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xssve -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/17/2010 8:08:25 AM)
NymphetamineGirl (love that nick) is correct in noting that there are typically adaptations that allow the interior of the vagina to change shape to accommodate larger, uh, tools - but often these things are the result of practice rather than theory. Angle has a lot to do with it, as others have noted, vagina's typically come in ventral and dorsal, i.e., if your vagina is located more towards the front of your body (ventral) missionary sill probably give you the deepest penetration, and put more pressure on your clitoris, doggie style will be more indirect, depending on how much you tilt your pelvis (lordosis), but it might stimulate your G-spot, if you have one, better. If your vagina is pointed more towards the rear, then doggie style will give you the deepest penetration and more clitorial contact, whereas missionary might hit your deep spot, should you have one, better, etc. The cervix itself, similarly, may be located either more square to the angle of the vaginal canal, or tilted a bit fore or back, which will affect things, although as NymphetamineGirl has pointed out, it's capable of "moving aside", getting out of the way, so to speak, in some women. I suggest getting a fairly long dildo, like one of those double headed ones, and probing around - they use a series of graduated size dildos to stretch out women suffering from Vaginisimus, and it's the same principle: push the dildo in as far as you can, try to find a spot, probably above your cervix, that is comfortable, and see if you can stretch it - you might experience some discomfort, but eventually, you may be able to "train" your vagina to accept those deeper thrusts without undue pain.

January -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/17/2010 8:24:42 AM)
quote: push the dildo in as far as you can, try to find a spot, probably above your cervix, that is comfortable, and see if you can stretch it - you might experience some discomfort, but eventually, you may be able to "train" your vagina to accept those deeper thrusts without undue pain. This is a bad idea. Especially because that dildo, and that idea on how to use it, came right out of somebody's ass.

ranja -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/19/2010 1:46:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: January quote: push the dildo in as far as you can, try to find a spot, probably above your cervix, that is comfortable, and see if you can stretch it - you might experience some discomfort, but eventually, you may be able to "train" your vagina to accept those deeper thrusts without undue pain. This is a bad idea. Especially because that dildo, and that idea on how to use it, came right out of somebody's ass. I now believe that putting anything in a vagina is a bad idea, especially because there is a chance that it might hurt a bit, and the idea to do it is just... well... a bit naughty really and don't even think about putting anything in your ass... because that is just totally disgusting

BbcSlutKc -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/19/2010 5:22:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: BbcSlutKc quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam I love it............ your name starts with BBCslut The first letter in BBC stands for BIG. WTF were you expecting? By the way, I'm a LOT larger than average so this isnt some 'pencil prick white boy'. If you advertise that you want something, dont bitch when you get it. well arent u a jackass!!! thats y i stick to my black men, thanks for being another white man reminding me. I think I stick to people who don't need to use racial slurs and who aren't simple enough to believe that the "really important stuff" such as skin tone, colour of eyes or hair makes a person better or worse. I have no issue if somebody has a preference for a certain look or racial feature, but to stereotype race, sorry, that is just a bit too dumb. no its not dumb we all have our own reason for not liking certain people, and he proved my point and reasoning very well. and i would bet my soul he wouldnt have said such a jackass comment if i had BWC in my name instead of BBC.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/19/2010 6:49:36 AM)
You're right it's not dumb to be a racist, it's absolutely stupid. We all have our reasons and we are attracted to who we are attracted to, I have zero issue with that, but slagging others off because they might not have the racial features we are attracted to - simply idiotic. Look, I have no issue who you want to treat you as a slut, your personal choice, sexual attraction all that, but to diss somebody because of his ethnicy, that's stupid. But I do have to admit he has a point, if you're a size queen, the size might cause problems (as it apparently does), I would suggest you talk to your guy about it and then take some of the advice given here, because the idea is not getting damaged.

xssve -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/19/2010 7:32:23 AM)
Also see relaxin and elastin - levels of these hormones may differ from one woman to the next, and levels also change with your reproductive cycle - some women can only fist comfortably at certain times of the month for example. It may be possible to increase levels of these hormones with dietary changes, if it stems from a nutritional deficit, I dunno, relaxin is part of the insulin family, but I'm not a biochemist. Semen contains relaxin, orgasm or arousal might release more of it, which is why some women in the thread have reported fewer problems when in a highly aroused state. You got a problem that you think this is an appropriate place to discuss January?

