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MySweetSubmssive -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/3/2006 4:06:47 PM)
Who needs to rely on rumors when you do plenty of negative PR on your own?

Chaingang -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/3/2006 4:16:50 PM)
It's a fact such lists exist. I don't think you get the point of this thread, RavenMuse. The point was mainly to lampoon what the women were doing in the other thread. For my part, I like to call people out if they try to pull a bunch of nonsense. You assume much and apparently understand very little. BTW, plenty of people talk to me - what makes you think that's a problem at all? But hey, if some of the people on CM don't want to talk to me for anything I have ever stated here on the message boards that's their decision to make. I suppose you can well imagine that I won't feel the loss of companionship of people I don't want to make friends with anyway. Check out my profile - is that the profile of someone actively searching for anything?

givemyall -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/3/2006 4:31:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Chaingang It's a fact such lists exist. I don't think you get the point of this thread, RavenMuse. The point was mainly to lampoon what the women were doing in the other thread. For my part, I like to call people out if they try to pull a bunch of nonsense. You assume much and apparently understand very little. Chaingang - are you saying that you used snippets from my profile, to outline a problem that you had with someone elses comments on a different thread?

ladylexington -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/3/2006 4:48:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BitaTruble ~~~~~~~~~ Bad slaves/submissives - don't write me if: you want me to get rid of your husband you need me to help you lose weight or quit smoking you need someone to support your lazy ass you want to watch soaps all day while I'm at work you think you're going to get to eat out every night you think I'm a human flogging machine you want a maid to help with your chores you are incapable of tying your own shoes you think it's peachy keen to be a slave you look hot in leather but don't want to mess up your nails scrubbing toilets you think you can 'safeword' out of doing laundry you are irresponsible you need therapy you like topping from the bottom you're bisexual but won't do poly - what the hell is the good of bisexual monogamy? you hate sex you live for sex you don't know what sex is you don't think I can tame you you act like you're six you are six you are 60 but say your six you love pain but don't want to be hurt you need new shoes every other week and think I'll be your sugar daddy you want cyber spankings you can't write a coherent sentence you refuse to let go of past baggage you take 4 hours to get ready for a 20 min trip to 7-11 you have creditors trying to hunt you down you've never held a job longer than 6 months you're pregnant and don't know who the father is you're pregnant and don't know who the mother is you think cages are 'kewl' you think the world revolves around you you want things done exactly according to your specifications failing to realize things will be done according to MY specifications you have no idea what the word 'obey' means Kick ass list!

lilithfyre -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/3/2006 5:36:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Chaingang And again... quote: Update: Im still paddling along, I've decided to give up on the getting fit idea - so all chocolates and packets of crisps gratefully accepted hehehehe Great! Everyone loves a quitter! quote: I am looking for someone to completely enfold my life, treat me well and I will hand you my soul. Treat me badly and I have the ability to rip your head off and sht down your neck. Yeah, that's not too passive-aggressive or anything... quote:* My soul is precious to me so please tread carefully...I am clever and articulate and will NOT be treated like a mindless idiot.... But...but...but...you REALLY come across like a mindless idiot. quote: ...it will save me the job of having to sht down your neck. Where have I heard this before...? quote:* Ohhh and all that said, I'm a really nice person! Cool, because it's really hard to tell from all of the threats to shit down people's necks. quote: 3) I have young children, they don't need a new grandad and neither do I (No OAPs please). 4) I wont be your live in maid, I look wonderful in the outfit but I can't and will not cook and clean. Okay, so I am your sugar-daddy and you provide no services in return. Here, why don't I just write you a check and we can skip the relationship? quote: 7) Ohhhhh and im still a nice person MUWAHHHH xxxx Um...what's your evidence? Shitting down people's decapitated necks? Laughing my ass off, Chaingang that was excellent!!!!

Chaingang -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/3/2006 6:09:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lilithfyre Laughing my ass off, Chaingang that was excellent!!!! No, no...I can't accept such praise - it has been decided that I am without humor. Or are you just yanking my chain?![:@] I might be paranoid also. Hmmm...

Kendra -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/3/2006 6:12:11 PM)
[quote don't think you get the point of this thread, RavenMuse. The point was mainly to lampoon what the women were doing in the other thread. For my part, I like to call people out if they try to pull a bunch of nonsense[/quote] Young Man, the reason some of the women in the other thread changed the subject so drastically is because when people don't agree with you or try to get you to look at things from a different angle you insinuate, you are rude, you denigrate and you imply educational difficulties. Lots of people have lots of opinions but you have a standard set of insults and a standard set of comments when someone doesnt see life the way you do.. Stepping over dead bleeding bodies to get to the top will only land you deeper in maggoty rotting shit... accept that people have different opinions from you, accept that whatever you think they are allowed to think that way and NO amount of bullying will change that fact and learn maybe to listen and tolerate... and now you're going to call me a quitter or one of limited education... enough of your schoolboy politics and your very strident ''Listen to me!!!!!!! '' , that smacks of a child not getting enough attention.... a little bit of listening wouldnt go astray......

