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forced bi - 11/20/2010 5:00:06 PM

Micheald

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I keep thinking of forced bisexuality and i am not a bisexual what am i having these thoughts for

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RE: forced bi - 11/20/2010 5:06:57 PM

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Only you can answer that completely,

Fantasies are fun and entertaining.

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RE: forced bi - 11/20/2010 5:46:30 PM

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You're horny. Beat off, get some sleep and repeat in the morning.

Dude, you have to figure this out on your own. It isn't like we know you or anything and can tell you why you feel or think whatever you do. It isn't like we can say, you just want some cock and you are bi or it's a passing thing, many feel this way when they aren't getting any... anything at all.

Now, please don't be a pathetic attention seeker and show us you have something worth, not ignoring you for. Helplessness is not attractive. (Going on all your posts that I have seen.)

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RE: forced bi - 11/20/2010 5:52:42 PM

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You're horny. Beat off, get some sleep and repeat in the morning.

Dude, you have to figure this out on your own. It isn't like we know you or anything and can tell you why you feel or think whatever you do. It isn't like we can say, you just want some cock and you are bi or it's a passing thing, many feel this way when they aren't getting any... anything at all.

Now, please don't be a pathetic attention seeker and show us you have something worth, not ignoring you for. Helplessness is not attractive. (Going on all your posts that I have seen.)

LOL, I agree, instead of an aspirin a bit of masturbation to a nice BDSM video will just do the trick... And if he wants "forced" bi, how forced is that going to be? Or will it just be an excuse to say "I didn't want it, I asked for it and then was made to do it, I feel so abused now but hey, since I was forced I'm really not bi..."

To the OP, nobody here will grab you and make you suck cock, that might be a hot fantasy but it's not going to happen. While I might not mind watching a bit of boy on boy action, it's actually a hell lot more fun to watch if they are really into it.

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RE: forced bi - 11/20/2010 5:55:27 PM

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LOL! For some reason I read that as "You're horny Lockit!" Honestly can't say just how much that amused me....

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RE: forced bi - 11/20/2010 5:59:20 PM

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ROFL! How dare you tell the world I'm horny wench!

Where the hell you hiding? You have to be in here somewhere! I'll find you and when I do... that ass is mine! (spanky, spanky!) Been wanting to do that for years!

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RE: forced bi - 11/20/2010 6:03:51 PM

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Woohooo!!!! I mean....eeep....

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RE: forced bi - 11/20/2010 6:06:06 PM

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I can't not agree more with lady Constanze.

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Somtimes bi sexualty is not enough. There's alway tri sexuality. U tried it u didn't like it..then don't do it again. Buttt..sometimes fantasies are better left alone if @ the long run is gonna mess w ur head. Explore b creative start w a dildo. The a strap on.... baby steps. One cock @ a time lol
Mind u. Everything nd anything u do is at ur intake level.. wut u honestly feel comfortable w.like and dislike, no wrong or right.
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RE: forced bi - 11/20/2010 6:21:24 PM

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Okay after all that advice i must admit it i want it, I need it and i got to have it ..so i will start my search...and do all the above thank you for helping me come to grips with it

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RE: forced bi - 11/20/2010 6:28:46 PM

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Now you're getting somewhere. Isn't it rather freeing to speak the truth? You will get a lot further being forthright about it all rather than seeking a way to hide from yourself and then others. We will also have a lot more respect for you in the process.

In a way I am sort of jumping to some assumptions here and don't want to do that. Would you say belonging to someone is more important to you or the sexual acts you wish to experience? This isn't a trick question. I won't bash you for whatever you say in answer to that. I'm just trying to see where you may be coming from, from the different posts I've read.

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RE: forced bi - 11/20/2010 6:41:34 PM

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Lockit, the fact that he is not sure if he wants a Master or a Mistress (posted somewhere else on CM) might answer that, it isn't bashing him, but it might be part of his fantasy, I feel like a kill joy here but fantasies usually don't hurt much and don't smell...

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RE: forced bi - 11/20/2010 7:00:44 PM

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I agree LadyConstanze. Sometimes there is a fine line between kill joy and... well... whatever else there is! lol I am never comfortable with being a kill joy and yet, I find that I often must be. Even for myself! lol

I'm not thinking that in a few posts, someone has turned over a new attitude or had some remarkable breakthrough. However he was brave enough to come back, so I thought to elaborate. lol Challenging, wench or bitch... I am what I am and testy I am! (Downing a can of domina spinach.)