VideoAdminAlpha -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/19/2010 12:19:27 PM)
I have only read like 10 posts from this thread because a moderator asked me to look at it. I would say offhand though, that the forums are definitely an appropriate place to discuss things, and asking such in that agressive inflammatory way will probably not net useful debate, and this is Friday, and the weekend is coming up. I suggest that those that feel their blood pressure up at the moment, STAND UP, TAKE A STEP BACK, and go get something cool to drink and cool off. It's like this,( I Know this to be true from all the males on this site, that by virtue of not reading the picture guidelines concerning primary pics, have made sure I have seen more varied penii than one woman should have to look at )[;)]Black men have both LARGE and teeny peeny, and so do White men. I have also noticed as my retinas burn out that you cannot tell ALL the time, whether that lil guy HAs a lil guy, or a big guy. THis is a discussion about tilted or non tilted cervii( I know its not a real word, but neither is penii after all , yall know what I mean). Is it really worth some busted brain vessels? Really? (Wonders if anyone wants to hear my Mantra to calm down...here it is...ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmm) Now play nice folks!! Please??? Don't ,make me act ugly also. I really don't want to be.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/19/2010 12:45:04 PM)
HA HA HA Clearly you are not European, I'm just saying clothing optional beaches and mixed saunas, it's actually amazing how body size gives no indication to err other size (though at the beaches and saunas they were usually flaccid, so there was always the chance that they might be growers and not showers)

Hillwilliam -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/19/2010 1:09:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BbcSlutKc quote: ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze quote: ORIGINAL: BbcSlutKc quote: ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam I love it............ your name starts with BBCslut The first letter in BBC stands for BIG. WTF were you expecting? By the way, I'm a LOT larger than average so this isnt some 'pencil prick white boy'. If you advertise that you want something, dont bitch when you get it. well arent u a jackass!!! thats y i stick to my black men, thanks for being another white man reminding me. I think I stick to people who don't need to use racial slurs and who aren't simple enough to believe that the "really important stuff" such as skin tone, colour of eyes or hair makes a person better or worse. I have no issue if somebody has a preference for a certain look or racial feature, but to stereotype race, sorry, that is just a bit too dumb. no its not dumb we all have our own reason for not liking certain people, and he proved my point and reasoning very well. and i would bet my soul he wouldnt have said such a jackass comment if i had BWC in my name instead of BBC. You're wrong, I would have. My point is you ask for someting and bitch when you get it.

xssve -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/19/2010 6:12:07 PM)
No-one suggested stretching her cervix.

wandersalone -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/22/2010 4:41:52 AM)
Uh oh I reckon VAA won't be happy when she comes back to this thread [sm=giveup.gif] play nicely people

VideoAdminAlpha -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/22/2010 6:03:43 AM)
I think everyone ought to pay attention to wander's words of wisdom.

GreedyTop -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/22/2010 6:25:43 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: VideoAdminAlpha I have only read like 10 posts from this thread because a moderator asked me to look at it. I would say offhand though, that the forums are definitely an appropriate place to discuss things, and asking such in that agressive inflammatory way will probably not net useful debate, and this is Friday, and the weekend is coming up. I suggest that those that feel their blood pressure up at the moment, STAND UP, TAKE A STEP BACK, and go get something cool to drink and cool off. It's like this,( I Know this to be true from all the males on this site, that by virtue of not reading the picture guidelines concerning primary pics, have made sure I have seen more varied penii than one woman should have to look at )[;)]Black men have both LARGE and teeny peeny, and so do White men. I have also noticed as my retinas burn out that you cannot tell ALL the time, whether that lil guy HAs a lil guy, or a big guy. THis is a discussion about tilted or non tilted cervii( I know its not a real word, but neither is penii after all , yall know what I mean). Is it really worth some busted brain vessels? Really? (Wonders if anyone wants to hear my Mantra to calm down...here it is...ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmmmmmm) Now play nice folks!! Please??? Don't ,make me act ugly also. I really don't want to be. hugs da gorgeous VAA (I hope that helps along with the mantra)

