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RE: More Sharing... - 11/29/2010 9:36:24 PM

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It was an FR. But this isn't. Spiteful much?

Where did you say it was an FR?

And, nope, not spiteful at all. Why? Did you believe it was aimed at you? Did the shoe fit, perhaps?

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RE: More Sharing... - 11/29/2010 9:37:13 PM

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Besides, I already know from personal experience that any woman trying to actually take him away from me gets the boot. So.... no need to worry on my part. No competing. Just sharing and loving. I just can't fathom it being anything a resembling a competition. I understand intellectually that other people see it that way inherently but I guess that strikes me as unfortunate. That people see it as it must be a competition rather than something that just isn't for them - like the choice to be in a power dynamic or not.

Its truly wonderful that you have that assurance based upon personal experience, AS. And i do mean that because i have yet to feel that assurance through any of my relationships... even my current one. Instead, what i have witnessed over the shoulders of men are the manipulations that would have put Falcon Crest to shame ( lol... showing my age here i guess)

Its my natural tendency to simply shut down. A self-defence mechanism, if you will.

*laughs* So far it's one of the few upsides of having both friends of his (now ex-friends) trying to break us up because they didn't approve of me and a woman lying to us about her intentions and telling him that she wanted him to be monogamous with her. I'm certain that if he ever leaves me, it won't be because someone lured him away. That said, I do have insecurities. They just don't involve an outside party!

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RE: More Sharing... - 11/29/2010 9:49:53 PM

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I think:
The amount of men willing to have more than one female sexual partner is vastly greater than the amount of men willing to let their partner have more than one male sexual partner.

Even if it doesn't make you feel violated, it still takes a lot of trust, an ability to handle jealousy and a healthy amount of self-confidence. (Doubly so if we're talking about someone as pretty as Clive Owen.)

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RE: More Sharing... - 11/29/2010 10:07:51 PM

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ORIGINAL: Twoshoes

I think:
The amount of men willing to have more than one female sexual partner is vastly greater than the amount of men willing to let their partner have more than one male sexual partner.

Even if it doesn't make you feel violated, it still takes a lot of trust, an ability to handle jealousy and a healthy amount of self-confidence. (Doubly so if we're talking about someone as pretty as Clive Owen.)

that's one of the awesome things about having a Master who is supremely confident...or, let's keep it real...amazingly arrogant, lol.

the last thing he feels when watching me serve other men sexually is jealousy.

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RE: More Sharing... - 11/29/2010 10:09:32 PM

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that's one of the awesome things about having a Master who is supremely confident...or, let's keep it real...amazingly arrogant, lol. the last thing he feels when watching me serve other men sexually is jealousy.

Well aren't we finding common ground tonight!

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