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RE: High protocol dinner - 4/28/2006 1:19:46 PM   
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sounds yummy to me... ~evil grin

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RE: High protocol dinner - 4/28/2006 1:22:10 PM   
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I may be wrong but i thought CrappyDom was implying just that.That there are No set rules....as for his responce to LadyHugs...it seemed to me she was being a bit condesending as well....So again, i agree with CrappyDom

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RE: High protocol dinner - 4/28/2006 1:30:32 PM   
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I did a search on the internet, this is a link I found, it might be helpful http://www.slavestribute.com/BDSM-EZine/bdsm-articles/how-to/bdsm-dinner.html


As a side-note: I have catered for formal functions, here are some of the things I could suggest in preparing for it.... the protocal itself is left up to your Master.

1. Make sure you know what your guests like, if they have any allergies to or dislike any particular kinds of foods.
2. Have prep for all courses done *before* the guests arrive.
3. Organise your kitchen and work space.
4. Have everything timed perfectly and also a plan B for flexibility regarding serving times, as guests are renowned for changing your plans and you dont want your meal ruined because of it.
5. Only include in your menu courses that you have cooked at least 3 times before...if you want to include soemthing new..before the event have a practice run...you can make any mistakes then..take note of cooking times and how long everything is taking to prepare and make.
6. Be really quick with getting things out once they are cooked, and have your plates warmed.
7. Meals should be a feast for all the senses. Atmosphere is really important.

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RE: High protocol dinner - 4/28/2006 1:31:05 PM   
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well i have to say personaly i thought Lagy Hugs  post was actuly rather informitive.. and in line with questions asked by the op, while she was looking more for kink themed i  suppose, the general ideas of a good dinner service, and a well done one dont very to much. how every you want to lable it, formal service is formal service depite the "costumes" that may be in place or lack of them. there are certian ways of doing things, lots of options of course but..  just my .0001  and thats about all its worth.. some intersting thoughts in this thred though.. 

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RE: High protocol dinner - 4/28/2006 1:56:42 PM   
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Dear Ms. Desea, Ladies and Gentlemen;
 
 
I understand the limited means entirely, so budget is important indeed and the dollar store/dollar tree is handy indeed.
 
May I submit for thought the following things to consider;
For the table, assuming it is a standard dining table; to look at yard sales for a linen table cloth. Perhaps a neighbor may lend one. If this is not the case,  You can perhaps use may wish to consider mirrors that are not ‘framed’ but cut into a uniformed shape but, enough to handle plates and silverware, to be used as place mats. Sometimes wood panel samples found in the hardware store works for placemats, just sand smooth, wipe and place.
 
Centerpiece can be constructed with your odds and ends of glasses, place candles in them, then arrange silk flowers or real flowers around them, or perhaps fruits with ribbon threaded about but not into a bow, keeping it low and small but, within the “theme” of the dinner. One may also consider using floggers and or a single tail, as to “dress” the table in a presentation like manner, like weaved into a pair of cuffs, placing two small boards into an “X” and since one board will be laying on the other, the thickness of the cuff can loop around the top board, keeping it from rocking, threading tails through the loop in a graceful shape. Playing with it and create may work your creative juices. Perhaps leather and lace, putting lace intertwined in the whips and other leather works. Candles in the glasses, perhaps some wine glasses, some tumblers and such, adds to the mood. Or perhaps miniature rope bondage, done with butcher’s string on the glasses with candles.  If you are not comfortable with flowers, one can use real or silk flowers, shells, nuts, stones.  As a side note, I use wax paper or suran wrap under my centerpieces as to prevent damage to the table cloth.
 
Stores have Dole salad leaf products already to serve, a few tomatoes perhaps, shredded cheese for the first course. TV and or microwave dinners, zap them in the microwave and transfer their contents onto a regular plate, clean the plate of the dribbles from the transfer, placing a few sprigs of parsley as to “dress” the plate up a bit, for the main meal. I would suggest getting 2 boxes of the meal for each person, as not to be extremely skimpy. Heat and serve rolls, are wonderful for such an occasion, then place into a linen napkin lined bowl to stay warm, unless you have a bun warmer, a stick of butter can be sliced with a cheese slice wire as to create ‘butter patties’ to be served with the rolls. For desert, there are many pre-made cakes, pies and such. Just place on the plate and dress for presentation with a cherry, a strawberry, clump of grapes and serve.
 
Hopefully this may help for the frugal formal dinner.
 
Respectfully submitted,
Lady Hugs

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RE: High protocol dinner - 4/28/2006 2:25:25 PM   
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Stating someone is lying when they may be mistaken (which I am not entirely sure it wasnt just a misunderstanding on all sides) seems rather harsh. I do not respect calling people liars unless there is some sort of proof they have done so... but then again I am a rather fair and open-minded person given towards looking at people as innocent until proven guilty and I am not fond of those that behave as if they knowitall.. especially if they  DO know it all, because with knowledge should come a degree of humilty to those who are ignorant about different things. At least this is what I have learned in my shorter lifespan.

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RE: High protocol dinner - 4/28/2006 3:36:06 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

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I have had guests that were distracted by penis so close to their meal.


Well I dare say, that would be distracting.

 Unless said peni were the meal as I understand is the case in at least one Far East reatuarant these days.  I forget the country, but I did see a post recently wherein the menu consisted of various animal peni prepared in unique ways.  Makes Rocky Mountain Oysters seem tame IMO.

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RE: High protocol dinner - 4/28/2006 3:41:45 PM   
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oooooooops, I should have Googled before I posted my previous.  The restaurant is in Beijing.
 

On the menu today: horse penis and testicles with a chilli dip
 

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2006/02/17/wfood17.xml

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RE: High protocol dinner - 4/28/2006 5:23:54 PM   
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John,

My original post wasn't as clear as it could of been that what I was refering to as "fantasy" was only the concept that there was "one true way" of hosting a "high kink protocol" event.    While you could have drawn that mistaken conclusion from my first post, I find it hard to believe you could draw that from my subsequent responses.

And since when was saying someone fibbed anything other than calling them a liar?


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RE: High protocol dinner - 4/29/2006 4:58:21 AM   
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Actually, there's a lot of frugal ways to serve dinner without having to resort to frozen dinners, which, to me, are awful across the board, and pricey to boot.  No matter how you plate them, they just do not taste good, and don't look good..  If you're doing 2 per person, you're at $8 a head, and I think have better options out there for that price.  Check out "Good Deals with Dave Lieberman" on Foodtv.com for sample menus which are both economical and easy to prepare.  If you don't cook, there is better quality take out available.    You could get several servings of the same pasta dish (just make sure it's something that will hold - alfredo does not!); ask them to put the sauce separately from the pasta.  Toss the pasta and sauce together before you serve (doing any reheating necessary).   Round it out at home with some crusty bread, a salad, a bottle of wine and cannolis and good coffee for dessert..  Simple, easy, foolproof.

Only white table linens are considered "formal".  While colored or patterned linens are certainly pretty, they are "informal", as are any kind of placemat.  If you have places like Ross, TJMaxx, Marshalls, near you, you can almost always find decent white table linens.   If you keep your eyes open, you can always find something within your budget that will fit your table.

I definately think that you keep your servers clothed at a formal meal.  I went to a "formal tea" once and one of the servers was decked out in a leather body harness dohicky and thong.   Every time he bent over to put something on the table, he basically shoved his hairy ass at the person opposite.   Since most people do not have a tux handy, a pair of black slacks, a white shirt, and tie is elegant and simple.

< Message edited by MsSonnetMarwood -- 4/29/2006 5:07:27 AM >


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