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i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 11:05:46 AM   
superhorny


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Status: offline 		im new to this community and ive already found a possible slave. she keeps calling me sir which is really nice to hear. so im wondering is there a certain way that im supposed to respond to her calling me sir?or is she waiting for me to say something that most masters would say after calling me sir?
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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 11:07:24 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		you say....  'Me so horny'.

If you accept your due, why is there any need to comment?

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 11:17:09 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		If she's from Africa, you don't say anything - just send money.

Me, I'm quite particular about who calls me 'Sir' - it's an *earned* right. If you don't know how to respond, you can't handle the power. Try thinking by excluding your dick....

Focus.

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 11:17:12 AM   
leadership527


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Status: offline 		Gosh, I just don't know where to start with this. The simple answer for Carol and I is that I tend to respond with,"OMG Mine, I love you. Thank you for being mine."

I'm guessing thought that you and your sub are way more kinky than us. That probably means she IS looking for something. There's probably something you are expected to say or do to press her sub buttons and "put her in her place". I'd strongly recommend a lengthy conversation with this person about what the word "slave" means to her. Were it me, I'd start out with a question like:

OK mine... in your perfect world, what does a day in the life of being a slave look like? You wake up and then...... ?????

You NEED the answer to that question. Unless, of course, your sub is the other way around and expects you to be psychic. In that case, you need psychic pills. Dom Warehouse is currently out of stock so I'm looking for a new supplier myself.

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 12:18:02 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Oh the scammers are seeing this guy coming... okay, well not coming like in cumming, but come a runnin, cause I'm a cherry.

Next week, don't come to the boards whining because you just got scammed. Please!


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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 12:26:34 PM   
mbes


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Status: offline 		Not a dominant, but from the other side of the equation---
If I use the word sir, the response I'm hoping for depends on the situation. If it's a simple "yes sir", no response expected. It's if the end word of a request, just answer the question. If it's an, ahem, intimate moment, some endearment in return is nice. A quick hug if it's a good time and place for that (please never when driving!) is almost always welcomed.
It never hurts to acknowledge the acknowledgement of our positions, but I don't expect that at my convenience. Any time he's so inclined works.

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 12:33:14 PM   
lovingpet


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Status: offline 		If it were me (insert the word Maam if you must), I'd be quick to stop that immediately.  No one I have known for 24 hours is anywhere NEAR ready to call me that or any other thing.  We are just people learning about each other.  Then again, if I were "superhorny" I might not care. 

You're supposed to be the dom here, OP.  Your response is your own.  Figure out how YOU wish to handle it and do exactly that.  The sub can love it or leave it.

lovingpet


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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 5:09:06 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		Okay, superhorny, let me explain.

1. Your screen name suggests that you equate D/s with kinky sex, and ignore the mental aspects of it altogether.
2. You say that you've found a prospective slave.  After one day online.  To put this into perspective, I've been looking for a couple of years, and haven't quite found the proper fit yet.
3. A genuine, experienced slave is much more likely to respond to someone with experience and knowledge in the lifestyle. He or she is literally putting their life in someone's hands.  If you're not sure how to respond to someone calling you "Sir", then you have a long way to go.
4. There are numerous scammers who try to get would-be Doms interested, then hit them up for relocation money.  Chances are outstanding that you have connected with one of them.
5. I just checked out your profile.  You have expertise in television, web surfing, cartoons, and games, and want a sex slave just for weekends.  Get the hell off the Internet and join local groups and see what real D/s is, and if you really want to take part.


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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 5:21:15 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Would responding with "On your knee's bitch" be inappropriate?

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 5:59:52 PM   
Twoshoes


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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise
Would responding with "On your knee's bitch" be inappropriate?

It would certainly be unoriginal.

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 7:13:27 PM   
Darkfeather


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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Would responding with "On your knee's bitch" be inappropriate?


You of course forgot the emphatic NOW

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 8:36:43 PM   
Zevar


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quote:

ORIGINAL: superhorny

im new to this community and ive already found a possible slave. she keeps calling me sir which is really nice to hear. so im wondering is there a certain way that im supposed to respond to her calling me sir?or is she waiting for me to say something that most masters would say after calling me sir?


You are perplexed in terms of how to reply when being addressed as Sir? Let's hope she is not a scammer. In the event she is being honest I will say the following:

I could conceive of various replies when being addressed as Sir but they are my replies and not yours, thus not of much help for you as my words used by you would be merely parroted and disingenuous.

