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MistressRosalyn -> RE: more of an "ask a guy" thing... (11/1/2010 4:25:32 AM)
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DMF, not to say that your friend did or did not do anything wrong, I am only going to say this. I once believed and trusted that someone did not do the horrible things they were accused of doing, because I thought I knew that the accuser had an ulterior motive. Imagine my horror at discovering far too late that it was true. I learned in a most gut-wrenching, soul-searing way that I am not the perfect judge of character that I thought I was, and I will live with that for the rest of my life.
Did you know, rapists and other sexual predators often look just like the guy sleeping in your bed? Or your uncle? Or your cousin? Or your daughter's uncle? They are expert at spinning a great story as to why they didn't really do what you thought someone saw/heard them do, and even when caught red-handed they will still try to weasel out of it.
So while I understand that fear is the reason that some men may choose not to make advances lest they be misunderstood, I really think that that fear isn't the case here for the OP's friend.
And in a side note, if your friend was so drunk/partied out that he did something that could land him in jail for a week or two, isn't it possible that he could have done something he doesn't remember, or doesn't want to remember? Just sayin' is all.
Oh, and before we get Mod-spanked again, maybe this needs its own thread if you want to continue to discuss it?
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