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Lockit -> RE: Masters only below, submissive behavior and being submissive (11/20/2010 2:09:13 PM)
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ORIGINAL: anniezz338
Hi all. I've been reading and posting for a few months now and find a little confusion with some things. Like for instance, the thread here "Question of Masters Only!". I read through it and saw a little chaos about the subs posting. And I know we can post whereever and whenever we please. I also get that submission is to the submissives' Master/Dom.
What about submissive behavior? I see some very strong submissive statements and arguements made on these threads, to the point of extreme and bickering. Yes, some deserve it, without a doubt.
But, overall, isn't there a certain respect to TRUE Masters/Doms in general in the community? I mean, yes, I understand someone who isn't your Dom telling you to go do corner time would be out of line. And I may be off base saying this, but I would see my Dom expecting me to show some respect to other Doms, even if they get out of line, I can still just walk away. It didn't even cross my mind to respond to "Question for Masters Only!" post.
I'm going to address your last paragraph first. What someone's dominant expects of them is a personal matter between them and I wouldn't really have a comment about that in a situation like this. However, even if we did have a community, anyone can join that community and there is no way of knowing if they are a true anything or not. What I find disturbing is when you say that you can show respect even if a dominant is getting out of line and maybe expecting that others do this as well. For you... do what you will or whatever your dominant wants. However, for others, I would see this as expecting others to ignore and move on with someone that is out of line and they have every right to tell them where the bridge is to buy and jump off of. It isn't a requirement that a submissive act better than a so called dominant and if they chose to be so, then good for them, but sometimes an ass needs a little kicking and if it comes from a submissive, all the better! lol We other dominant's can sit back and laugh. I love when an ass, so called dominant gets their ass kicked by those they view as somehow lower in status.
Submissive behavior might attract a partner by how they conduct themselves, but it also attracts those ass, so called dominant's. Sometimes things can go overboard no matter the side of the slash people are on, but if those who prey upon the good girls because they see that they are good girls, they often will try to take advantage. I see this lack of behavior going on for many reasons and I am all for those reasons. Whether it be rights, not being owned, not submitting to anyone, a sign of independence and personality or a mode of protection... it is all good with me. However, if someone was mine, they would have rules of conduct, but an ass is fair game in my opinion and that would not be held against my submissive. Hell, he might win kudo's and a sweet lil something!
What I find interesting is that the site here has made the rules and so many try to unmake them, seemingly showing better submission or dominance in doing so. Pride in any form that goes against the house rules tends to bother me more than a lot of things. Enforce the house rules and I gain respect for you because you choose to be in the house. Those that want a community standard that isn't imposed by the house, can create their own house and rules.
(Slash, not slant! lol)
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