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RE: The Mistress Board - 11/17/2010 10:18:04 PM   
cloudboy


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You are officially on the lunar cycle of posting, which is not a bad way to go about it. To your credit, you launched one of the longest threads ever in this section back in 2009. It may have run 40 pages or more.

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RE: The Mistress Board - 11/18/2010 3:38:16 PM   
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Dear Lockit,

I suppose I am one of those Dominant ladies that have diminished their reading and posting on Collarme.com's "The Mistress Board."

In my experiences here, those who were nasty and shot down other people ruled and made life miserable for those who didn't buy into that style of behavior as "Dominant" women but, rather just plain rude women (if they were women...because you really can't tell from behind the monitor) and, a male Dominant from California to whom flamed me and did all sorts of things that should have banned him.  Hopefully, management has changed this on Collarme.com, as I would like to help others and make clear, that even as much as I do know--I don't know it all.  But, if it can help someone--I would like to be able to without having someone being so nasty in reply and or just trash talking as to elevate their popularity status, in the "Collarme. community.

But, when you have a 'gaggle' of people who just enjoy disrupting and being negative--it makes it difficult to stay above the fray, to stay any length of time and be subjected to the rudeness.  I yearn for a respectful exchange where people can disagree without being disagreeable.

My real life keeps me busier than before as well. 

I know those to whom remember me, know well they are free to message me privately.  I will always respond.

That said, the only change that can be made is on how people treat one another and hopefully the respect will return and this, will hopefully bring back quality responses over quantity of wasted 'space'.

Just some thoughts.

Respectfully,
Lady Hugs

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RE: The Mistress Board - 11/19/2010 1:25:10 PM   
Lockit


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Dear LadyHugs,

I am sure I don't speak only for myself here, but you have been missed and I will hope that you can find the time to join us and give us lots of your meaty posts! You have been missed!

It is soooooooooooo good to see you!

L


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RE: The Mistress Board - 11/19/2010 1:28:57 PM   
Lockit


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TexasMa'am, it is also good to see you and you have been missed as well. I think we all can relate to what you have said to some degree! Time and effort need a good muse!

I hope to see you as often as time allows, because you have always added and enhanced the threads I've seen you on!

L


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RE: The Mistress Board - 11/19/2010 1:31:53 PM   
Lockit


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Calla,

As always, a wonderful post! Thank you!

It will be good to see you anytime you have the time. I love reading your posts because you put so much into them and always have a deeper sight that may be being missed on the different topics.

L


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RE: The Mistress Board - 11/21/2010 2:45:10 PM   
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Ditto! ; )
TM

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RE: The Mistress Board - 11/21/2010 6:04:40 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
BTW, add me if your FB is all vanilla too!



I'll do that within 24 hours.  No exaggeration, half my Facebook friends are people I know in real life through CM.

Moving to the thread topic --

Lockit, I think a lot of what you saw over the last few months can be explained by "It's summer."  Broad brush, people with lives are going to be outside, people who fit the definition of (male or female) scrubs are going to be inside, and they have relatively little to contribute because of their lack of relationship experience.  To be clear, I'm not referring to anyone who has posted on this thread so far.  I'm familiar with pretty much everyone's posting style, and each has contributed positively to the board and taught me something from time to time.

As the weather gets colder, and more people who are in relationships spend more time with their computers, we'll see the rate of high quality posts go up.

Also, CollarMe has been adding additional chat rooms, etc., that didn't exist a couple years ago.  For me, 2007-2008 was the glory days of this message board, maybe because it was all so new to me.  I'd never participated in an online kink community before, the posts were hilarious, but also deep.  It kept me coming back when I was brand new.  Now, a couple years later, I'm a frikkin dinosaur here.  My point: some of the traffic that used to come to the message boards now goes to the chat rooms.


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RE: The Mistress Board - 11/23/2010 11:03:42 PM   
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Hello everyone! I'm some what new to the life style and I'm looking for a 24/7 mistress. Any advise from u I will be greatly appreciated as I venture on through this life style in search for her :) thank you

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RE: The Mistress Board - 11/24/2010 1:55:04 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Crystal_18

Hello everyone! I'm some what new to the life style and I'm looking for a 24/7 mistress. Any advise from u I will be greatly appreciated as I venture on through this life style in search for her :) thank you


Posting appropriately, rather than intruding on an existing thread would be a good start.

Dame Calla


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