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RedBottomGirl26 -> RE: Masculization (11/1/2010 10:26:41 PM)
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Female Bottoms: What are your thoughts on being masculi[ni]zed? If someone did the aforementioned things to you, would you find it to be an interesting experience; an experiment to see how the other gender experiences society? Would you be afraid of loosing your identity as a woman?
hmm, I can't speak from the male Dom/Master side, nor can I of the male sub. However, I will at least indulge in the female bottom side. Well, alot of men think most of the women are much too masculine (such as most women do wear jeans nowadays, or slacks of some kind, even if they are blue or pink, or purple, or even if they are more shapely than male jeans, & most women will opt for a dress shirt rather than a dress or skirt, unless they are going on a date. I think there it's mostly about comfort, rather than trying to appeal to the masculine or feminine side. Being feminine is more an attitude than a fashion statement I think). I'd probably let someone at least do this once if they really wanted me to, yet...I might also be curious to the experience myself, since I've never really attempted or tried it (like many, I have long hair myself, and of course, I think I would look just ugly, and my face rounder with short hair, I just don't think I'd look right, though you know it will always grow out again once you cut it, but there I think it's just the time it takes to re-grow it is annoying, but so is taking care of long hair too, but many consider it worth it, since you have to take great pains to maintain it. There are plenty of metal head men, and hippies who have long hair, or just men who think long hair is sexy and wild (and that it is, I kind of like long hair on some men, but it doesn't look right on everyone, kind of depends on the person's face and attitude).
Anyway, it might be a nice expercise in viewing "the other side", but... some ppl say I'm not girly enough as it is, so perhaps I would be afraid if I ever tried to be more masculine, that indeed people would think less of me for the experimentation & such, but actors get away w/ trying different parts all the time, and very few ppl think less of them because they are on a stage. Though, that's not always true, once I went to a play where two men kissed on stage, & there were some college (stupid biggoted idiots) in the crowd, who just couldn't stand the fact of two men kissing, it repulsed them too much, thus displaying the few times you play with gender roles, obviously you're going to offend someone who doesn't like it or understand the reasoning behind it. In fact, I do agree that there are so many men willing to being feminized, but so few women willing to be masculinized. Perhaps, if more people would be open to different ideas and topics, there really wouldn't be as much biggotry and hate in the world as there is.
There's no shame in finding out who you are, or who others are, there is only shame in truly limiting your options so much that you can't see past anything (that you can't see anything good in being different, or taking a different stance at times). I just know that I'd probably be a little more open to it than others, as long as a few factors existed (one: the hair thing, now if I was really in true love with a Dom, I think I certainly would cut my hair for him, but since I've never known true love, I doubt things will ever come to that, and two...if he wasn't masculinizing me only to humiliate me, but b/c he would be excited to do so, and that he knows it's more about experimenting and exploring, rather than just debasing me (I have a real problem w/ the topic of humilation in general I guess, b/c it seems to be used for more evil than good in my view).
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