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Bondage parties - 11/10/2010 4:25:33 PM   
subcoupleNH


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Status: offline 		Do a lot of female slaves go to bondage parties with doms that are not their husband?  I was told a lot of  "couples" at bondage parties are married but not to each other. 
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RE: Bondage parties - 11/10/2010 5:20:05 PM   
frazzle


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Status: offline 		The answer is probably Yes, as not every slave/sub is married to their Dom/Master.

As to, if some are in poly relationships, you'd have to ask the individuals involved.

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/10/2010 6:19:35 PM   
pinkieblue


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Status: offline 		You're asking a very broad generalized question that has a very broad generalized answer. You'd get better results if you took a poll at these parties.

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/11/2010 2:57:56 AM   
subcoupleNH


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Status: offline 		At the party we went to it seems to be common.  I was wondering if it is in other areas of the country. 

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/11/2010 6:47:12 AM   
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Status: offline 		How would you know? I don't ask, or assume anyone's relationship status but my own. It none of my business, or anyone else's unless they are involved with the person.

By "bondage party" do you mean a general play party in a dungeon? If not, perhaps bondage brings out the nosey married people doing things with people other than their spouses? Now.. that's really the question.. is THAT true?

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/11/2010 7:02:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		Yes. It's extremely common for people to have Doms or subs and be married to other people.

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/11/2010 8:20:20 AM   
subcoupleNH


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i was told i am lucky to have a husband like mine because they said they were married to a guy not interested and came with someone else

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/11/2010 10:22:43 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		It's also not uncommon for people to play with friends while their spouse plays with someone else or just socializes.

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/11/2010 8:18:40 PM   
subcoupleNH


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Status: offline 		our friends are not into any wild sex

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/11/2010 8:39:43 PM   
BurntKitty


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ORIGINAL: subcoupleNH

our friends are not into any wild sex

That could explain it. The dungeon/play parties I attend doesn't allow sex/penetration there.
Are you attending a private party then?

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/12/2010 7:51:57 PM   
subcoupleNH


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Status: offline 		the bondage night clubs have limits but your right at the private parties pretty anything goes

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/12/2010 9:30:34 PM   
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ORIGINAL: subcoupleNH

Do a lot of female slaves go to bondage parties with doms that are not their husband?  I was told a lot of  "couples" at bondage parties are married but not to each other. 


Lots of married couples come to the realization that one person can't be the other person's everything. To account for this, all sorts of relationships get formed.

Whether it's sex or bondage is really irrelevant. Many people are open with their partner about the lifestyle. Many people lie. As a matter of rhetoric, does it matter if the couple at a bondage party is married, collared, or dating?

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/12/2010 10:45:44 PM   
BurntKitty


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RE: Bondage parties - 11/12/2010 10:54:45 PM   
BambiBoi


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Status: offline 		I should specify.. I come under a lot of fire for bunking sex and bondage and pain all together. When the issue is "married people playing without the spouse" I don't think the act is any excuse. Either the person is lying (flat out or by omission) or is honest. If they are being deceitful to their spouse, its all infidelity. If the arrangement is honest, then the act doesn't really matter: Go get whatever jollies you want.

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/15/2010 7:49:33 AM   
subcoupleNH


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Status: offline 		yes we have been to parties but mostly watched

thank you bambi for your comment

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/15/2010 7:52:18 AM   
Kana


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ORIGINAL: subcoupleNH

Do a lot of female slaves go to bondage parties with doms that are not their husband?  I was told a lot of  "couples" at bondage parties are married but not to each other. 


Hmmm, in general, I file that one under the "None of my business" category.


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RE: Bondage parties - 11/15/2010 8:39:14 AM   
DesFIP


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ORIGINAL: subcoupleNH

our friends are not into any wild sex


So you're going to these parties and having wild sex with people, yet you don't talk to them before or after and developing any friends with the other people there? Odd.


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RE: Bondage parties - 11/15/2010 9:24:46 AM   
subcoupleNH


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Status: offline 		i talk with some of the gals and hubby with some of the guys

we are not having sex there well yet anyway

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/15/2010 10:09:24 AM   
daddysprop247


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Status: offline 		wow i feel sheltered...i have never even heard of a bondage party, lol.

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RE: Bondage parties - 11/15/2010 8:52:13 PM   
AnimusRex


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Status: offline 		It happens quite a bit, maybe because for married folks, playing at a club is their only outlet, since they have a spouse at home. I don't know any ratios, but it is common enough that the question ("is that your legally wedded spouse you are sodomizing?" ) is not usually asked, out of tact.

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