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WolfyMontgomery -> RE: Courtesy... (10/28/2010 12:43:19 AM)
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I've actually always found it funny when there are people out there who consider submission to be an act of courtesy by someone who identifies as such, and that courtesy is not an applicable action towards subs. It's like the definitions of courtesy have been re-written for kink in some places (mainly in chat rooms that I tend to not frequent anymore unless Master wants a good laugh...).
These things:
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Courtesy is polite manners (please, thank you, you're welcome, etc) holding a door for the next person- regardless of age, gender, orientation, which end of the whip you prefer, or even ability, knowing if your guests have allergies, special dietary needs, and so on. Don't apply to subs in those sorts of places, obviously.
In a lot of places on the online world (and I'm not just talking about roleplaying rooms, also sometimes debate/discussion chat rooms too), to submit IS being courteous, and if you're not submitting then you're obviously not a very nice person in general. And in those places, for a Dom to be courteous is considered "weak" and very "sub-like" - and YES, I really have had debates about this - and it is why Master sometimes makes me go to those rooms sometimes still, because he likes to laugh at them when they try to order me to move out of his house because he's not training me to be a "proper" submissive. Bah. Though I tend to find it pretty funny too... so I don't complain - especially when I get extra kisses afterwords.
And to be sure there's no miscommunication about this - I do my best to always be polite and courteous to everybody, I just call them by their screen names rather than "Sir" or "Miss" because I feel it helps discussions flow better and since I already know what they want to be called, why not? Unless they own me (and these are Master's words) I am on equal standing with them until he says otherwise. But apparently I am a very rude disrespectful person because of this, and Master's encouraging my bad behavior! Oh no! ;P
Edited to add the bottom part, because I was a 'tard who hit the OK button instead of the Preview button like I was aiming for.
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