givemyall -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/4/2006 3:54:46 AM)
Just a little note to say thank you to all the people who have written to me in the past few days after my profile was brought to your attention, I really do appreciate your lovely comments... big thank you! The wonderful thing about Collarme is that there is such a diverse site population, there are many different views and I think that is the point chaingang is missing. We are all different, we are never all going to nod our heads in agreement, but that doesnt mean just because someone has an opposing opinion or manner they are wrong. I see loads of profiles that I dont find attractive, but im not small minded enough to believe that I have the right to tell people that they should rewrite them. Nor do I quote them all over the forums trying to belittle people for my own self gratification . Chaingang, you called my profile 'moronic' because you didnt understand the humour in it, you didn't like it and didnt agree with it - so be it, there is nothing I can do about that, you have a right to your opinion, just as I do - I personally think you are a computer coward, a small minded, thick fuckwit that wants his dumb arse kicking into oblivion... but hey - thats just my own opinion - I don't expect you to agree lmao.... now whats this block button all about?[:D]

CanadianGuy -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/4/2006 4:36:31 AM)
My biggest pet peeve is the 72% of "female submissive" profiles which say "really hot girl with a fat ugly drunk boyfriend looking for a sister slave, you can work and then come home and suck cock, and it'll be really awesome as we serve our master together, mmmk?" And of course, "don't even message me because I'm only here to have fun, not have horny dominant guys drooling on me!" Lastly, the profiles of people who aren't into BDSM but can't afford the $4 signup charge on lava life.

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/4/2006 5:40:12 AM)
Hmmm, interesting. So speaking out for your likes and what you don't like is small minded. I thought it was freedom of speech. You know, no-one would've known that the profile he referenced was yours until you spoke up about it. If he doesn't like then he has every right to say so. You need to just grow the fuck up and quit crying about it. You are such a hypocrite. You say how your profile was made in jest but when someone made a joke of it, your poowa feewings got hurt. I refer you to the first line of this post: http://www.collarchat.com/m_346973/mpage_1/key_/tm.htm Please, take it to heart. It's meant with the best of intension's.

dirtydiamond -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/4/2006 8:06:37 AM)
id say he has been asking for it with respect dd

FirmhandKY -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/4/2006 1:18:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LaTigresse Awww to heck with conservative!!! Weeds out the wankers! Well, there is that ... [:)] Sometimes taking a chance is the right thing to do. FHky

innosencelost -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/10/2006 7:03:55 AM)
I am new to this site. I am new to this world entirely. I'm not sure of protocol or any thing of the like, but i'm very willing to learn. I'm not looking to get rid of my husband or anything else. I just am attempting to figure out this world, so I can better serve him or whom ever may follow. He is still learning how all this works. Therefore, I am asking for assistance on how to...... He has commented on finding someone to better train me in the ways of this lifestyle. I am attempting to make an effort to please him. Respectfully asking for help!

KatyLied -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/10/2006 7:06:01 AM)
Just remember that the person who "trains" you will train you to his likes/dislikes. Which may vary significantly from your husband's. Why not do things together, attend munches and workshops and meet other lifestylers, see how they do things. I'm not sure you need a "trainer".

TigerLily23 -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/10/2006 7:11:52 AM)
Hasn't this topic already been exhausted???????????????????

JohnWarren -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/10/2006 7:31:34 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: innosencelost I am new to this site. I am new to this world entirely. I'm not sure of protocol or any thing of the like, but i'm very willing to learn. I'm not looking to get rid of my husband or anything else. I just am attempting to figure out this world, so I can better serve him or whom ever may follow. He is still learning how all this works. Therefore, I am asking for assistance on how to...... He has commented on finding someone to better train me in the ways of this lifestyle. I am attempting to make an effort to please him. Respectfully asking for help! Learning together is a good way to go. When I first found people to play with there were no books, no videos, no organizations and no internet. We had ideas and we acted on them. Some were wonderful; some turned out badly. But doing it together kept the three of us together and learning. Now there are infinitely more resources and all the more reason to stay together while learning about the scene and about each other

angelface183 -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/10/2006 8:35:24 AM)
Shifted Jewel, I may be a litlle late to comment on this but you are absolutely right about the contradiction of having housework as a limit and stating that you have a desrie to serve. Truthfully, I hate cleaning. I work a 60 hour work week and when I come home I am beat...and I still have to walk my 65 pound Shephard mix. I am the service advisor for an automotive repair shop. I take great pride in the fact that at least once a week someone comments on how clean our waiting area and bathroom are. People actually USE our bathroom because they feel safe. I clean it daily and check it at least twice in a day. I keep a cooler stocked with juice, water and softdrinks. Toys and coloring books are available to the kids. The magazines are current and the floor is mopped daily. I do this because it is pleasing for my customers;OF COURSE I would do it if it pleased my Master. I immediately changed my profile after reading your post. Housework is no longer listed as a dislike or limit; I may still hate it, but I love to serve and please. I may have just found a way to enjoy scrubbing my floors...after all, I am already on all fours..... angelface

RavenMuse -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/10/2006 9:11:26 AM)
The other one that oft strikes me as a little odd from those proffessing to be all about pleasing their Master, the number of them that have Massage (getting) higher, sometimes a LOT higher, than Massage (Giving).[:D]

meatcleaver -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/10/2006 9:20:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: angelface183 I may be a litlle late to comment on this but you are absolutely right about the contradiction of having housework as a limit and stating that you have a desrie to serve. I wouldn't worry. I'm supposedly a dom, I live alone and want to keep it that way and couldn't bear a woman fusing over me unless it is an activity that is decidedly arousing and I don't find housework arousing.

angelface183 -> RE: A "hint" for "subs" looking for Doms... (5/10/2006 9:25:16 AM)
ooops....I truly had meant to click "live for it " for both! Thank you for pointing that out, RavenMuse! I have made the appropriate adjustment.

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