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RE: Meeting a new submissive today - 11/8/2010 6:01:50 AM

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*would never doubt that Lady P is "REAL" *

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RE: Meeting a new submissive today - 11/8/2010 7:04:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: love2cubound

Meet this evening, no chemistry.......

Well, I'm sorry it didn't work out. To be honest though I think you dodged a bullet...anyone who calls others fakes for not being exactly what they envision is living in lalaland. I'd have to say that the other posters were on the money when they pointed out that she seems to be looking for fantasy figure not a real man.

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RE: Meeting a new submissive today - 11/9/2010 4:29:44 PM

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I found that some men want something so wild and not for me one wanted to be in MY CLOSET all hooded and no food, no air " i scream you want to die in my place are you crazy" I am well know in my life around here it would be in the enquire by the next day! So he was let loose to find someone else to fill that "bury me in your place feeling" but he was on hell of a cook and nice too! Ok question has anyone found someone to hard headed to train? Yes he was that too! I love the art of training the patient the attentiont too detail , but if it takes me so long and you do not listen! I know training is not just a moment but years but , he was hard to deal with my twin thought he was so sweet but hell she was not training him "i was" lol ! that is my question i hope everyone can answer!!!

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RE: Meeting a new submissive today - 11/10/2010 10:11:49 AM

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Tastes are ecceletic and so are people.
What is too aggressive for some is far too whimpy for another.

Experience can help but Hitting the nail PERFECTLY square on the head still comes down to luck.

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RE: Meeting a new submissive today - 11/19/2010 5:39:11 AM

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i went thru the same thing she did. online the "fake doms" as i call them all seemed great but as soon as we got face to face it was like they would almost let me dominate them! i could do any and everything i wanted and could get them to do what i wanted. makes me wonder y they r not just honest from the jump and let it be known they really r submissive. thank god i finally found one that was just like he was on the phone and here. i was about to give up!!!

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RE: Meeting a new submissive today - 11/19/2010 8:41:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: love2cubound

Meet this evening, no chemistry.......

Great. Now you know :) No harm no foul and you can move on. Good luck

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RE: Meeting a new submissive today - 11/19/2010 4:45:12 PM

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ORIGINAL: love2cubound

Meet this evening, no chemistry.......

Somehow I'm not surprised.

I'm going to go against the majority and say I think both of you went to this meeting with preconceived notions of what 'should' happen and left little room for what 'could' happen.

She was looking for the perfect porn dom, but I think you might have also had your own expectations of making her 'see the DOM light'.

Meh, just my thoughts. Better luck next time.

im with you here. as i read the OP i couldnt get away from the feeling that the OP reckoned he had the thing sown up. his experience as a DOM and her repeated failure to meet a real DOM sounded like two people trying to fulfil some sort of cliche for each other.

there are no cliches here. the OP may title himself DOM all he likes but if the chemistry isnt there youve got zippo.

as sunshine said, one down, a gazzillion, million, billion to go - happy hunting!

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RE: Meeting a new submissive today - 11/19/2010 6:06:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: BbcSlutKc

i went thru the same thing she did. online the "fake doms" as i call them all seemed great but as soon as we got face to face it was like they would almost let me dominate them! i could do any and everything i wanted and could get them to do what i wanted. makes me wonder y they r not just honest from the jump and let it be known they really r submissive. thank god i finally found one that was just like he was on the phone and here. i was about to give up!!!

What did you expect they would do? Start slapping you around in Starbuck's? Sheesh.

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RE: Meeting a new submissive today - 11/20/2010 12:57:50 AM

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Is "DOM" some sort of acronym I'm not familiar with?

Because I'm just imagining the OP randomly yelling that word then returning to normal tone for the rest of his post. It's kinda funny, especially cuz I'm imagining the yelling as a sort of barking drill sergeant thing.

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