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LaTigresse -> RE: Why aren't the people of this community honest and truthful? (12/1/2010 4:11:12 AM)
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Yanno....based on the threads I've seen over my years here, the ones that piss and whine the most..... they appear to be the dating losers in society. People ( I won't say guys specifically ) that don't seem to want to do the work in person, so they come to the internet in hopes of an easier score.
Poor unfortunate souls. They whine, they squeal. They don't realize that any attempt to create a meaningful personal relationship via the net is WAAAAAAAYYYYYYY more difficult! First you have the bullshit factor which then creates imediate distrust, almost as though you are working backwards in comparison to that, chance meeting at the grocery store. We all walk right past rapists, pedophiles, abusers, etc....every day, and don't give it much thought. But the very idea of meeting someone from here sends many into an emotional tizzy. Then there is the distance factor. Most that say they will move to you, will.......but it seriously is human nature to be very choosy about where, when, and why. Trust me, if a woman owned a grand estate and was willing to sign it over to me, provide a grand retirement plan, LOTS of fun money...even I might move from my little hilltop farm.
These people just do not seem to understand that sitting behind a computer with one hand on their dick (or vibrator), giving orders (or taking them) isn't going to build any sort of meaningful relationship. It takes WORK lots and lots of work. It takes communication. Both, qualities that these people probably lack the ability to do with all of their relationships, hense the free time to sit in front of a computer.
So yeah, I think the whiners are probably losers in most all aspects of their lives and saw all of the internet dating sites, picked one that fit their masterbation fantasies, and thought it would be easier. That the hot woman/man, of their dreams was just waiting for their message. Too dense to realize that the bulk of the 'hot photos' are attached to scam profiles.....or, really clever, intelligent human beings that have the same, or even higher, expectations of internet contacts than they do of people they could meet at the local pub.
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