. Way to make those of us who don't like receiving oral sex seem like repressed souls who have had bad lovers.

I don't have clitoral orgasms. Oral sex is nice (like a gift card to a book store) but just isn't enough. I need something thick, hard and pumping into me to get off. I don't like the "OMG ARE YOU GONNA FUCK ME OR WHAT" feeling I get from oral sex. It's just a.... "BLAH, ok this is stimulating but either put something in or get the fuck off me" feeling. I realize this makes me unusual as far as women go but I'm hardly repressed and my lovers have been fantastic.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/23/2010 8:04:48 PM

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There is nothing extraordinary about your penis...nothing.
To show your dick to a stranger without being asked is CRUDE and disrespectful.

How do other people feel about this?

There is nothing exceptional about your cleavage if I bend over in front of the mirror my backside looks exactly the same.

No lie no lie.

I'll bet your ass-crack is nippleless. It better be because you've just totally ruined any manly desire I had for boobs if it isn't.

I vote this best thread of the week.

I've seen butt cheeks with dimples. Next time I'll think they're just inverted nipples. Damn, now my love of rimming will be forever ruined by pinching, twisting & tweaking said dimples.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/23/2010 8:15:55 PM

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On the one hand, the OP is a complaining about things that are obvious and that people often complain about. On the other hand, she is right about the barrage of penises. I've got to say, women tend not to find penises as powerfully intoxicatingly mouthwatering as men wish we would, and sending us pictures of them is a very, very weird way to try to get women in bed. I can't imagine it ever works. Send us a picture of your big, honest smile, broad shoulders and soul-searching eyes and we're about a thousand times more likely to jump you. That said, I do happen to be owned by a man whose cock is perfect and unique. I can't tell you why, but it is. We're both extraordinarily lucky

And yes, every man offers oral sex. It's not that exciting an offer.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/23/2010 8:21:20 PM

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And yes, every man offers oral sex. It's not that exciting an offer.

Actually no, not every man.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/23/2010 8:30:21 PM

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And yes, every man offers oral sex. It's not that exciting an offer.

Actually no, not every man.

I stand corrected

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/23/2010 8:43:37 PM

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Here is a message to the men...
ALL MEN OFFER ORAL SEX...you are just one of the HUNDREDS.
You are NO DIFFERENT than all of the other men on here.
Head's up...Women will TELL YOU if THEY want you to do it.

There is nothing extraordinary about your penis...nothing.
To show your dick to a stranger without being asked is CRUDE and disrespectful.

How do other people feel about this?

All I can say is I was raised Catholic so I have an excuse. Nothing special about my penis but my god woman if you only knew about my balls. You would be utterly shocked!

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/23/2010 8:50:26 PM

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Ok, first off: I like going down on a girl, if she's got the kind of diet that makes her taste good.

I do not offer oral because I expect to get her off, or even care. I do it because I like it. It's fucking hot. For me. The smell, the taste, the buildup. And I find it kind of annoying when a girl assumes that both a)she won't like it before she tries it with me, because she never had it before and/or some other dude harshed it; and b) that she assumes I care what she likes. I didn't ask you b, I'm TELLING you I am about to go down on you. Get FUCKING READY.

Though I don't usually tell a girl in advance, I just do it. It's an 'in the moment' thing.

As a side note, this perspective allows me to completely understand women who just like to suck cock. And in understanding, I appreciate them more than the ones who do so because it's what 'girls do'. Though I appreciate that motivation too. But girls who embrace both perspectives, duty and pleasure? Pure, unadulterated perfection in the realm of cocksuckery. Anyway. Moving on.

Second thing is, I don't go down on every girl. If she smokes, ICK. Or if she has a high-broccoli diet, or is a vegetarian; vegetarians taste sour. I like the taste of carnivores. Girls that like steak, they taste like prime steak, and God looked on the seventh day and declared this good.

Oh, and the thing about penis pics, my personal preference is to agree wholeheartedly with you, OP. But in the interests of complete honesty, I've been witness to enough girl-talk about cocks that I know exactly why some guys do it and some girls like it. The rest of us are just caught in the crossfire, sadly.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/23/2010 8:59:27 PM

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I didn't ask you b, I'm TELLING you I am about to go down on you. Get FUCKING READY.

*snickers* Ok... that I like.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/23/2010 9:16:12 PM

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<-----among the ranks of the orally fixated ( you can tell just by looking at my big shiny white teefs!)

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/24/2010 12:39:10 AM

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I think it's a rant but I can agree with you. Not all women really enjoy oral sex so it's frustrating to have a man trying to seduce you with something that you don't particularly enjoy.

I don't offer oral sex because I think it is some magic tool to sweep a woman off her feet. I offer it because it is something I really enjoy doing. I enjoy it enough that a woman who doesn't enjoy it is not someone I would consider anything more than casual play with, so if she isn't into it I'd rather get that out of the way early enough that I know not to get too emotionally invested in her.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/24/2010 9:59:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: BurntKitty

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ORIGINAL: DommeKeliDallas
There is nothing extraordinary about your penis...nothing.
To show your dick to a stranger without being asked is CRUDE and disrespectful.

How do other people feel about this?

There is nothing exceptional about your cleavage if I bend over in front of the mirror my backside looks exactly the same.

No lie no lie.

I'll bet your ass-crack is nippleless. It better be because you've just totally ruined any manly desire I had for boobs if it isn't.

I vote this best thread of the week.

I've seen butt cheeks with dimples. Next time I'll think they're just inverted nipples. Damn, now my love of rimming will be forever ruined by pinching, twisting & tweaking said dimples.

