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Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 3:30:20 PM   
BbcSlutKc


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Status: offline 		Has anyone came across the problem where ur cervix is actually being hit during sex??? i didnt know this was possible and afterwards it really hurts!! does it ever go away? like the body just gets use to it and doesnt hurt anymore? or will it always hurt? im not sure if i can take that pain very often at all. and almost too scared to even have sex now! lol HELP i cant lose this person just because i cant "take the dick!" not sayin he will leave but just in case...
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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 4:39:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yes, it hurts because you are getting bruised from the inside.  Orgasms can help. Also, try doggy style.  It means he can't go in quite as deep which may alleviate the issue from a mechanical point of view.

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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 5:27:25 PM   
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Strange. I always thought doggy-style made it go in deeper. At least that was my experience. Try experimenting w/ different positions, or even just placing your legs differently. That should help. I know, before my hysterecomy, my cervix would be hit during sex & it never bothered me. I think that's an individual thing. Could you say anything about that to Him and maybe He would be willing to experiment w/ different positions. Surely, He wouldn't want you to be in pain from His love-making.....

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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 5:33:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yes, if he is long enough he can hit the cervix, try different positions, or maybe other "openings"
Maybe let him know that it hurts, and not in a good way and maybe he can "adjust the thrust".
Maybe also try small pillows so he cannot go in as deep...I hope this helps...
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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 5:37:28 PM   
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Status: offline 		like others said, it can hurt depending on how long he is, how hard he's thrusting, what you're used to, etc...

Why not just tell him it hurts too much for you and you can both work on other positions or something?

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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 6:38:31 PM   
BbcSlutKc


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Status: offline 		o he knows, it hurts so bad there is no way he couldnt lol. small pillows? like underneath me? thanks yall!

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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 6:54:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have that problem sometimes too. Doggy style makes it worse for me, though that might be due to the shape of Master's... *cough*. There was one point when I thought it was just my G-spot or whatever, because I've always felt like it was poking my bladder and everyone kept telling me "oh, no, you're just about to orgasm". Tried to go with it for a while until I realized, No, wasn't my G-spot, that WAS my bladder flippin-A. Not literally, but it was most definitely not a pleasure spot.

Different positions. If you and he do like doggy style, try it with your legs on the inside and his legs on the out, because then your rump and thighs keep him from thrusting too deeply. Anything that brings your legs closer together will push him out a little, so far as I've experienced, so it might be good to keep that in mind.

Another thing that might help, go to the bathroom before sex - it gets rid of any excess pressure on there as well and he'll be able to go in deeper too.

My favorite position is with me lying on my stomach, him lying on top, like a lazy doggy style. My butt keeps him from going very far because he's lying on it, and it's a VERY intimate position. You might want to try it. =)

Edited to add: And he might not know. A lot of moans of pleasure can sound like pain, and vise versa. Same with a lot of facial expressions. He might be thinking that you're just having a REALLY good time! Talk to him about it, you might be surprised.


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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 6:58:33 PM   
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When a woman is sexually aroused, all those lovely muscles around the vagina and cervix tense up. This process actually changes th shapes of your vagina. It lifts your cervix up and out of the way, so that Sir Ramsalot gets up to three extra inches of depth. If he still hits the back wall of your vagina then, one of you may be a freak of nature. Cervical impact is uncomfortable for sure, but it's unlikely that he's causing any real damage. If he WANTS to hurt you that's one thing, if he's uneducated it's another. How awesome would it be if he made you so hot first that you begged him to come inside you? See if you feel pain then:)

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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 7:04:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		it does go away after a while, but if you stop for a while then it takes sometimes for it to be comfortable again

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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 7:11:16 PM   
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Status: offline 		If it hurts, it hurts. He just can't go that deep. Looking at your profile, I can see your dilemma. It's a workaround.

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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 7:13:47 PM   
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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 7:16:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Just an obstacle edited: to work around....there are other things and ways to do things. More oral, more play scenes, more toys,....lots of stuff.

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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 7:31:39 PM   
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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 7:39:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		Lol, oh. For a second there I thought you meant that it was a workaround because he's taller and I'm shorter and chubbier, and he had to work AROUND me. Yeah, I'm special.

But most definitely, oral and scenes and toys are awesome too!

Sucks that I can't do oral anymore for fear of ripping his dick to shreds with all the metal in my mouth.


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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 7:54:09 PM   
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quote:

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Has anyone came across the problem where ur cervix is actually being hit during sex??? i didnt know this was possible and afterwards it really hurts!! does it ever go away? like the body just gets use to it and doesnt hurt anymore? or will it always hurt? im not sure if i can take that pain very often at all. and almost too scared to even have sex now! lol HELP i cant lose this person just because i cant "take the dick!" not sayin he will leave but just in case...


Yeah, that happens. It just means that he is pentrating you too deeply for your comfort. Do some searchs on various sex positions, specifically looking for ones with shallow pentration, and have fun exploring!

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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 8:12:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hopefully you've already seen your doc to make sure you don't have any infections or cysts or fibroids. If all is normal:

The three stages of female excitation:
#1: Lubrication [well, duh!]
#2: Dilation: the vaginal opening dilates
#3: Elevation: the uterus elevates, and so does its neck, the cervix.
Followed closely by #4, the fabulous orgasm.

If you haven't noticed this with other partners, he might be longer [cough], or you might not be waiting long enough for all the fabulous stages.
So, you or he should GENTLY put a finger inside you to make sure you're stimulated enough for your uterus to rise BEFORE attempting penetration. Sometimes the cervix can't rise as high after ovulation once your uterus is filling with fluids again before your period, so female-superior positions might be impossible due to gravity, until during or after your period.

Also try out those wedge-shaped sex pillows, with the narrow end under your shoulderblades and the wide end under your hips.

Good luck!

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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 8:44:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have a rather small kitty, even after having two children naturally, so I have that problem with guys who are average sized or larger. I like various positions, Wolfy described one very well, do it doggy with your legs on the inside, and your thighs clamped together, you can control how deep he is going until you reach the point that you don't care!

I also like the "scissors" position. If you start with him spooning you from behind, then you roll back onto him and intertwine your legs, it can keep it from hurting.

Good luck!


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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/8/2010 10:51:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		ya he is very very very large.

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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/9/2010 4:52:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yeah it is called a cervix punch, and if the guy knows what he is doing, he can change a slight tilt of his hips to go on on side of it or the other. I will sometimes do a cervix punch on purpose, to get the attention of my slave while thrusting. I would not continuely do it, as the severe bruising internally it can cause. Your cervix could also be slightly tilted forwards or to the rear, so it may take slight adjustments in his hip tilt, to change it. Yeah he should know that he is doing, as you can feel it from the male side.

I cannot do full thrusts in some positions with my slave, as it would be more painful to her than what I want it to be, but slight change of positions, and my change the tilt of my hips corrects this.

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RE: Crazy sex question..... - 11/9/2010 8:24:10 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have to repeat my disagreement here. If you are PROPERLY EXCITED this probably won't happen.

Look at table 1 on page 73 of this:

http://www-psych.stanford.edu/~knutson/ans/faix02.pdf

you will see preceding a series of MRI images of intercourse in various sexual positions. During heightened arousal, the woman's vaginal depth increased a LOT. This is because the cervix tilts up and the uterus tilts down, so he gets the full depth of her vaginal canal when he's not so forking eager. Not saying anything about your D, OP, just saying you have other options besides "suffer".

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