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angelikaJ -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 2:02:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 this implication that i haven't met a LOT of people in this lifestyle is false. im not sure where it originated from, but i can dispel it. what i object to is the munches... that is really the only thing. You are objecting to something that you have no first hand knowledge of, out of preconceived notions and ignorance. Edit: quote trim

thishereboi -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 2:19:37 PM)
Nice plan. So how many women have you met so far?

thishereboi -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 2:20:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Madame4a You should probably try different bait -- what you're getting back isn't very nice... and your two generalizations... well, they aren't even that... oh, I'll just stop here, someone else is more likely to say what I'm thinking much more nicely than I usually do... you should meet nick... and hmmm.. I forgot those other two fellows' names... No, let him carry on. The more guys who follow this approach, the more women available for the rest of us to play with.[8D]

Lockit -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 2:27:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hlen5 quote: ORIGINAL: Lockit This is a thread started to bait women and cause a debate. I hope that no one will take the bait. I guess you didn't get what you hoped for. No, I guess not. lol At least this thread won't confuse anyone in search, thinking the original post was something of worth. There are worthwhile posts in here, but someone will have hell trying to find them buried as they are. When debate or discussion is based on prejudice, wounds or attitude so badly that that is the main focus of a poster's post's, I believe it is just a bitchfest and demand for answers as to why everyone is the way they think they are. They don't seem to listen to how we say we are and how it works for us. It would be nice to have some decent discussions that don't end up a fifteen page arguments proving points because someone that has their mind set and decides to prove a point no matter what is said and could be learned from... is just a waste of time because they aren't trying to work something out. A number of people around here don't want to change their mind and would rather continue to bash dominant women. So be it. lol

thishereboi -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 2:28:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer quote: ORIGINAL: slavekal Really, dominant women exist. They are gettable. You, as potential human property if you choose and consent to be, are gettable. Treat a dominant woman like a thing which you can get, and I doubt your interaction will last very long. We are neither objects nor property. It is your place to be objectified, not ours. Assuming consent of course, yadda yadda. It's just as uncool to objectify a guy who doesn't consent. But if you do want to be viewed as potential property, I strongly recommend that you do not refer to dominant women as if we were objects for you to possess. It's a pretty big buzzkill for a dominant. Well, then I guess it's a really good thing that kal is already in a long term relationship with an amazing women. Seven years I think he said. But your right, if he was still looking for someone who was going to get her panties in a wad because of a phrase, then he might have trouble.

LadyNTrainer -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 2:37:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: thishereboi Well, then I guess it's a really good thing that kal is already in a long term relationship with an amazing women. Seven years I think he said. But your right, if he was still looking for someone who was going to get her panties in a wad because of a phrase, then he might have trouble. I'm happy for him. But I'm not happy to be referred to as a thing that can be gotten, and I really doubt many other dominant women would be either. If you really have a problem with ladies who don't enjoy or consent to sexual objectification, if you think that women should just shut up and take it when men refer to them as things, why in the world are you interested in a femdom forum? The Goreans are over that-a-way.

ShaharThorne -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 2:41:06 PM)
All that I see from the OP is that he is a Do-Me sub. enuff said.

submissivemale22 -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 2:46:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ShaharThorne All that I see from the OP is that he is a Do-Me sub. enuff said. far from it. i dont have any fantasies or fetishes that i expect to be catered to, nor do i expect my idea of submissiveness to be indulged in anyway.

LadyPact -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 2:55:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 far from it. i dont have any fantasies or fetishes that i expect to be catered to, nor do i expect my idea <removed> to be indulged in anyway. One of these days, I'm going to number things like these and call the entire list "reasons I'm not a submissive".

hlen5 -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 2:58:06 PM)
I understand LadynTrainer's visceral response to the phrase. Some things just grate at times. When I voted last Tuesday one of the voter-helpers (who's always there, arrggh!) first words to me were "You have to smile to vote". He was thinking he was so clever. and I wanted to give him a swift kick. I said "Only if you're saying that to everybody" and then I smiled to the elderly ladies that are always filling the posts at polling places (that dork is always there and always takes me by surprise). Then was not the time to get into a philosphical discussion about male/female crap and I would have just ended up looking like a humorless bitch anyway. Things said can just hit the wrong way sometimes. As per the thread - As others have said, bitterness and cynicism will get you nowhere. Be open to new experiences s22 and get out of the house. Go meet people. Stop trying to lay the blame for your loneliness on others. What you are doing isn't working and will not get you what you want. Best of Luck, and I do mean that.