I concur. Certainly among the more humorous and amusing for sure.

Personally I think this is the desired unfolding of ill conceived, ignorant and or dumb threads. The inherent value in laughter comes through thus making them worthwhile.

Don't not send me any pictures of dimples or 'nimples' (nippledimples). They would not do nothing for me.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/24/2010 10:02:29 AM

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A message to “ the men” Pardon? Did I get that right? Each and every man? Including myself? Well, I do believe that you are sorely wrong in your assumption about “ the men” AND of course about all women and their oral preferences.

How would you know if the penis of every man is extraordinary or not? Are you saying that you have knowledge of EVERY man’s penis on the entire planet? I know you do not know of mine nor would you ever, thank goodness!

It is a major disgrace in the way you have presented yourself. You have not shown that you are worthy of respect like MANY of the Domme’s here that I totally respect due to their integrity, even though I am a Dominant man myself AND yes have a penis !

Tell me, do you expect the readers of your assumptions to imagine that some submissive men have been conditioned to tolerate an inferior example of a Domme, as you have presented yourself to be? I am 100% Dominant so I would not necessarily care what you want!

What I do know is a that a little respect goes a LONG Way. You might want to try that when you are spouting your mouth with asinine comments like you did here in this pitiful thread you began to incite “ the men”, CORRECT?

In closing, remember that generalizations are not usually based on factual premises. That is something to remember next time you come spouting these sort of generalizations about “ the men” AND of course the grossly inaccurate oral preferences of all women!

Some of the other comments were funny, but this made the thread worth reading. Thank you, Zevar!

On the penis pics, yeah, there are a number of them out there, but has anyone noticed that they have decreased in favor of "full moon" pics? (By "full moon" I'm referring to those shots of guys bent over so we get to see the whole ass, including the asshole.) Just opinion, but I think as the full frontal nudity shots have been reported more, there are less of them out there. Maybe it's just Me, but there are fewer than there used to be.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/24/2010 10:02:42 AM

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If you want to up the rate, use tasty things as perfume so more men want to nibble on you. I suggest a smudge of BBQ sauce behind the ear.

Edited: If you want women, use Godiva chocolate on the inside of your wrists.

God, that's sexy lol

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/24/2010 10:14:47 AM

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Reminds me of the joke, 'My house is over-run with cats'. 'Are you bragging, or complaining?'
Except with pussies!

My first and most obvious requirements are: male, straight, sub, single, sane, local, available: and Oral Sex on Domme's Demand, so I welcome the tasteful 'oral 28/28' msgs, as long as everything else is attached. Bring on the happy lickers!

I just echo the ban-the-oh-so-very-unsolicited 'uncirc'd little dick at half-mast and framed by brillo-pad grey pubes and half-mast tube socks' cockshots: blargh.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/24/2010 10:17:01 AM

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Beg pardon, but whence comes the idea that "most" women do NOT enjoy oral sex?
There are almost seven billion people on this planet. Approximately half of them are female, give or take a few hundred thousand or so. A good portion of those are healthy, fully-functioning and consenting adults. Another goodly portion of THOSE are sexually unrepressed souls who have had the better fortune to be gone down on by a male who knows how the hell to eat a slice of warm, juicy peach pie in a properly mind-boggling ZOMG fashion.
I am one of this last group. I may be more fortunate than some, but I do not think that I am as much of a minority as the OP suggests. Just sayin'.

Wow. Way to make those of us who don't like receiving oral sex seem like repressed souls who have had bad lovers.

I don't have clitoral orgasms. Oral sex is nice (like a gift card to a book store) but just isn't enough. I need something thick, hard and pumping into me to get off. I don't like the "OMG ARE YOU GONNA FUCK ME OR WHAT" feeling I get from oral sex. It's just a.... "BLAH, ok this is stimulating but either put something in or get the fuck off me" feeling. I realize this makes me unusual as far as women go but I'm hardly repressed and my lovers have been fantastic.

Went for a drive the other day with the man after a meeting, it went well, we were both in a great mood, stopped off at one of our favorite places for a martini, then on the way home, feeling a little frisky, we pulled into a beautiful spot called Marshall Point. He started kissing me, slid his hand under my skirt, and told me to get out and sit on the hood of the Escalade. I did, and leaned backed, while he lifted my skirt, and while giving me incredible head, also gave me a mind blowing squirting orgasm because while his gorgeous face was where I like it best, he had three thick hard fingers thrusting and stroking my g-spot while I was trying my hardest not to fall of the hood of the vehicle. Seriously, you can be fucked, filled, pumped, whatever you want to call it, during oral sex and that is absolutely amazing. Of course, like a good girl, I immediately returned the favor.

It doesn't have to be just a little licking of the kitty, it can be quite extreme and intense, and all the pumping your little heart desires. Try it that way next time, some g spot stroking, thrusting, and some warm wet clit and pussy licking. Jesus. I need to go see my honey now.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/24/2010 10:21:51 AM

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Well see, he understands that "oral" doesn't just mean pointless lapping like you're a dish of ice cream. THAT kind of oral sex I like. The sort where he's all slurping away down there? Not so much. Unless I have a good movie on or something.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/24/2010 10:23:18 AM

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Well see, he understands that "oral" doesn't just mean pointless lapping like you're a dish of ice cream. THAT kind of oral sex I like. The sort where he's all slurping away down there? Not so much. Unless I have a good movie on or something.

Agrees! I need more than just tongue. I need internal stimulation at the same time. Either place.

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RE: Oral Sex... - 10/24/2010 10:24:28 AM

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