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RE: forced bi - 11/20/2010 7:15:09 PM

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We won't poke him with our knitting needles (I would need to lean how to knit first though) and nothing wrong with just a fantasy as long as you do know it is nothing else, in case he really wants to venture out and give it a try, I guess he'd better be prepared for the reality...

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RE: forced bi - 11/20/2010 7:25:57 PM

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I think fantasies are a part of a well rounded life! Knowing what to do with them is another aspect of a well rounded life. lol When going from a fantasy to the real thing, it is best to be clear headed, even if hungry. Otherwise, you get those painful regret situations that can last longer than a fantasy can.

Whatever it is, it's best to call it what it really is. lol

PS... I got rid of my knitting needles when I kept poking myself with them. I'd rather take my knocks with something less pointy.

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RE: forced bi - 11/21/2010 10:19:07 AM

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Well put Lockit real is one thing fantasy is another. Do enjoy the humor there by some as to, oh he just horny and its true in some way with us guys.
I use to be a nude model for a girls collage once. And it not what some might think. For me it as a good time to do yoga. But this one time this girl brought in this very small dog that was looking at my dick like it was a hot dog. Keep in mind I could not move a inch. the girl was trying to hold her dog back but that dog was looking hunger and I never will forget that look as long as I live The point here is I was starting to get hard and dogs are not my thing, what what's up with that? If our dick would have a voice I think it would sound like dopey.

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RE: forced bi - 11/21/2010 5:10:00 PM

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Fear, maybe?

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RE: forced bi - 11/21/2010 7:26:53 PM

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I think fantasies are a part of a well rounded life!

Woohoo! My life must be really, *really* well-rounded, then.

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RE: forced bi - 11/21/2010 7:35:54 PM

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I think my life is an icosahedron. :/

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RE: forced bi - 11/21/2010 9:27:07 PM

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I keep thinking of forced bisexuality and i am not a bisexual what am i having these thoughts for

Starting at the least "homosexual" reason, you may find the fantasy very humiliating. You come from a culture that looks down on men being homosexual, and considers sucking dick and takin' it from behind to both be acts of submission and inferiority. (Eventually people figure out that when someone wants to fuck them, it makes them predator, not prey...) If you're into humiliation, being put to pleasure another man is probably the toughest task that doesn't involve the unwilling public. The reality is a lot like the fantasy... just stronger.

Alternatively, cocks are sexy. While pretty femme bodies are idolized, all hardcore porn has, in the words of Tyle Durden, a nice big cock leading the scene (or some cock substitute, like a dildo). Even softcore porn and underwear ads have hunky guys with muscle lines down below the hips. Strong men and firm rods are slapped in out face almost as often as perky breasts and curvy buns. It makes sense that they would tickle you. Culture, however, tries to stifle that idea. This is where "forced-bi" is so useful. Surely you don't want to get raped in prison... But a pretty mistress telling you to lovingly fluff and pleasure a man is... just fine. Putting the onus of responsibility on someone else frees the human spirit. You won't find me picking up guys at a gay bar, but when my owner says "give him a Bambi-Jay" you don't hear my feet dragging... Unless I'm crawling....

Alternatively alternatively... You may be curious about trying out some gay sex. I had a biology teacher in high school who used to say "beauty is a light-switch away." So is gender, in some respects. It's got to have merit... Lots of men are doing it =P. I think the difference between homosexual feelings and "cocks are sexy" is the relationship with the guy. Do you want to spend time with this guy after you get him off? Do you want to see him for non-sexual purposes too? If so... You might be bi. Make peace with it, cause if that's the case, it's probably not going anywhere.

81song has a good point too... The cock wants what it wants. There are stranger kinks, to be sure.

Hopefully, Micheald, you have people in your life who understand your un-understood desires and can help you explore them free of judgment.

Edit to add: My ice cream cone is gone =(

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RE: forced bi - 11/22/2010 2:38:09 AM

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I keep thinking of forced bisexuality and i am not a bisexual what am i having these thoughts for

You're the same fella who didn't know if he was interested in seeking a dom or a domme, no?

Crikey, I've known some people who didn't have their shit together but you're olympic class...! First you grow up, THEN you access *adult* sites - easy.

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