submissivemale22 -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 3:03:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: hlen5 I understand LadynTrainer's visceral response to the phrase. Some things just grate at times. When I voted last Tuesday one of the voter-helpers (who's always there, arrggh!) first words to me were "You have to smile to vote". He was thinking he was so clever. and I wanted to give him a swift kick. I said "Only if you're saying that to everybody" and then I smiled to the elderly ladies that are always filling the posts at polling places (that dork is always there and always takes me by surprise). Then was not the time to get into a philosphical discussion about male/female crap and I would have just ended up looking like a humorless bitch anyway. Things said can just hit the wrong way sometimes. As per the thread - As others have said, bitterness and cynicism will get you nowhere. Be open to new experiences s22 and get out of the house. Go meet people. Stop trying to lay the blame for your loneliness on others. What you are doing isn't working and will not get you what you want. Best of Luck, and I do mean that. lol, i seriously appreciate you sympathies, but again, i "get out of the house" a lot. i meet people a lot. im not trying to blame anyone for anything, and im certainly not lonely.

PeanutTigerinBox -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 3:06:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Just think of all of the lovely people in his location that could teach him, up close and personal! but I suppose then it could "hurt" him, if he wouldn't be safe behind his screen [8\|]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 3:11:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Oh, I forgot about your obsession with Ishy! Who is a SLAVE, btw. A Gorean type slave, which means that you are not fit to arrange her shoe closet. Grow up. Go on, try. the part about me not being fit to arrange her shoe closet conceded, what exactly is "a gorean type slave"? i never really understood that... Well, the whole issue of Gor is rather mysterious to me, even though I have Gor-oriented friends. Let's just say that it's a complex hierarchy, guided by very traditional standards of honor and behavior. The tarns are secondary.

submissivemale22 -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 3:16:58 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeanutTigerinBox quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Just think of all of the lovely people in his location that could teach him, up close and personal! but I suppose then it could "hurt" him, if he wouldn't be safe behind his screen [8\|] lol, i have no use for things such as safe words. im not looking for a completely contrived power exchange. if you trust someone enough and know that they value your interests, there is no need for such things.

submissivemale22 -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 3:36:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Oh, I forgot about your obsession with Ishy! Who is a SLAVE, btw. A Gorean type slave, which means that you are not fit to arrange her shoe closet. Grow up. Go on, try. the part about me not being fit to arrange her shoe closet conceded, what exactly is "a gorean type slave"? i never really understood that... Well, the whole issue of Gor is rather mysterious to me, even though I have Gor-oriented friends. Let's just say that it's a complex hierarchy, guided by very traditional standards of honor and behavior. The tarns are secondary. hm. i went over to the gorean forum to inquire further. hopefully they will give me the explanation i seek?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 3:52:41 PM)
You went to the Gorean forum!! Hats off to ya!

slavekal -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 4:04:40 PM)
Those are thigh high boots on the cover. And my book notwithstanding, you DO need some coaching. You cannot find a Mistress, and you are very bitter and angry about it. Collarme is a great tool, but it is not the only one. you are not using every means at your disposal. People, lighten up a little. "Gettable" is not an insulting term. It was just shorthand. I assumed that everyone would understand that. Do we really need to quibble over every little thing? Let's not make arguments where there aren't any. Dominant women are attainable...they can be met...you can find them...they exist in real life....you can interact with them and get into relationships with them...that is all I meant by "gettable".

PeanutTigerinBox -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 4:16:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: submissivemale22 quote: ORIGINAL: PeanutTigerinBox quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Just think of all of the lovely people in his location that could teach him, up close and personal! but I suppose then it could "hurt" him, if he wouldn't be safe behind his screen [8\|] lol, i have no use for things such as safe words. im not looking for a completely contrived power exchange. if you trust someone enough and know that they value your interests, there is no need for such things. and who spoke about safe words??? [8\|]

DesFIP -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 4:43:20 PM)
Everybody needs the ability to stop things if necessary. People get sick, they come down with food poisoning. They have asthma attacks, they faint. It's always necessary to be able to stop things before they become dead weight and damage their wrists because you can't undo them and support their weight at the same time. If you are not allowed to communicate a problem, that's a recipe for disaster. Anybody want to take bets on how long before the OP gets modspanked again?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Profile Help: How to Attract a Dominant Woman (updated) (11/9/2010 4:45:01 PM)
It's pretty tough to get nailed in P&RS...

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