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angelikaJ -> RE: A open letter to the subs/females here (11/8/2010 11:56:08 AM)
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ORIGINAL: BostonPeter1971
To those that this apply too,
You got to love some of the subs/females here. They don't even reply to well thought out, sane replies (even though they claim that's what they want) yet still log on every day looking and searching. Perhaps if you didn't blow off some of the people you do without even so much as a 'thanks anyways' you'd have found someone by now. You know have a open mind and at least talk to some of the people who take the time.
I know.. you get so many messages you can't reply to them all. Well a cut and paste of 'Thanks anyways but don't think we are a good fit. Good luck' isn't that time consuming (Pressing CTRL-V not that hard) and at least offers the kindness of a reply to something they put effort into. If you are THAT busy you can't even do that then clearly your too busy for a relationship as a whole. As what kind of time do you have?
Yes some of them have not read your profile and do not deserve a reply. That is fair, however that's not what I am speaking of here.
As for those who demand we doms spend time writing some unique, original dribble.. Let me tell you a little secret girls... the reason many doms don't bother with long, original messages is because you don't reply to them most of the times anyways. So why should WE bother? Hate to break it to you.. but the vast majority of you that demand such are not that special, or unique in your profiles where we should waste OUR time. As we know most (not all in fairness) won't reply no matter how much effort we put into it.
As I said above perhaps you should re-consider some of these message you just blow off and change your tactics and approach to replying. As if your current system worked for you, odds are you still wouldn't be on here, reading this still searching. Something to ponder.
Take care.
I would like to make a polite and directed reply here.
I am sorry you are disillusioned and embittered.
22 months ago, a man who is local to me wrote, and I responded.
His email was original and engaging.
It asked interesting questions and made no demands.
He wanted to know about me.
I think he had been here for a few days, no more than a week when he first emailed me.
He is now my Master.
I am not going to criticise your approach either here, or to the women you have emailed.
The first is clearly born from frustration and the second is an unknown.
I don't know what caught my eye about his approach other than what I have mentioned.
I hope your luck changes.
I wish you happiness and peace.
edit: clarity
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