One bit of advise though, never allow a woman to render you speechless, unless of course it pleases you to do so. As a matter of fact, never do anything unless it pleases you and you have chosen to do exactly what you deem right for you and the one you choose to master.

Take care!

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 8:55:48 PM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkfeather


quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Would responding with "On your knee's bitch" be inappropriate?


You of course forgot the emphatic NOW


And the all so important, zip, "Open...."


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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 9:09:30 PM   
YoungBlondeSlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Okay, superhorny, let me explain.

1. Your screen name suggests that you equate D/s with kinky sex, and ignore the mental aspects of it altogether.
2. You say that you've found a prospective slave.  After one day online.  To put this into perspective, I've been looking for a couple of years, and haven't quite found the proper fit yet.3. A genuine, experienced slave is much more likely to respond to someone with experience and knowledge in the lifestyle. He or she is literally putting their life in someone's hands.  If you're not sure how to respond to someone calling you "Sir", then you have a long way to go.
4. There are numerous scammers who try to get would-be Doms interested, then hit them up for relocation money.  Chances are outstanding that you have connected with one of them.
5. I just checked out your profile.  You have expertise in television, web surfing, cartoons, and games, and want a sex slave just for weekends.  Get the hell off the Internet and join local groups and see what real D/s is, and if you really want to take part.



Why you hatin'?!

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/2/2010 10:43:12 PM   
Darkfeather


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkfeather


quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Would responding with "On your knee's bitch" be inappropriate?


You of course forgot the emphatic NOW


And the all so important, zip, "Open...."



au contraire ma cherie, that should be at the least implied, at the most already undertaken

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 1:44:54 AM   
DMFParadox


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quote:

ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Okay, superhorny, let me explain.

1. Your screen name suggests that you equate D/s with kinky sex, and ignore the mental aspects of it altogether.
2. You say that you've found a prospective slave.  After one day online.  To put this into perspective, I've been looking for a couple of years, and haven't quite found the proper fit yet.3. A genuine, experienced slave is much more likely to respond to someone with experience and knowledge in the lifestyle. He or she is literally putting their life in someone's hands.  If you're not sure how to respond to someone calling you "Sir", then you have a long way to go.
4. There are numerous scammers who try to get would-be Doms interested, then hit them up for relocation money.  Chances are outstanding that you have connected with one of them.
5. I just checked out your profile.  You have expertise in television, web surfing, cartoons, and games, and want a sex slave just for weekends.  Get the hell off the Internet and join local groups and see what real D/s is, and if you really want to take part.



Why you hatin'?!


Note the 12 thousand posts Steven wrote before this one. That part should be bolded too.


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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 6:48:47 AM   
poise


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkfeather


quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Would responding with "On your knee's bitch" be inappropriate?


You of course forgot the emphatic NOW


And the all so important, zip, "Open...."


I'll be sure to get it right the next time!

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 8:34:30 AM   
poise


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DMFParadox

quote:

ORIGINAL: YoungBlondeSlave


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

Okay, superhorny, let me explain.

1. Your screen name suggests that you equate D/s with kinky sex, and ignore the mental aspects of it altogether.
2. You say that you've found a prospective slave.  After one day online.  To put this into perspective, I've been looking for a couple of years, and haven't quite found the proper fit yet.3. A genuine, experienced slave is much more likely to respond to someone with experience and knowledge in the lifestyle. He or she is literally putting their life in someone's hands.  If you're not sure how to respond to someone calling you "Sir", then you have a long way to go.
4. There are numerous scammers who try to get would-be Doms interested, then hit them up for relocation money.  Chances are outstanding that you have connected with one of them.
5. I just checked out your profile.  You have expertise in television, web surfing, cartoons, and games, and want a sex slave just for weekends.  Get the hell off the Internet and join local groups and see what real D/s is, and if you really want to take part.



Why you hatin'?!


Note the 12 thousand posts Steven wrote before this one. That part should be bolded too.



There is nothing more intoxicating than a man that can offer quality AND quantity,
such as Steven does, although I hardly think he needs any spotlight in order for him to shine.

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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 8:54:18 AM   
Kana


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quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

quote:

ORIGINAL: Darkfeather


quote:

ORIGINAL: poise

Would responding with "On your knee's bitch" be inappropriate?


You of course forgot the emphatic NOW


And the all so important, zip, "Open...."


I'll be sure to get it right the next time!


Practice makes perfect :-)


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RE: i have a questin for any master that has exp? - 12/3/2010 11:55:32 AM   
Darkfeather


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Status: offline 		Education through repetition, the only way to learn

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