BbcSlutKc -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/26/2010 12:24:58 AM)
hill... once again ur a jackass.... nuff said

tazzygirl -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/26/2010 12:39:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tazzygirl quote: All mature women i know,and talk about this stuff with, suffer occasional pain during sex, difficulties with tampax, period pains and other female stuff... it seems to me a 'titled' uterus is nothing to worry about and certainly not something i would consider i need medical attention for. I would expect the OBGYN who diagnosed your tipped uterus would have determined whether or not you needed further medical evaluation. Not every woman does. Sex shouldnt be "painful". That in itself is a reason to see your Dr. And painful periods can be a symptom of ther problems, such as endometriosis and fibroids. Again, not sure what your point is here telling other women what may NOT be wrong with their bodies because it isnt wrong with yours. quote: i don't see the point in that statement, but taking it as a question, i shall endeavour to explain: If 20% of women have a tilted uterus, then it is extremely common and not something to particularly worry about. If a woman has pain during sex cos his dick is too big and he rams it in before she is ready to take it and she goes to the doctor to complain about this... well i think she will look like quite a dumb tit. Of course any woman with worries about their health should see a doctor regardless of whether they will look like a dumb tit or not. Who are you to claim anyone is dumb for seeing their Dr? Why? Because you wouldnt? Give me a break. You seem to glide over the reasons of fibriods and endometriosis like they dont matter. Why is that? She may look like a twit to you, but her Dr will see her as taking firm control of her health. I hated it when patients would start out by saying... this may be a dumb question. There is NO such thing as a dumb question when it comes to health issues. NOR is anyone a "tit" for asking about them.

ranja -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/26/2010 2:06:21 AM)
tazzygirl you might not think that there are any dumb questions, but i do... i have asked a good few myself and felt very titty at times... such is life, i certainly do not ask intelligent questions only all the time but if you think you do and if you only ever get asked intelligent questions too, well good for you. If i think there is something wrong with me i go and see my Dr, why would you assume i would not? If my man rams his dick too far in before i am ready to take it and it hurts, i will let Him know He is doing it wrong, i will address Him about it, not my Dr. I am not "gliding over the reasons of fibriods and endometriosis like they dont matter" i am not talking about them at all, you are

Hillwilliam -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/26/2010 4:41:24 AM)
tsk.

