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RE: Male chastity - 4/29/2006 10:09:29 PM

AZCuckieWannabe

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I've worn a CB2000 off and on over the past several years. The longest I'd ever worn it consecutively was 9 days before it became irritated. I know of another man who'd gone 14 days. I have heard of one other that was able to make it several months. I suppose it all depends on how you're built. I haven't put the 3000 to the endurance test yet, but I think my limits will be comparable. Getting the right fit, and keeping it clean will be the biggest challenges. Good luck!

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 12:13:37 AM

mechbot972007

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Please forgive me. my responses were not directed at anyone, it was ment as a input to the thread.
Respectfully
chris

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 12:44:09 AM

CaliforniaSlave

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I love it when people haughtily write something so simple and obvious (like "it depends on the individual, duh"), and then act like they just gave us the wisdom of Moses.

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 1:02:53 AM

ServiceNTucson

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei

As someone who is very fond of chastity devices, I wanted to add a pro chastity thought, as I don't think in most cases it's a trust issue, or that he has not given himself fully to another. I would never be involved with a submsisive I don't trust. It's more about the emotional connection, and the power and control exchanged. Aside from all of the wonderful benefits already posted here that a chastity device can bring (a stronger natural desire to please, a more demure, focused submissive, a constant awareness and bond to the keyholder), I also see chastity as a male giving up his ability to get an erection unless instructed to do so. I think that while a wonderful submissive will be loyal and not masturbate without permission, he may not be able to control his automatic response. A thought, a touch, a photograph,.. all could trigger an erection. The right chastity device sends a message that he no longer has control of that automatic response.

Mistress Loralei,

My own experience is that a chastity device doesn't prevent erections. In fact, they increased them with me, due to lack of orgasms.

They do, however, instantly punish erections, as I discovered the first night and all subsequent nights, that I wore one. And, of course, they also make it impossible to, umm, satisfy the erections.

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 1:06:30 AM

ServiceNTucson

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SDFemDom4cuck

weeittybitty,

I will email both you and Najakcharmer privately through Cm so that O/our discussion doesn't impolitely take over the thread. Not at all My intention azcuckwannabe. Hope the input was helpful.

Ms Jo,

Would you be so kind as to also send those emails to me? I would greatly appreciate it, thank you. I won't be able to respond to them on collarme because even though I've been complaining about it for weeks now, I STILL CAN'T SEND E-MAILS.

Thankyou,

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 4:53:33 AM

understud

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I would like to explore this further, it seems a distinction is being blurred, submissive are not slaves. Inho as submissive if no real opportunity exist to be submissive ie male chastity devices then where is the submission on my part. The wearing of a device? ... For what purpose! If I have already pledged not to do it; yet have no real opportunity to test and prove my submission; then just where is that supposed submission. Erections are going to happen regardless, it is the ability to not act on the desire that confirms and renews my faith that I am in fact submissive. Not to be able to act proves only one is wearing a chastity device for what ever reason, again most humbly submitted and always respectful. As always to each their own, and I will confess after all this chat about it I might even be willing to give it a go, but only in play, and clearly understood this was only a very limited accecptance on my part.... respectfully submitted understud.

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 1:22:06 PM

SDFemDom4cuck

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quote:

Ms Jo,

Would you be so kind as to also send those emails to me? I would greatly appreciate it, thank you. I won't be able to respond to them on collarme because even though I've been complaining about it for weeks now, I STILL CAN'T SEND E-MAILS.

Thankyou,

Of course I can.

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Ms Jo

She dealt her pretty words like Blades -
How glittering they shone -
And every One unbared a Nerve
Or wantoned with a Bone -

I want a sensitive man - one who'll cry when I hit him.

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 1:33:56 PM

SDFemDom4cuck

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quote:

Thank You for your consideration. I see the question has prompted a thread that's taken on a life of it's own, and i am finding all of the thoughts and input very interesting and illuminating. I greatly appreciate all of the responses that You have contributed, and welcome You to continue doing so.

John from Phoenix.

I will absolutely continue to do so john however I didn't wish to suddenly seem to bogart (showing My age now lol) the entire discussion thread. your question was should/shouldn't they be and it was turning into something different. Perhaps I should start a new one in regard to favored types of chastity devices.

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She dealt her pretty words like Blades -
How glittering they shone -
And every One unbared a Nerve
Or wantoned with a Bone -

I want a sensitive man - one who'll cry when I hit him.

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 1:43:09 PM

LadyRope

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I have to agree with many of the ladies who gave their opinions,I feel that it depends on the dominant and if the male responds to being chaste,as I know men who have had a horrible experience when chaste ,ie constant headaches,irritablility,confusion.I personally would not be with a male who could not adjust himself to my being in control of his sex...I enjoy having complete control over a male,this includes his sex,I am sure that many woman feel the same,however I also know plenty of female dominants who dont use nor enjoy chastity,again this life style has no set rules,a book to follow,its to each their own and what works for those involved,I say,thats what is should be,vive le differance!

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 1:45:31 PM

SDFemDom4cuck

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quote:

I love it when people haughtily write something so simple and obvious (like "it depends on the individual, duh"), and then act like they just gave us the wisdom of Moses

Funny I didnt think he was coming off as haughty or a know it all. he was simply stating his opinion, one which many others have stated as well both Dom/me and sub. It is after all a question of personal opinion that was asked by the OP.

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Ms Jo

She dealt her pretty words like Blades -
How glittering they shone -
And every One unbared a Nerve
Or wantoned with a Bone -

I want a sensitive man - one who'll cry when I hit him.

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 1:49:30 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CaliforniaSlave

I love it when people haughtily write something so simple and obvious (like "it depends on the individual, duh"), and then act like they just gave us the wisdom of Moses.