tazzygirl -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/26/2010 7:55:32 AM)
quote: tazzygirl you might not think that there are any dumb questions, but i do... i have asked a good few myself and felt very titty at times... such is life, i certainly do not ask intelligent questions only all the time but if you think you do and if you only ever get asked intelligent questions too, well good for you. If YOU felt titty, thats on you. I would rather have patients ask them leave wondering. There is no such thing as a dumb question. Even the question... how do i use a tampon... isnt a dumb question if the asker truly doesnt know. And TSS isnt something to take lightly and could be a result of not asking that specific question. quote: If i think there is something wrong with me i go and see my Dr, why would you assume i would not? If my man rams his dick too far in before i am ready to take it and it hurts, i will let Him know He is doing it wrong, i will address Him about it, not my Dr. IF sex hurts, you SHOULD ask your Dr. How do you know its because of something your man did? quote: I am not "gliding over the reasons of fibriods and endometriosis like they dont matter" i am not talking about them at all, you are Your right, you arent, yet you are saying there is no reason to see a Dr if sex hurts. But those two conditions alone can cause a lot of pain during sex. In some cases, a woman can experience painful intercourse if one of the following conditions is present: Vaginismus. This is a common condition in which there is a spasm in the vaginal muscles, mainly caused by the fear of being hurt. Vaginal infections. These conditions are common and include yeast infections. Problems with the cervix (opening to the uterus). In this case, the penis can reach the cervix at maximum penetration, so problems with the cervix (such as infections) can cause pain during deep penetration. Problems with the uterus. These problems may include fibroids that can cause deep intercourse pain. Endometriosis. A condition in which the endometrium (tissue lining the uterus) grows outside the uterus. Problems with the ovaries. Such problems might include cysts on the ovaries. Pelvic inflammatory disease. The tissues deep inside become badly inflamed and the pressure of intercourse causes deep pain. Ectopic pregnancy. A pregnancy in which a fertilized egg develops outside of the uterus. Menopause. The vaginal lining can lose its normal moisture and become dry. Intercourse too soon after surgery or childbirth. Sexually transmitted diseases. These may include genital warts, herpes sores, or other STDs. Injury to the vulva or vagina. These injuries may include a tear from childbirth or from a cut (episiotomy) in the perenium (area of skin between the vagina and the anus) that is made during labor. http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/guide/female-pain-during-sex So, before attributing it to, as you put it.... quote: All mature women i know,and talk about this stuff with, suffer occasional pain during sex, difficulties with tampax, period pains and other female stuff... it seems to me a 'titled' uterus is nothing to worry about and certainly not something i would consider i need medical attention for. .... A Dr's visit would definitely be in order. Maybe not for you. Perhaps you enjoy the pain. Some do not. Again, within a Dr's office, there are no such things as dumb questions.

ranja -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/29/2010 10:05:41 AM)
tg your information is invaluable You misunderstand me because you glided over the word OCCASIONAL ... as for silly questions... even the op titled her own thread Crazy sex question and does not seem worried about her organs much really many people suffer occasional pain... if all these people would need to see their Dr about this well then the medical profession would be totally over run and have no time left for people with real ailments have a nice day

tazzygirl -> RE: Crazy sex question..... (11/29/2010 11:39:47 AM)
And more caes of PID, endometriosis, fibroids just might be diagnosed. It can easily be turned around. Btw, PID can lead to many other conditions, including sterility What Happens If It Isn't Treated? If treated quickly and appropriately, the complications of PID can be contained. However, left untreated, pelvic inflammatory disease can permanently damage a woman's reproductive organs. The infection-causing bacteria can make its way to the fallopian tubes converting normal tissue to scar tissue which interrupts the movement of eggs from the ovaries to the uterus. If the fallopian tubes become totally blocked or even partially blocked, sperm cannot fertilize the egg and the woman is rendered infertile. One of every ten women with PID ends up infertile and the rate climbs amongst those with repeated episodes of PID. Another result of the scarring of the fallopian tubes or damage to the pelvic region is chronic pain - pain which can go on for months or even years. http://www.gynob.com/pelvic-inflammatory-disease-causes.html The same site states that any women feeling the symptoms of ....... If symptoms are present, they manifest most frequently in low abdominal pain, unusual vaginal discharge with a foul smell, fever, pain during intercourse and urination and irregular vaginal bleeding........ then they should go see the Dr....... There are no specific tests for PID and since the symptoms are often mild or non-existent, they often go undetected until the damage is done. If any of the symptoms do present themselves, it is vital that a woman be checked by a doctor and testing done to determine which organism is causing the infection and pain. Sometimes an ultrasound or laparoscopy is necessary to confirm a diagnosis. Once the diagnosis is made, the health care provider will be able to determine and prescribe the best therapy. Antibiotics are often used, but they do not reverse the damage already done. Oh, and since you pointed out the "occassional" you may want to know that these symptoms can appear infrequently in many of these conditions. Better to go see a Dr and be told that your man has too much dick for your cunt that assume that is what it is and be told later... "If only you had seen your Dr sooner..."

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