I don't know from Moses, but there is enough bullshit floating around the cyberscene that it really can be a community service to keep reminding the newbies that there is no Big Leather Book of Answers that applies to everyone.

Except the one I have, that details the 137 True Slave positions and the Proper Way for all dominants to dress and behave if they are True Dominants. Wanna buy a copy?

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 2:13:21 PM

Misstoyou

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mechbot972007

The question is why would you give him that ability?

Chris,

My personal answer is because each time my submissive feels compelled to do something, not as a result of a mechanical device, but simply because he knows that his action (or inaction

) will bring a smile to my face, he more deeply becomes MINE .

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 2:36:56 PM

genvieve

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i think that chastity is whatever it needs to be for the C/couple involved. If that is the reminder that you need maintain constant thoughts of your one...then more power to you. If this helps you to feel owned...and it helps you to feel that you are serving completely. Go you!

But if not, there are other ways. i wonder. What are those other ways? What is that little thing that you give to your Dominant that reminds you daily that you belong to them?

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 6:14:02 PM

MichMasochist

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHugs

Dear AZCuckieWannabe, Ladies and Gentlemen;

As for me and my personal observations and opinions, I would prefer not to have a male in chastity devices for the following reasons:

1. My slave’s/submissive type’s word is their bond. It is their contract to me. It is a matter of honor and honesty, that they will follow my wishes concerning their genitals. If they can’t keep their word on something small--I doubt if they will keep their word on bigger things.

2. I prefer having a man’s genitals free for many reasons; such as hygiene issues, medical issues and most of all--So I can put my mitts on his genitals at any time without having to be thwarted by some device. I think Chastity devices for men is just armor against a woman’s sadistic pleasure upon their genitals.

3. Some Chastity devices for men give a false sense of security that a male will not sexually stray. However, some devices have been proven by men themselves, ineffective as they worm their flaccid cocks and manipulate their balls out of it. Just depends on the model and or the man.

I prefer demonstrating for male slaves/submissive types what may happen if they stray. I take a fake phallus; take my axe and chop it.

Visual aids to work nicely.

Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs

:} Love it, especially #2. I wouldn't want my mistress impeded in any way.

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 6:20:11 PM

TedEbear

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I feel I must concure with your statement Mich. I would not want my mistress to be hampered from taking out her sadistic pleasure on my genitals.

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 8:48:49 PM

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quote:

I don't know from Moses, but there is enough bullshit floating around the cyberscene that it really can be a community service to keep reminding the newbies that there is no Big Leather Book of Answers that applies to everyone.

Except the one I have, that details the 137 True Slave positions and the Proper Way for all dominants to dress and behave if they are True Dominants. Wanna buy a copy?

Wit like yours has been sorely lacking here. Keep it up.

< Message edited by cloudboy -- 4/30/2006 8:49:44 PM >

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RE: Male chastity - 4/30/2006 11:42:51 PM

ServiceNTucson

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

I don't know from Moses, but there is enough bullshit floating around the cyberscene that it really can be a community service to keep reminding the newbies that there is no Big Leather Book of Answers that applies to everyone.

Except the one I have, that details the 137 True Slave positions and the Proper Way for all dominants to dress and behave if they are True Dominants. Wanna buy a copy?

Ahem! I happen to be the Author of that book. Please make sure I get my royalties.

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Harry

"I find television very educating. Every time somebody turns on the set, I go into the other room and read a book."

Groucho Marx

www.desertdominion.org

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RE: Male chastity - 5/2/2006 1:41:27 PM

mechbot972007

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this is a post that i had gotten from a chasty site...between married person...

The longer a man goes without orgasm, the greater lengths he will go to in order to achieve one. In other words, a teased man will do whatever his Woman wishes. Conversely, once a man climaxes, he is not thinking about sex any longer. The needs of his Woman are ignored. Thus, the orgasm must be harnessed - figuratively and literally. Denial of orgasm should be used as punishment, fulfilment of orgasm as reward. There are many methods to doing this, some more extreme than others, but here are some inviolable ground rules: The husband should never under any circumstances masturbate, unless instructed to do so by his Wife. The husband should never be permitted to release unless the Wife has already done so. Sexual intercourse implies by its very nature equity - the putting together of complementary parts. Because the husband should never be made to feel equal to the Wife, intercourse should be eschewed for cunnilingus only. Should the Wife nevertheless desire intercourse, the husband should never be permitted to orgasm. On those rare occasions when a husband is allowed sexual release, he should do so by one of two means: 1) rubbing against a hard surface, such as the bed; 2) manual masturbation by his own hands. Sexual release should be used as a reward, but should also be a punishable offence. Semen should be disposed of in a way that humiliates the husband (i.e., oral consumption). The Wife should not touch the husband below the belt if at all possible. There are many methods to keeping the husband in line. The most extreme way to control the husband's orgasm is through the use of a chastity control device. Limiting the husband to one release per week is a good way to start. Ideally, he should be kept confined for two-three weeks at a time, with longer periods to punish his bad behaviour.

i don't understand how you could be married and not touch below the belt?..thought there were a few good points
Respectfully
chris

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RE: Male chastity - 5/2/2006 6:13:08 PM

SDFemDom4cuck

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mechbot972007

Would love to know what site this came from.

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Ms Jo

She dealt her pretty words like Blades -
How glittering they shone -
And every One unbared a Nerve
Or wantoned with a Bone -

I want a sensitive man - one who'll cry when I hit him.

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RE: Male chastity - 5/2/2006 10:47:45 PM

mechbot972007

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Ma'am,
your request.....please let me know if i can be of any more use.
Respectfully
chris

http://www.chastity-uk.co.uk/ladies2.htm

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